The Passenger Seat

In this episode, I talk about how hard it can be when someone you care about is constantly carrying stress, anger, or frustration and how sometimes that energy ends up landing on you. I'll share a personal story about navigating a friendship where things feel good one day and tense the next, leaving me feeling drained, hurt, and questioning myself. This isn't about blaming anyone; it's about recog...

Sometimes it only takes one conversation to learn something important about yourself. In this episode, I talk about how a brief interaction with someone I wasn't interested in ended up showing me exactly what I don't want in a future partner. It's funny how the people we're not emotionally invested in can sometimes reveal our values the clearest. I'll share how a simple conversation made me reflec...

Do you ever look back at your life and wonder why the same situations keep happening over and over again just with different people? In this episode, I dive into the question: Does God keep sending us the same lesson until we finally learn it? From crushes and relationships to emotional attachments that seem strangely familiar, I reflect on the patterns I've noticed in my own life and the lessons...

You thought you were over it—out of sight, out of mind, healed and moving on. Then suddenly, there they are… and your heart forgets every ounce of progress you made. In this episode, we dive into that overwhelming moment of seeing your crush again after time apart—the adrenaline, the overthinking, the tiny details you replay a thousand times. Is it a sign? A test? Or just unfinished emotions resur...

This year forced me to sit with a lot of emotions I didn’t expect. I stepped away from posting because I was processing a connection that left me with more questions than answers. In this episode, I talk about what it’s like when someone impacts you deeply but the story ends before it really begins. It’s about heartbreak, reflection, and slowly learning how to move forward even when part of your h...

Today I want to talk about something a lot of women experience but don’t always name — having a coworker crush, the unspoken tension, and how other people can sense it before anything is ever said out loud. I had a quiet, complicated connection with a coworker. Nothing inappropriate, nothing obvious — just subtle energy, eye contact, teasing, and moments that made me feel seen. It was the kind of...

Something has definitely changed. Lately when we talk, the whole room fades — it’s like it’s just me and my work crush. His jokes? Only for me. Those flirty comments? He doesn’t give them to any other girl. For the longest time, I questioned it. I wondered if I was imagining the tension, the looks, the little moments only we noticed. But now… the signs are too strong to ignore. In this episode, I...

You know… it’s wild how people can twist things when they only know half the story. For a while, I let all that noise get to me — I started doubting what I knew, doubting what I felt. But lately, I’ve learned that you can’t believe everything you hear unless you’ve heard every side. This episode’s about that — about how people love to come for others, to fill in blanks they were never part of. And...

Everything started so unexpectedly — a spark in the middle of routine shifts, quiet jokes, shared looks, and moments that made work feel lighter. What began as friendly connection slowly grew into something deeper — unspoken but felt. I thought we understood each other, that there was trust, respect, and maybe even something more. But then it all fell apart. The same person who once made me laugh...

This podcast is my space to unpack the messy in-betweens of love, friendship, and faith — the longing to know who’s really meant to stay in my life and who’s only passing through. From crushes that confuse me to prayers for clarity, I share the vulnerable, unfiltered thoughts of someone trying to make sense of hearts, timing, and destiny before the year ends. It’s about holding on, letting go, and...

So I had this coworker crush—someone I got along with, had flirty tension with, and for a while, I thought there might be something there. We’d joke, tease, share these charged little moments that made me think, okay, maybe this could turn into a real friendship—or more. But then came the reality check. One day, he told me straight up—he likes to keep work and personal life separate. Basically, a...

Let’s get one thing straight—I love a little fun gossip. Catch me in the breakroom for the tea, no problem. But in this episode, I’m venting about the kind of work drama that crosses the line—from coworkers who can’t mind their business to people messing with actual patient care. That’s when it stops being cute and starts being stressful. I’m talking about how all this unnecessary chaos is making...

This weekend wasn’t just any weekend—it was the last one we’d be working together for a while. The air already felt different going in. All that unresolved tension, the history, the back-and-forth… it had built up to something. And I knew it. I felt it. The plan? Simple: I was going to say something. Do something. Maybe finally make it clear. But of course, nothing is ever that straightforward. Be...

