The Porn Addict's Wife

How do you move on when you don't have the full Truth? And, is there such a thing? Today I'm diving into all of it and showing you that YES! You can! Not interested in repeating this year in 2025? Click here to save your seat at my brand new master class called "A Year For You". In this class held Jan6-9 I'm going to teach you how to change from the inside out so that you stop living the same year...

Or any other time of year...:) It can be difficult to set boundaries...especially with the ones we love most. So, in this episode I'm going to walk you through 6 simple steps to help you set boundaries so that you can actually enjoy your holiday season!  Want to submit a topic for the podcast? Simply message me on IG @jolenewinncoaching! Shoot me a direct message and I'll do an episode for you!  

I transformed this year in a way I didn't even think was possible. And as I looked at what created that transformation, I wanted to offer the same opportunity to you. This year I am opening up 3 private coaching spots for those who are 100% committed to going after what you've previously believed is impossible...it isn't. That version of you is waiting. And I can help you get there.  Click here fo...

Why does that thing still hurt when it happened 18 years ago? Why does it still feel so fresh? Today I'm diving into the relationship between healing and time...and why it's the best news I could ever give you! Don't miss out on the limited time chance to coach with me one on one! I am opening 3 private coaching spots for 2025 and if you know you want one, click here to schedule a FREE consultatio...

Do you find it hard to feel gratitiude when your husband is still struggling with porn? Or maybe he's getting better but you are disappointed that YOU'RE not? This week I'm sharing a personal (and very recent) disappointing experience and what I've learned through it.  If you're ready to take this to the next level and start transforming your life, I want to invite you to join my coaching program....

How do you feel more attractive? Does it come from your spouse? What if he's watching porn? How are you supposed to feel more attractive if you can't change what he's doing? If you want to feel more attractive, this episode is for you! I'm diving into what creates attractiveness and leading you through an exercise that will help you identify why you don't feel attractive so that you can then chang...

What is attraction? And, what do you do when you are no longer attracted to your spouse beacuse he's watching porn? Or how do you navigate your relationship when he's attracted to other women? Today I'm diving into the 6 most common lies we believe about attraction and why they are keeping you stuck where you are. Don't skip this one ladies!  Ready to take this and apply it in your life with perso...

Do you have someone in your life that is toxic? Or maybe it's not a person, but a situation? This episode is for you! We are talking all about what makes a person toxic and what to do!   Come join me for this month's brand new Attraction Master Class! This will be taught live inside my coaching program but I'm opening spots for you to join for the entire week plus get access to all the content and...

Do you believe in unconditional love? Do you even know what it is? Inspired by a conversation with my husband, today I'm diving into how I think about unconditional love and how I believe it connects us to God. This is a deep one that I know you'll enjoy!

Do you feel overwhelmed sometimes? Maybe it's because you're not losing weight. Or because your kids aren't listening. Or perhaps it's because of all the responsibility you are juggling. Today I'm going to dive into WHAT overwhelm is AND what creates it so that you can finally start to change that pattern so you can ENJOY the life you have! Click here to join my FREE live class "How To Stop Feelin...

Do you ever feel like you need a rest? A break from all the worry, overwhelm, and whatever is making you emotionally drained? This episode is for you. I'm talking about why this is so important to do, and how to do it the RIGHT way so that it's ACTUALLy restful.  Come join me for next week's live event! "How To Stop Feeling Overwhelmed By Your Beautiful Life". October 23 @ 12pm est. Click here to...

Do you know that the opposite of courage isn't fear? It's discouragement. And that's what today's episode is all about. What discouragement is, why it's there, and how to work past it so that you don't get stuck IN it. I'm sharing personal examples today and walking you through my journey. Whatever is making you feel discouraged right now, this is for you. 

DON'T SKIP THIS ONE! I have an announcment at the end that you won't want to miss! I'm renaming the podcast (among other things) and this will tell you all about it! Sometimes, ladies, we resist change. And we don't do the things we should...like buy ourselves new underwear because we are putting everyone else first. BUT I want to share that change can be amazing. This episode includes 9 lessons I...

