Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man Show
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Jul 11, 2026
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Episodes
How To Get The Spark Back In The Bedroom 26.01.2021 32:14
Episode #306 Has your marriage gone cold? Are you missing those steamy sex nights? Has it been a few days, weeks...or even months? How can you reignite that spark? The most effective way in bringing back that spark is simple: COMMUNICATION. Are you still having deep conversations with your wife? Or are you letting your business or your job consume all your energy? Prioritize that regular connectio...
Alpha VS. Beta Traits 23.01.2021 29:01
Episode #305 What's the difference between Alpha traits and Beta traits? What does it mean to be an Alpha? An ALPHA is someone who leads his own life, leads his own family, and leads his business. An Alpha is someone who takes charge, someone whose words are powerful and everyone will listen to. An Alpha leads by example. A BETA is mostly the opposite of the ALPHA. A Beta is someone who likes to j...
How To Know Whether To Save Your Marriage 21.01.2021 31:37
Episode #304 What if your wife is attracted to, or flirting with, someone else? How to know whether to save your marriage? Remember, don't fix your marriage just because of your kids. You don't want your kids going through life watching a relationship like yours, a shitty one. That's the worst thing you can do for your kids. You should show your kids how to value themselves, love themselves, and t...
How To Spot The Warning Signs 19.01.2021 22:33
Episode #303 Is your wife connecting with her family more now? Is she meeting with her friends more now without you? She's starting to build a relationship with them without you now probably because she feels lonely or unhappy. Probably she's scared that you might get a divorce. She's doing it so that she knows she has a safe landing spot. You have to know the situation. Your wife probably wants m...
One Thing You Can Do To Break A Sexless Marriage 16.01.2021 26:24
Episode #302 When you get married, it's not always going to be perfect. So when things don't exactly go the way you want them to, always remember that repairing a marriage is easier than going through a divorce and going back to the marketplace. Consider who you want to become. What are you going to do to better yourself? What are the things that you will change to attract your wife? There are man...
Groundhog's Day - Repeating The Past 14.01.2021 17:11
Episode #301 Are the complaints you have the same as the ones you had last year, or 2 years ago? Are you repeating patterns of the past? Where are we? Until we get honest with ourselves, we're not going anywhere. Change should start within you. It starts with being honest about where you are currently. Take an assessment to see if you're repeating mistakes of the past. Einstein said, "You can't so...
Drink A Little Drink... Smoke A Little Smoke 12.01.2021 35:50
Episode #300 What role does alcohol play in your life? What triggers you to drink alcohol? The potential problem here is not the drink. It's what you're using the drink for. When drinking becomes unconscious or a way to "hide out" and you repeat that pattern, that's when it becomes a problem. Women use alcohol to open up and receive, while men do it to release. Men drink to liberate their egos. Wh...
SMV 09.01.2021 23:48
Episode #299 Have you ever tried rating your sexual market value? How about your partner? How much gap do you have when it comes to your SMV's? If there's too much of a gap between you and your wife's SMV, if your wife's SMV is higher than yours, other men tend to notice it and they start to step in. When gaps happen, affairs take place. Be honest, and see if there is a gap. Take immediate action...
Revisit: When Your New Year's Resolution Seems to Repeat Itself 07.01.2021 30:00
Episode #298 Today is the 7th day of the year. A week has already passed us. And for most of us, this is the time where we set our new year's resolutions. Every year, we're making promises to ourselves about the things that we want and don't want to achieve. The sad thing is, most of the time, we achieve what we don't want to achieve and failed on things that we want to reach. Every year has been...
A Look Back On A Challenging Year 2020 05.01.2021 43:40
Episode #297 The Powerful Man pivoted big time in the year 2020. The movement brought alumni together and tackled topics about thriving during the pandemic instead of merely surviving it. This helped the men discover how they could serve their business, relationships, and communities better. While other people binged on Netflix, hiding out elsewhere, men from this group focused on how to thrive in...
How To Reclaim The "Sex Frame" In 2021 02.01.2021 29:53
Episode #296 Have you ever felt like you constantly have to ask your wife for sex and never know when you'll be having sex? Maybe it feels like sex is always on HER terms and you're constantly left feeling like your needs aren't being met and have no idea what to do about it? In this episode, we talk about what it means to be in the woman's frame around sex (when you're living in HER reality) a...
Being World Class in 2021 31.12.2020 36:09
Episode #295 What went well, and not-so-well, with the previous year? How can you step up your game and be world-class in 2021? It's important to have a clear vision and to purposefully create your goals. Review what went wrong in the previous year, learn the lessons, and do something different. Track down what your wins are as well as your losses. It will give you a greater sense of success and m...