Okay, so here’s the scene: I’m out with my cousin—she just turned thirty, and she’s going through it a bit. Feeling insecure, no relationship prospects on the horizon, and apparently spiraling. I didn’t even plan this little outing, by the way—my mom lowkey assigned me to take her out. So we’re out, I’m trying to make the best of it, and I think we’re having real girl talk. Like, I open up about t...

In today’s episode, I’m diving into my personal work-life drama and how I shot my shot at my crush. It all started with me giving him a casual opening, just enough of a hint that it was time for him to ask for my number. I thought it was subtle enough, but instead, things got complicated. People at work started to think he was giving me special treatment, when honestly, I’m just someone who gets t...

Hey everyone, welcome back to the pod! Today, I’m spilling the tea on something a little personal — my work crush. 😅 You know that feeling when you just know there's a spark? Well, that’s exactly what’s been going on. There’s this guy at work, and honestly, it started off as just a little crush. But lately... it’s been feeling like something more. The way we interact has shifted — there’s more ey...

In this episode, we explore why some people project negativity and criticism onto others. Often, this behavior stems from their own internal struggles, insecurities, and unhappiness. Instead of focusing on personal growth, they may attempt to diminish others to feel better about themselves. Understanding this can empower you to not take their words personally and to continue pursuing your happines...

You know that fluttery, dizzy kind of crush—but this one feels…different. In this episode, I dive into what it’s like to meet someone who flips your whole perspective. I’ve never been the type to daydream about babies or marriage, but with him? It doesn’t feel forced. It feels natural. Comfortable. Like maybe, just maybe, he could be the one. Join me as I unpack the excitement, the vulnerability,...

What happens when your best friend confesses his feelings, only to back away once you finally let your guard down? In this episode, I share the raw, unfiltered story of friendship turned almost-love—how he pulled me in, pushed me away, and why I stopped answering his calls… until the day I finally did. This is a story about vulnerability, self-protection, and learning to forgive—not for him, but f...

Okay, so picture this: I walk into work feeling cute, mentally prepped, because I just knew I was going to see my work crush today. Last time I saw him, we were so close to having a real conversation — like, we made eye contact, he looked like he was coming over — and then… boom. He had to run to the bathroom. Literally vanished mid-moment. Tragic. So naturally, I was hoping for a do-over today. B...

In this episode, I talk about a situation with my neighbor that’s been on my mind. I’m trying to figure out if he might have a crush on me, but honestly, I’m not sure. He’s been getting his life together lately—getting a new job and making some positive changes—but I’m left wondering if there’s more to it. I keep overthinking the signs, trying to interpret his behavior, but I can't quite tell if I...

In this episode, I dive into the exciting (and nerve-wracking) world of work crushes! I talk about my latest interactions with my work crush and try to decode the signs—does he like me, or am I just reading into things? From subtle gestures to confusing moments, I break down every detail in an attempt to figure out where I stand. If you’ve ever found yourself questioning the vibes at work, this ep...

In this episode, I let it all out! Join me as I vent about the chaos at work, the drama that just won’t quit, and the stress that’s been building up all day. From annoying coworkers to impossible deadlines, I’m airing it all in this raw and honest conversation. Grab a coffee (or something stronger) and listen as I unload about the frustrations and the madness that come with navigating a tough work...

Join me on Crush Chronicles as I dive into the whirlwind of past crushes and unexpected reunions. It's been a while since I’ve seen them, but life has a funny way of bringing old faces back into the picture. From reminiscing about those butterflies to navigating new encounters, I’m trying to decode the mystery of boys—because let’s be honest, I still don’t understand them! Tune in for candid stori...

In this episode, I’m sharing a story about having two work crushes—and the unexpected twist that came later. I met these two people at different times and didn’t know it at first, but they were actually already best friends and roommates when I started getting to know them individually. Talk about an awkward surprise! I dive into the experience of having crushes at work, the complexities of keepin...