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We started this series asking “What is purpose?” We debunked the myths about what it’s not. We talked about practical steps to discover yours and how to actually live it daily. Now, in this last episode of the Purposefully series, I’m closing out with the nuggets. Some came from mentors. This one’s from my heart to yours. I hope it helps you stay the course.

You've been listening. You've been taking notes. You've been nodding along and saving the episodes and sending them to your friends. But if we're being completely honest — you still wake up on Tuesday morning and live the exact same way you did before any of this. Not because you don't want to change. But because nobody has told you how. And I don't want this series to just be one for the books yo...

We've spent the last two episodes clearing — demystifying the myths, unlearning the wrong definitions of purpose . And Now In Episode 3 of Purposefully, we get into the question every listener has been asking since Episode 1 — how do I actually discover my purpose? The answer isn't a personality test or a five-year plan. It's a relationship. And in this episode I share some practical steps in disc...

What if everything you've built has nothing to do with why you're here? In Episode 2 of Purposefully, we get brutally honest about the things our generation has been mistaking for purpose — our jobs, our status, our achievements — and why even the most successful people can feel completely empty inside. Well, purpose was never meant to be something you earn. It's something you're given. Grab a cup...

We've been lied to about purpose. 👀 Growing up, most of us were taught that purpose = career. Get the grades. Get the job. Get the title. And somehow, you'll feel fulfilled. But what if that's not the whole truth? Well, In the first Episode of the series PURPOSEFULLY, I share what purpose really means and how you might have been in someone else’s lane unknowingly! As always, I’d love to connect w...

New series alert!! What does it actually mean to live on purpose? Purposefully is a new series by The PAB Chat, created for those who are done performing for the world and ready to start living for something deeper. For Each episode on this series, we will get honest — about calling, identity, pressure, comparison, and what it looks like to trust God with the life you're building. This isn't a ser...

In this episode, I sit down with a newly married couple for an honest and insightful conversation about what it really takes to build a healthy relationship. We talk about the importance of boundaries and open communication, how to navigate the delicate balance between recognizing red flags and extending grace, and what it means to grow spiritually together as a couple. Whether you’re single, dati...

In many cultures, men are taught to be strong, stoic, and emotionally guarded. But what does love actually look like in the heart of a man—especially one striving to follow Christ? In this episode, we explore the intersection of how men experience love, biblical leadership, emotional vulnerability, and what it truly means to love like Christ. Join us for an honest conversation about the heart of a...

“From he’s just my Best Friend to He’s my Husband” In this episode I have a heartfelt and honest conversation with Tolu, my friend from way back and she shares her journey of the transition from being a single girl to being married . Whether you’re single, engaged , newly married or years in ~ this episode will challenge you to think about love not as perfection but as partnership. I'd love to con...

What do you do when you desire love… but it hasn’t found you ? On this episode , I talk about the period of waiting with a special guest who shares her personal journey through the waiting season before finding love. Together, we unpack what it really means to embrace singleness instead of just enduring it. If you’ve ever felt forgotten, delayed, or pressured because you’re single — this conversat...

Can We Talk About Love? It’s February, and suddenly is red,pink, and heart-shaped. Love is in the air or at least, that’s what every store, instagram ads and vendor is telling us. In this episode, we’re cutting the noise of the valentine season and talking about real love not from movies , instagram or TikTok but according to God’s word.

Happy New Year! Better late than never right ? 2026 is already ticking and the momentum is starting to fade. At one point or the other at the start of every year we have all said : “This is MY year” but if we are being honest , does our expectations at the beginning of year match our reality at the end of year? In this episode, I share my most profound thoughts and lessons coming into 2026 and how...

2025 was one for the books and should be documented. I know I’m late to the party but it’s better late than never😉. If you enjoyed this episode please share across your various social media platforms. Don’t forget to leave a comment. Cheers🥂

As I approached my birthday few days back, I was thinking about some of the things I accomplished in the previous year and how much I’ve grown. And bruhh, God has been good! Tune in for an inspiring and honest conversation about my journey and what God has been teaching me. I'd love to connect with you ,reach me on: Boluwadep16@gmail.com Instagram: @ponmiiley X: @Zaileyy3

Whew! Feels like I went MIA right? Oh yes I did! I had all the plans to serve you guys back to back with episodes but you know what's more important than all of that ? your girl SURVIVED! cause bruh I went through it . Most importantly now, I'm BACKKk and tea has been served😘😜 Enjoy! and don't forget to rate the podcast. I'd love to connect with you ,reach me on: Boluwadep16@gmail.com Instagram:...

Ngl January flew! Like play like play the year is counting and to make the best use of the year we need to make each day count . In this episode , I share the things I’ve been learning and how I’m gradually shaping 2025 into becoming my best year yet . Enjoy ! and don't forget to rate the podcast. I’d love to connect with you ,reach me on: Boluwadep16@gmail.com Instagram: @ponmiiley X: @Zaileyy3

Cheers to the first episode of 2025! If we are being honest 2025 is looking like a very serious year and we must not be left behind. This is that year where we achieve all our goals and our lives take an upward shift,Amen? Amen 🙏🏾 Enjoy the episode and don't forget to rate the podcast. I’d love to connect with you ,reach me on: Boluwadep16@gmail.com Instagram: @ponmiiley X: @Zaileyy3

This episode was supposed to have gone out on the 31st of December last year but network had other plans. Better late than never innit?? Yes So I’m refusing complacency and posting it here regardless . In this episode , I let you guys in on my reflections as I reviewed my 2024. I hope you enjoy it 😘

Eku odun oo🥳🎁 From the beginning of December, to my birthday, to a retreat, this December has decembered a lot more than any other December. I share a little about changes I’ve noticed in my life, Christmas this year and how my year is ending . Compliments of the season the PAB Chat fam 🥳💕 Enjoy !

One day you’re 16 adapting to uni life, and the next you’re 25 achieving goals you had at 16 while faced with unexpected turns of life . The journey here has left me with some of the most profound lessons in life that I share in this episode. I hope this episode reminds you of how amazing you truly are and how that the experience of our lives are a puzzle that can lead to greatness , if we tackle...

Hey PAB chat fam , it’s been a long couple of months and I thought to share with you why I have been away. Listened to the end? If you loved this episode, I'll love to hear from you and don't forget to share🥰 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwaponmile-boluwade/message

Fighting consistency and struggling to be present here , but I’d not give up, we pinnnn🥰. This episode is a follow up to the last , you should check it out if you haven’t. What do you think about materialism , pls leave me a comment .https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwaponmile-boluwade/message

Girlll, you’ve been bought with the precious blood of Christ , so you need to carry yourself and act like you are worth more silver ,gold or any other expensive commodity . In this episode I rant about how materialism is so crazy and it’s time to drop it fr. Send a voice message here if you want to share a comment : https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwaponmile-boluwade/message

This conversation has been long coming, I’ve wanted to talk about it for a while and I’m so glad I finally had it . I mean better late than never rightt?😌. Featured an amazing guest on this one . She has a YouTube channel and I’d love for you to check it out here : https://youtube.com/@oluwatomisin.oyelakin?si=k7GnykITGSneFbzP

Sometimes my perfectionist self records one episode one too many times . Found this gem in my draft from one of the recordings from my last episode . Too good not to share , so here you go 🥰💗