Every emotion that we feel and take action from creates a by product that shapes our life. Today I'm diving into what emotional by products are and why they're so important to understand and recognize in ourselves. This is a must listen! Click here to get full details for my in person retreat! 7 spots left to join me for an intimate, 3 day getaway October 17-20 in Oak Island, NC!

What are you UNWILLING to negotiate on? Are you sure that if he had an affair you would leave? Or the next time he relapses he has to move out? Today I'm talking about non-negotiables and what to do if you have them and why you actually DON'T need them... :) Tired of living with triggers? Sign up today for my "How To Eliminate Triggers" Masterclass! Sign up to join live September 30-October 2 and...

What do you do when you're not in the mood? Is there any way to GET in the mood? Today is all about that! And, trust me ladies, it's going to change everything! Listen in to discover WHY you're not in the mood, WHAT you're not in the mood for, and what to do about it! The answers are not what you think! Come join my live class on Thursday, September 12 @ 1pm est! This is a FREE call where I am goi...

Want to create the life you want? The relationship you dream about with yourself, your body, your husband? This is how you do it. Today I'm breaking down WHY you have the results you currently have in your life AND how to change it. Today. Let's go.  Register today for my FREE class: "How To Break Free From Your Husband's Pornography Problem" on September 12 @ 1pm est. In this class I am going to...

Today I'm sharing a personal story. And how I'm letting go of it. I'm diving into what our stories are, why they are there, and what to do when they are no longer in our best interest.    Come join me for my next FREE live event: How To Break Free From Your Husband's Pornography Problem! Thursday, September 12 @ 1pm EST! Click here to register! Ready to come meet me in person? Come join me at my i...

Do you feel uncomfortable, self conscious, insecure, or threatened by other women? This episode is for you! I am going to lead you through an exercise to help you uncover what's going on internally so that you can start to process through this AND change it!    Click here to join me for the free Retreat Info Call on Thursday, August 22 @ 12pm est. 

Ladies, this year's retreat will be more powerful than any I've done before. Because it's time to go on offense. In this episode I'm giving you all the details of what the retreat will be like and what you'll learn there. If you're ready to go on offense, come join us. We're going forward.    Click here to sign up and save your seat at the retreat today! Only 12 spots left!   Click here to sign up...

Ladies, anger isn't just yelling and getting in fights. Sometimes, anger can be sneaky and we can be feeling it even when we think we aren't. Today I'm going over 5 common ways that anger is expressed incognito! AND why it's so important to become aware of them.    Struggling with anger? Come join me for my brand new Anger Management Master Class! August 19-21 @ 1pm est! I am going to teach you ho...

I used to yell at my kids A LOT. And I hated it. But I felt like I didn't know how to stop it. If you struggle yelling at someone in your life or getting in arguments, this is for you. I'm going to break down exactly how I stopped yelling and how you can too so that it stops creating a negative affect in your life.  Come join me for Anger Management! This is a new master class I'm teaching inside...

What do you want to receive in your life? Because it's all available to you. It just might be something inside of you that's blocking it. In today's episode I'm diving into all the internal blocks that could be preventing you from having the thing that you want. Let's dive in!   

Your primitive brain is keeping you alive. But today I'm going to teach you exactly HOW your brain is doing that-and how it can often be to your detriment. Not only will you learn more so that you can learn how to change it, it will also help you understand more about what's going on in your husband's brain too!   Click here to join me for today's FREE live event on how to solve your husband's por...

A sunk cost is an investment you can't get back. Today I'm applying that idea to emotions and relationships and diving into what happens when you have an emotional sunk cost and what you should do about it.  Join me next week for me FREE live, one day event! In this class 'How To Solve Your Husband's Pornography Problem" I am going to teach you how to stop the false control and hustling that is le...