The Parenting 411

Research has shown that emotional intelligence, or the ability to manage one's emotions and to perceive and affect the emotions of others, has at least as strong an influence as academics on a child's future success. That's just one reason why Ashley Finley is so passionate about intervening early to teach young children to manage big emotions. We talk about her ideas as well as her book, Jade's S...

The prospect of attending college should evoke optimism and excitement for teens as they take their next big step toward life exploration and fulfillment, 'on their own'. Yet, the college journey is more often fraught with stress and fear. Teens (and their parents!) can quickly become so overwhelmed with paperwork, testing, visits, financial aid and 'all of the things' that they lose sight of what...

As parents, we willingly sacrifice a lot for the sake of our children's happiness and well-being. In the process, we sometimes neglect our relationship with our spouses and parenting partners. They may not be able to verbalize it, but children find security and stability when our parental relationships are peaceful and collaborative. We have to be intentional and committed to keeping our connectio...

On the day you got married, divorce was far from your mind. You were committed to see it through "until death do you part". Yet, you've found that the marriage and the dreams you attached to it have died even you are very much alive. It can be hard to walk away even under the worst of circumstances. If this sounds like you, I know you'll want to hear from today's guest, Marie Mosley. She recounts...

In Spring 2021, The U.S. Census Bureau reported that there were thirteen hundred new blended families formed every day in the U.S. As many as 75% said they needed resources to ease the transition to their new family dynamic. Where can they turn for help? Today's guest has written a book recounting her experience in the blended family she created and thankfully, she freely shares many lessons that...

Today's episode is a quick take with host Carol Muleta, featuring a recent interview she did with the Black Speakers Network. Hear how she got started, whom she likes to serve and why she is so passionate about serving. Learn more about Carol Muleta and The Parenting 411®️ at www.carolmuleta.com Let's stay connected: Website: carolmuleta.com IG: @the_parenting_411 TikTok: @theparenting411 Facebook...

Increasingly organizations are realizing that their success is riding on their ability to effectively cultivate a diverse workforce and unleash their knowledge and creativity to meet customer needs. They can only tap into this well of innovation when they ensure ALL employees feel included, valued, and empowered in their workspaces. For adults, this can require a major mindset adjustment -- includ...

For some parents, guiding their scholar athletes to the NCAA is like feeling their way through the corn maze at a fall festival. In addition to new rules, parents and athletes must consider other critical factors to ensure that their college experience prepares them for life after their playing days are over -- adulting in the real world. Here to share her expertise is Monique A.J. Smith, a leader...

Obstacles in our life journey as children often allow us to uncover new understanding about ourselves and they shape how we move in the world as adults. Today's guest, author Juan Lee describes his journey and how he came to see love as a unifying force in societal systems. Today, he teaches others how to tape into it for greater understanding, connection, and success. Guest: Juan Lee, Speaker and...

Joining me today is Dr. Laura Froyen, she works with parents and families to bring find connection, joy, and balance as they nurture and guide their children. She's got tips for parents trying to make sense of it all while staying in touch with themselves in the process. Learn more about Dr. Froyen at https://www.laurafroyen.com Guest: Dr. Laura Froyen, Couples & Family Therapist

Sometimes, we adults look at the lives of our children and think it's all giggles and play time, without much to worry about. The fact is children often carry serious, weighty concerns in their minds and hearts. They need space and time with us to unload it, examine it and release it. My guest today understands children's stress all too well. She is Dr. Roxanne Daleo, the Stress Reduction Speciali...

Over the last few years, racial tensions have heightened significantly and reports of police-involved shootings of Black boys and men have sharply increased. It's no wonder that Black mothers are worried for their safety of their sons at every age now. I sat down with Altovise Pelzer and Anissa McCall Wilson to discuss their thoughts, concerns, and coping strategies as they watch their sons naviga...

