The Perpetually Overdue Podcast

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. Exploring the nature of reality, free will, and the possibility that we are living in a simulation. The conversation delves into philosophical questions about existence, consciousness, and the meaning of life, inspired by mov...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. This week, we explore the fascinating world of morbid curiosities, why humans are drawn to dark themes, and how understanding these impulses can foster empathy and self-awareness. CONNECT WITH US: Instagram - ⁠https://www.ins...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. In this episode, we explore the unique challenges and strengths of neurodivergent creatives and common obstacles we face. We share personal stories, practical tips, and insights on managing neurodivergence while pursuing crea...

We're your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. This episode explores the relevance of performing arts like ballet, opera, and theater in the modern world, contrasting them with cinema and digital entertainment. It discusses a controversial comment by a celebrity about...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. This episode explores the resurgence of analog and tactile experiences in a digital world, covering topics like analog technology, physical hobbies, and the importance of intentionality and community in modern life. CONNECT W...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. This week, we explore the cozy living trend, its cultural roots, and how it serves as a sanctuary in turbulent times. Discover practical ways to incorporate coziness into daily life for mental, physical, and emotional well-be...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. This AITA (Am I The As*hole) episode explores various real-life scenarios highlighting issues of boundaries, professionalism, and personal integrity. From daycare disputes over Veggie Tales to wedding planning chaos, we disse...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. With current events unveiling in the United States, the topic of Cults has come back around. This episode explores 6 characteristics of cults, how organized religion can sometimes mirror cult-like traits, and the importance o...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. In this episode, we explore the significant impact of millennial women on societal norms, particularly in relation to feminism, mental health, and independence. We discuss the importance of breaking generational chains, cutti...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, we dive into a series of HOT TAKES from Reddit that explore the nuances of fiction versus reality, the cheeky idea of bringing back duels, and the legalization of weed and p...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. In this episode, we explore the phenomenon of self-improvement burnout, discussing its roots in generational trauma and the impact of social media. We delve into the evolution of self-help culture, the toxicity that can arise...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, we delve into the therapeutic aspects of romance novels, discussing how these stories serve as emotional support and coping mechanisms for readers. We explore the resurgence...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, we explore the concept of stepping into one's 'villain era' as a form of self-love and empowerment. We discuss the importance of being 'unbothered' in a...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, though we will trigger diehard Swifties, this is too important to us not to discuss, especially as ex-Swifties. We delve into our personal histories as fans, where the decli...

We’re your hosts, Heather and Desiree, two millennial late bloomers consistently behind in life, talking about it all: love, loss, trauma, spirituality, books, and much more. We’re back! Season two, baby! In this festive episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, we dive into our favorite Christmas traditions, movies, music, food, and memories. We share personal anecdotes about our holiday experi...

In the finale episode of Season One of the Perpetually Overdue podcast, we reflect on our journey, share our favorite moments, and discuss the bittersweet feeling of concluding our first season. We celebrate achievements and perform our own Awards Ceremony, and express our gratitude for this amazing audience. Looking ahead, we reveal exciting plans for Season Two, including new formats and themes,...

In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, hosts Heather and Desiree discuss the concept of 'Art in Crisis,' exploring how art serves as both a reflection of societal issues and a means of escapism during turbulent times. They delve into the changing landscape of celebrity culture, the exhaustion felt by audiences, and the importance of accountability in the face of cancel culture...

In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue podcast, we introduce a new series, Book Chat, where we delve into a book or series. This week, we’re chatting OG trilogy of the Shatter Me series by Tahereh Mafi. We explore the characters of Juliet, Adam, and Warner, analyzing their dynamics and growth throughout the series. The conversation highlights the evolution of Warner's character, the signif...

In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, we chat about the concept of self-care vs performative self-care, especially in the context of social media. We share our new segment of This Week’s “Hot Take”, explore generational differences in self-care practices, and emphasize the importance of inward self-care over outward facing self-care. The conversation highlights the impact of social m...

In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, hosts Heather and Desiree delve into the complexities of social media as a marketing tool, discussing the pressures of engagement, the importance of authenticity, and the challenges posed by algorithms. They explore the impact of social media on mental health, the necessity of backup plans for creators, and the balance between maintaining a prese...

In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, hosts Heather and Desiree explore the unrealistic expectations set by movies and media, particularly regarding high school experiences, romantic relationships, and travel. They discuss how these portrayals can lead to disappointment in real life, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the difference between fiction and reality. The conversatio...

In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, hosts Heather and Desiree reflect on their younger selves, offering advice and insights gained through life experiences. They discuss themes of self-esteem, cultural identity, people-pleasing, and the importance of living in the present moment. The conversation emphasizes the lessons learned from past mistakes and the significance of setting boun...

In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, hosts Heather and Desiree explore various themes in literature, focusing on the tropes that attract them to books. They discuss their pet peeves in reading, the allure of romantic tropes like enemies to lovers and fake dating, and the significance of strong female heroines in stories. The conversation also delves into the psychological aspects of...

In this episode of the Perpetually Overdue Podcast, hosts Heather and Desiree explore the complexities of making friends as adults. They discuss the challenges faced by millennials and other generations, including gender dynamics, emotional depth, and the impact of life stages on friendships. The conversation delves into the role of online communities, the importance of common interests, and the s...

In this episode, Heather and Desiree discuss the male loneliness epidemic, particularly how it has been exacerbated by the pandemic and quarantine. They explore the impact of social isolation on men's mental health, the rise of AI girlfriends as a coping mechanism, and the potential dangers of relying on AI for emotional intimacy. The conversation emphasizes the importance of human connection...