The Pearls and Perils

In this episode, Peta-Kay is joined by Afua, better known as Natural Barnet on social media. A serial entrepreneur, wife, and mother, Afua shares her inspiring journey of navigating marriage, motherhood, and entrepreneurship while building a thriving six figure haircare business. Afua opens up about the difficult decision to walk away from the successful business she had built and the courage it t...

What do body image, confidence, and your bank account have in common? More than you might think. In this episode, Peta-Kay shares her personal journey with body image and insecurities, revealing how the way we see ourselves can shape our spending habits and financial decisions. Together, we explore self-love, confidence, and practical ways to build healthy, sustainable habits that support both you...

In this episode, Peta-Kay explores how societal, cultural, and family expectations can shape our choices and influence how we navigate our lives. Whether you're uncertain of your career path, relationships, lifestyle, or sense of purpose, this conversation will encourage you to pause, reflect, and ask yourself an important question: Am I building the life that I actually want? Topics: relation...

In this episode, Peta-Kay explores one of the most overlooked relationship green flags and lessons she's learned in marriage over the last 7 years. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this episode offers practical relationship advice to help you identify healthy love, recognise relationship green flags, and build stronger, more meaningful connections. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you...

In this episode, Peta-Kay celebrates International Women's Month by reflecting on the achievements of inspiring women, societal changes, and personal growth. She discusses the importance of authenticity on social media, the impact of upbringing and culture, and explores the complex dynamics of toxic motherhood. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info...

In this episode of the Pearls and Perils, Peta-Kay shares a personal life update, lessons learned from navigating challenges, and insights on vulnerability, community, and being a safe place in your relationships. She discusses the importance of letting go of the 'strong woman' narrative and embracing support from your community. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share a...

In this episode of the Pearls and Perils, Peta-Kay shares her personal journey of marriage from getting married at 23, the lessons learned and advice for those considering marriage. She explores key aspects and areas of compatibility to consider when choosing a spouse. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info@pearlsandperils.com⁠ or send a direct message...

In this episode Peta-Kay explores social media and whether it is stealing our joy, she shares her experience hosting her Galentine's event and candidly discusses changes she's noticed in hormones since turning 30. She also shares a special announcement. Join the Patreon community for exclusive bonus episodes & community: https://patreon.com/PearlsandPerils Book a Finance coaching sessi...

In this episode of Pearls and Perils , Peta-Kay reflects on the lessons that shaped her January, from celebrating her birthday to navigating the realities of planning an event. She opens up about the emotional and logistical challenges of event planning, the pressure of always being “the strong one”. Peta-Kay dives into why financial literacy is critical for women, the importance of stability in e...

Are you exhausted from always trying to fix other people’s problems? In this episode of Pearls and Perils, Peta-Kay explores the superhero complex when helping others becomes harmful. She shares her personal experience and explore the difference between helping and enabling , and how trying to save everyone can prevent both you and the people you care about from growing. If you have a dilemma (per...

This episode explores the complex and painful topic of Spiritual abuse within churches. Peta-Kay addresses why this conversation is necessary now and how it manifests within faith communities. She shares her personal experience from being in an abusive church for 10 years. She discusses the realities of unhealthy church environments, the grief that comes with recognising harm in a place once trust...

The Ghetto Therapy series begins with a raw and candid conversation. Returning guest and friend Chante opens up about her experience with financial abuse from a parent , shedding light on a form of abuse that often goes unspoken. We explore how financial abuse can exist in parent child relationships, the emotional toll it takes, the financial impact and why recognizing it is the first step toward...

There’s something about turning 30 that brings clarity and discomfort at the same time. In this episode, I open up about the lessons no one prepares you for. From shifting goals and visions, evolving friendships, changing relationship dynamics, the beauty of partnership, and the fragility of life itself. And sobering reality that no one is coming to save you! If you have a dilemma (peril) that you...

In this episode, Peta-Kay breaks down her personal investing strategy to build over £100,000 in investments by 40 . She shares mistakes she's made in her investing journey, her long term investing strategy and the principles guiding her investing decisions. This episode isn't financial advice but is a transparent look at her personal journey, mindset, and approach to building wealth steadi...

If you’ve been stuck setting goals, losing momentum, and telling yourself you’ll start “next month” or “in January,” this episode is for you. We’re breaking down the common traps that keep you stuck an endless list of goals, relying on motivation, having no goals whatsoever and repeating the self-sabotage cycle. Getting into motion isn’t about doing more, it’s about creating follow through. In thi...

In this episode, Peta-Kay is joined by her husband Theo as they reflect on seven years of marriage. Together, they share the lessons they've learned, the challenges that shaped them, and how they’ve grown both individually and as a couple from their early 20s into their early 30s. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info@pearlsandperils.com⁠ or send a...

In this episode, Peta-Kay explores how lifestyle aesthetics without healthy foundations can impact on our finances, health and relationships. She also shares her experience of navigating turning 30 this year and a mini life crisis she had. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info@pearlsandperils.com⁠ or send a direct message to @⁠yourfinancept⁠ on Instagr...

In this episode, Peta-Kay explores how our understanding of friendship shifts as we grow through life. From adjusting expectations to recognising the challenges we rarely talk about, she unpacks what it really means to mature in our relationships with others. She shares personal insights on: Letting go of the idea that every friend should show up the same way Learning to speak up and articulate yo...

Turning 30 can come with a mixture of reflection, pressure, and a lot of anxiety! In this episode, Peta-Kay is joined by returning guest Chante for a candid, heartfelt conversation about the expectations we place on ourselves and the reality of entering a new decade. They unpack the highs and lows of their 20s, the idea of “30 syndrome,” and the emotional rollercoaster that often comes with milest...

In this episode Peta-Kay welcomes back returning guest Chante Bennett, an experienced Online Business Manager for an authentic conversation about positioning your business and personal brand online. They dive into the common mistakes entrepreneurs make when positioning their brands, the importance of serving your customers and being ethical in business . They also tackle the dangers of operating i...

In this episode Peta-Kay shares the challenges of being a people pleaser, how to set healthy boundaries and how to support the people pleasers in your life. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email:  info@pearlsandperils.com  or send a direct message to @ yourfinancept  on Instagram. Book in a finance coaching session with Peta-Kay:  www.pearlsandperils.com Subs...

In this episode Peta-Kay explores the idea of pursuing the love that you deserve vs the love that you desire and how the experiences we face in life can influence our perception of the love that we believe we deserve. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email:  info@pearlsandperils.com  or send a direct message to @ yourfinancept  on Instagram. Book in a finance...

In this episode Peta-Kay explores how childhood experiences and lessons learned from our parents and guardians can influence how we manage our finances as adults. She shares 3 main factors she's identified from Financial coaching her clients that can influence our behaviour. Book in a finance coaching session with Peta-Kay:  www.pearlsandperils.com use code 'POD24' at checkout to get 1...

In this episode Peta-Kay shares some practical tips on what you can do if you've found yourself in a job or career that you hate, but feel trapped in due to financial reasons. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: info@pearlsandperils.com or send a direct message to @yourfinancept on Instagram. Book in a finance coaching session with Peta-Kay: www.pearlsandperil...

In this episode Peta-Kay shares some life updates and explains why she's been absent from the podcast over the last 2 months. Register for the 6 month Finance Reset webinar 4th July 2024 at 7:30pm BST: https://www.pearlsandperils.com/service-page/webinar-6-month-reset?category=b85378f8-d694-455e-8d9c-37e39fcc42e3&page=&referral=service_list_widget If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to s...