Thanks to innovation and technology, there are so many directions for teens to explore in education and careers. It's best to start the journey with a plan and that can be tricky without goals and self-awareness. Success Strategist Linnita Hosten is just the person to get your teen or young adult on track. She has the expertise and the enthusiasm to lead young people on the road to their fulfillin...

In today's conversation, we talk about the mental health of our children as they head back to school in the wake of so much trauma. There's the pandemic, but there has also been political and societal unrest as well as mass shootings, in and out of school. How can parents assess how their children are handling it all? My guest, Taharka Sankara, has some ideas. He is a licensed clinical social work...

Join me for a conversation with Michael Fineman as he shares his experience as a single Dad and the passion he has developed for helping parents build loving and intentional connections with their children. As he shares the life-changing observations from his journey, I know you will be inspired. Learn more about Michael Fineman https://motivationalparents.com . Guest: Michael Fineman, Marketing &...

As lawmakers continue to debate the merits of a uniform national parental leave policy in our country, families are making choices that work for them. The sacrifices they make include reduction of family income, stunted career progression -- two of the biggest. Still today's guest extols the benefits of taking time off to care for your children. Far more women than men make this choice. Yet, Journ...

In this episode, I sit down with Alan Stevens who has done fascinating work with organizations and individuals to teach the communications skills and understanding that go beyond mere words. He has applied his expertise in communication and intelligence profiling to guide parents to better understand and communication with their children. Learn more about Alan's work at www.alanstevens.com.au Gues...

Entrepreneurship is not for the faint of heart, at any age. Having a great idea might just be the easiest step of the journey. After that, it takes a certain drive, passion, belief in one self, and mindset to really jumpstart your business and keep the engine running. It can take years to build momentum and start making steady revenue. So, how is it that we read about young people in their early 2...

In this next installment in the Show Up As You Glow Up series, I speak to Germonique Ulmer and Alesha Dominique, to amazing moms who are talented and highly regarded professionals. They share sage advice and shed light on key decisions they made to honor who they want to be for their children and families as they blaze trails in their careers and continue making a powerful impact in their organiza...

In today's episode, we explore Ronit Plank's coming of age memoir in which she chronicles her evolving relationship with her mother, who left the family and moved to India to follow Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh, a cult guru who later oversaw the largest biological attack on U.S. soil. In this episode, we talk about complex family dynamics as well as the quest for self-identity, understanding, and reconc...

There are many forces in daily life vying for our time and attention, from work, school, and community involvement to caring for family members. Throw in the internet, our 24-hour news cycle, social media and the constant stream of electronic media and communications and it becomes hard to operate on purpose and, in alignment with, our core values. Children have it particularly hard as they have n...

For many, motherhood is a dream come true. They delightfully immerse themselves in the role as they care for their children and create precious family memories. In addition to being moms, they are also employees, manages, business owners...the list goes on. It can be easy to lose touch with your identity when you're trying to cover so many bases. Melissa Dawn Simkins talks with me about choices sh...

So many women struggle to practice self-care consistently. They keep waiting for time to magically open up in their schedules for it. Life doesn't work that way. Self-Care is a decisive act. Today's guest, Shamyra Parker Evans, has explored the barriers that hold women back from taking good care of themselves. She teaches women healthy ways to consistently honor their needs in mind, body, and spir...

In this episode, I sat down with Yolanda Taylor, stylist, talk show host and Founder of At the Style Table. Her clients include women entrepreneurs and corporate executives as well as public speakers and politicians. Tune in and hear how she uses her passion for fashion to help women "of a certain age" look their best, and show up well on any stage or any page! She has a few tips especially for Mo...

Two-thirds of parents in the U.S. say parenting is harder today than it was 20 years ago, with many citing technologies – like social media or smartphones – as a reason. My guest today is author, speaker, and content creator, Trevor Romain. He is doing his part to foster good social and emotional health in children so that they can lead happy, healthier lives. He has years of experience having rea...