The Myth of Unconditional Love 29.12.2020 41:30
Episode #294 Do you feel like your wife is working against you instead of working with you? Are you craving unconditional love from your wife? When you get married, everything seems perfect. But if things start to go wrong, most women start to find their way out. That's why women need emotional security from their partners. As men, we want to have someone who will stay with us through the ups and...
Where Are You? 26.12.2020 22:31
Episode #293 How often do you check in...with yourself? Do you ask yourself how you're feeling within your relationship? How you've been doing with your health goals? Or even how you're feeling emotionally, overall? In this episode, we're going to talk about the importance of simply checking in with yourself without judgment or shame. If you aren't where you feel you should be, or if you've been s...
Why Your Kids Cannot Come First 24.12.2020 24:48
Episode #292 What do you think is the driving force behind why we lose connection in our relationships? Is it a lack of prioritization? Most people say that the proper prioritization is that the individual must take care of themselves first, then the relationship, then the kids. However, sometimes the kids get sick and need your help and attention, so they are taken care of first in order for you...
The Biology Of An Affair 22.12.2020 26:31
Episode #291 Oftentimes, when someone has an affair, the partner wonders how this could have happened! To them, there were NO signs and it came out of the blue! The truth is, there are ALWAYS signs...you just have to learn how to look. In this episode, Doug breaks down the actual biology that occurs around having an affair and focuses on what that looks like for a woman, specifically. With this in...
Revisit: I Don't Need To Date My Wife, We're Too Busy 19.12.2020 25:54
Episode #290 When was the last time you took your wife on a date? If you're not actively dating your wife, you won't be able to build and grow a deeper connection in the relationship. Typically, we become so busy making money to provide for all the needs of our family that we often forget to plan a date night with our wife. This will often result in feeling guilty for not being able to offer the a...
Revisit: When Results Don't Show Up Fast Enough 17.12.2020 20:35
Episode #289 It is our nature as humans to be impatient. We want immediate gratification, and we want everything now because of the society we are living in. And yet, when we are given things that we aren't ready for we often crumble easily. In order for us to grow, we must learn through the process. It is important for us to enjoy the journey and shift as an individual along the way, allowing us...
The Greatest Loss In Life...and How To Reclaim It 15.12.2020 20:49
Episode #288 What do you do for fun? What is it that you really want to do in life? Many men work their tails off building businesses, then find themselves watching as their relationship starts to crumble. These men then do everything they can to put their broken relationship back together...and end up putting themselves last. Do you know what we always forget? We forget to have FUN! We give every...
Managing Finances with Your Wife 12.12.2020 25:34
Episode #287 Would you be surprised to hear that money is one of the top ten reasons why couples get divorced? If you've ever been in a serious relationship, you probably don't find this shocking at all. When the topic of money comes up in relationships, it's often discussed with the energy of frustration and tension. But the truth is, the reason there is frustration and tension actually has NOTHI...
Saving vs. Leading 10.12.2020 24:08
Episode #286 When your spouse is going through something, do you feel the urge to "save" her or do you want to lead her? We tend to try and solve other people's problems because we want external validation. We'd love to help other people because it makes us feel good about ourselves and makes us feel significant in the world that we live in. Saving seems to be the most honorable thing, but in rea...
The Red Pill 08.12.2020 36:01
Episode #285 This episode was inspired by a documentary film called, The Red Pill directed by Cassie Jaye. The film explores the men's rights movement, as Jaye spends a year filming the leaders and followers within the movement. Gender equality has always been an issue. But it's important to be aware that there will always be some things that women can do better than men, and vice-versa. In this e...
Two Baskets - Thinking Differently About Your Delivery 05.12.2020 30:31
Episode #284 Are you doing the same thing over and over again when it comes to solving your problems? In business, doing things differently can increase the efficiency of staff and the likelihood of customer satisfaction. A simple and subtle shift in the delivery of service is a big deal. Do things differently. Look at common complaints in every area of your life, relationships, and business. Look...
Revisit: Am I Failing As A Father? 03.12.2020 30:01
Episode #283 On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the highest and 1 being the lowest, how do you rate yourself as a father? Are you giving your children the best you have to offer? Or are you giving them your leftovers after you've given your best to your business, the best to your staff, the best to your customers, the best to your friends… Where do your kids fit into that? Are they going to be like y...
What To Do When Your Relationship Goes Stagnant 01.12.2020 27:17
Episode #282 Are you bored with your partner? What kind of conversations do you have with your wife? As a man, you should take charge of the relationship. Men should be the ones leading, bringing out fun conversations. But it's also important to make sure that your life is fun first. Spend time with yourself and develop yourself. Create space for your partner to have some time with herself, too. S...
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