The Pleasure Priority

In this week's episode, Amber's back again with Serena Hicks for a bonus episode!  Amber recounts a rich experience she shared in Serena's Big Happy Money Mastermind about a man asking for a bag of chips in the grocery store.  However, he laid out A LOT more issues than a bag of chips could possibly fix. To change your life you have to be willing to change your thoughts and actions, rath...

In this episode, Amber takes the hot seat and is interviewed by Serena Hicks of Big Happy Money. They discuss how she was able to create 5 clients in a 3 week period after consistent $0 months. Learn what changed the game for Amber, what led to her transformations, and how she used pleasure to create her results.  Over the course of the last year Amber got a divorce, moved in with her parents...

In this week’s episode, Amber dives further into the concepts from last week and processing emotions with another tool, disassociating from the emotion. Not in the sense you may think, we still want to feel the emotion, but we don’t want to identify with it in the sense that it is who we are instead of what we are currently feeling. Understanding this, you will be able to process and allow emotion...

In this week’s episode, Amber takes time to recognize the recent tragedies in the United States around gun violence. She breaks down her own emotions and how she processes them. She takes us through step-by-step process of identifying, accepting, and releasing all of the feelings that come up for her both physically and mentally. Amber encourages you to take time to take care of yourself in these...

This week, Amber talks about the opinions of others and the weight of those opinions. It's a topic we all experience in one way or another, but Amber reminds us that other people’s opinions ain't got shit to do with you! She calls on you to ask yourself what you are making others thoughts of you mean? At the end of the day, we truly don’t know what anybody else is thinking about us, so ultimately...

This week Amber connected with special guest, Crystal Morgan, the Self-Confidence Coach. Amber and Crystal discuss building self-confidence and loving all the intricate and unique pieces of you. The conversation ebbs and flows between their own personal experiences in creating confidence and the concept of the Three P’s of Insecurity discussed in Crystals podcast. Crystal dives into the meaning of...

In this episode Amber has a conversation with a very special guest, Hailey Thomas*, and they tackle the topic “The Armor of Excellence.” The Armor of Excellence describes the protective shield that we create for ourselves shrouded in excellence, and how the constant pursuit of excellence becomes perfectionism and how that can become detrimental. This armor works both ways; It protects you, but it'...

This week Amber is talking all about friends and more specifically how to recognize and deal with when friendships end. She explains the nuances of different types of friendships, different seasons in each others lives, how to recognize when a friendship is no longer serving you and the difference between growing apart and falling off.  It's jam packed with her own experiences and those of he...

This week Amber discusses some common family dynamics between parents and adult children based on her own experiences and her friends as well. She talks about how to handle those dynamics in the best way for you and when boundaries can come into play. She discusses what a boundary is, what it isn't, and how you can set and hold healthy boundaries in your life.  She urges you to give yourself...

This week Amber discusses the importance of honing your relationship to ambiguity and uncertainty. She breaks down the major moves, money risk, and life changes she is going through that has all been made easier by developing her relationship with the unknown. Amber challenges you to make peace with everything you can't control and take ownership of what you can. If you aren’t sure how to do this...

This week Amber talks about what human beings are always seeking or avoiding. She explains that we are biologically wired to seek pleasure and avoid pain, and how that affects the decisions we make - friends, partners, jobs, style, food, literally everything.  When we're conscious of our brain's biological needs we can find ways to create that experience in ways we actually want to now instea...

This week on the Pleasure Priority Podcast, Amber talks about something many people think is optional, a luxury, or something you have to earn. She’s talking about rest, something that is a birthright and an action all human beings need to function as their best selves. Amber breaks down the importance of resting, taking breaks, and slowing down and how this could help you have a better outcomes i...

This week on the Pleasure Priority Podcast, Amber talks about why we beat ourselves up and how we can stop. The only thing the we get from beating ourselves up is beat down, so why do we keep doing it? Amber explains what your brain is actually seeking when it does this and how you can give your brain what it needs in a way that better serves you and your goals.  She uncovers how you can have...

On this episode of The Pleasure Priority, Amber talks about a concept she's calling Over Accountability. The over indulgence of accountability in other people's emotional wellbeing and actions.  A behavior we're not necessarily responsible for creating, but responsible for healing. Anyone who's had to reparent themselves, she's likely talking to you. In this episode, you'll learn how to ident...

We've all been told about the "path". That if we do the right things and be a good person, then we can be happy. Go to school, get a job, invest, be a good girl, find someone that completes you, have babies, and then you'll be happy.  This week, Amber dives into how blindly following this path is problematic. How essentially what we all want as a result of following this path is true freedom....

This week I talk about dating after divorce with special guest Sade Curry. We dive into our stories and share our honest truths and a lot of laughs. Sade gives expert insight into dating and offers key advice to finding your next partner.  Sade Curry is a Certified Life and Relationship coach and the host of the Dating After Divorce podcast. She went through a difficult divorce after a 17 yea...

This week, Amber follows up with a Part 2 in her mini series with Why Did I Get Divorced? In this episode, she talks about the personal growth she experienced that facilitated her ability to choose herself first and leave the marriage despite the dreams she had for it and the idea she had for her life.  She identifies the moments where she realized that her relationship can be different, it c...

This week, Amber dives into the first part of the Why I Got Divorced Mini Series with Part 1: Why Did I Get Married? In this episode she talks about what led her to make that decision and some of the differences in her thinking now versus then. She walks you through her story of love, potential, and ultimately putting herself first. Hear her story unfold as she learns to become the main chara...

In the aftermath of Cheslie Kryst's death, Amber talks about life and how lonely it can feel in those rough patches. How taxing it can be to continuously strive to be the best, always at the top of your game, never take breaks, and be the example for people who wish they could be in your position. She talks about how the weight of that load is not yours to bare and the importance of advocating and...

This week Amber is talking all about Pleasure. What it is, what it's not, why it's important to your daily life, and how prioritizing your own pleasure is revolutionary. 

In this episode, Amber talks all about discomfort and how to balance pushing past your comfort zone without breaking yourself past your limits. She explains the importance of discomfort in your life and how to increase your ability to tolerate it so you can get through to what you want. 

On today's episode of The Pleasure Priority, Amber dives into the concept of completing something vs. trying to do it perfectly and how striving for perfection is often the enemy of success. She explains why getting something done is better than doing it perfectly, why we strive for perfection, and how to retrain your brain around it.  You can find more about Amber and how to work with h...

In order to love yourself, you gotta like yourself first. In order to like yourself, you gotta accept yourself for who you are as you are first. In this 14 Day Challenge, you will get daily reminders and activities to change your relationship with yourself and lead you to true self acceptance.  Join the challenge HERE .