Chelsea

The Other Woman And The Wife

Society EN ↓ 93 episodes

Welcome to *The Other Woman and The Wife* , where we navigate the complex terrain of affairs with radical honesty, deep compassion, and zero judgment. I'm Chelsea, and I've walked this path myself—from the shadows of secrecy to the light of self-discovery. After my own affair led me to divorce and ultimately to the love of my life, I realized that the narratives we're fed about infidelity are incomplete, shame-laden, and often harmful to the very people who need support most. This podcast isn't about right or wrong, good or bad. It's about the messy, beautiful, heartbreaking reality of human c...

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Chelsea

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#18 Lessons of 19 YEARS in an Affair w / Julie 27.08.2023 37:37

Topics of the podcast: How the affair started Growth in relationship Not to die in a relationship Deciding to leave Why don't men leave marriages? Qualities for lasting relationships Good and bad reasons to marry AP The spark ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recover...

#17 Leaving Unhappy Marriage For Her Best Friend w/ Kristin 20.08.2023 34:23

Topics of the podcast: Kristin's "affair" The "idea of" vs "actual" relationship Dating yourself Decision to leave the marriage Convincing a guy to care who does not care Relationships without obligation Finding a new group of friends Maintenance of a striving relationship ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here...

#16 Should You Tell His Wife About The Affair? 13.08.2023 19:07

ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#15 Who To Tell About Your Affair? 06.08.2023 22:18

#14 Community, Throuple & Monogamy | 014 30.07.2023 31:33

This is a special episode where we talk about insider topics from the community, throuple relationships and models to lasting relationships. Topics: Women in the community Throuple Experience Monogamy 5 love languages Manifesting Stan into my life ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recov...

#13 How No Contact Hurts & Messes Up Your Life 23.07.2023 24:25

How do you handle no contact? Resist the urge to text him.. To think about him.. Going through the whole process unscathed. In this episode I share my thoughts on the process and how other women in the community are handling their experience ghosting someone they love. I explore the male and female perspective, how no contact can be seen as a form of abuse and how you can ease going through the pr...

#12 When Will He Leave His Wife? Can You Trust Him? 16.07.2023 28:45

How do you know your affair partner will leave his wife? Can you even trust your AP? How does he follow up on his word? In this episode I share how it all went down with me and Stan, how women can make their own decisions and how that translates into the dating scene. Topics: Building trust Decision to leave Dynamics of moving forward Dating Checklist Understanding your partner ASK US A QUESTION W...

#11 Story time: Widow Grieves Death of Affair Partner 09.07.2023 25:46

How do you experience an affair as a widow? How does it feel to grieve the death of your affair partner? In this episode I share the story of 76 year young "Roxy", how she met her affair partner after her husband passed away and my thoughts on her experience. Thank you "Roxy" for sharing your story with me. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our pod...

#010 How to NOT Fall Out of Love in your Relationship / Affair 02.07.2023 26:26

How can you prevent falling out of love in your relationship? Chelsea shares her fear of meeting another man, losing self-control and the potential of entering a new affair. Falling out of love with her husband and how to prevent it. She discusses how to sustain a healthy relationship with her partner & the mindset involved to be successful in a long-term marriage. Topics: Losing yourself Imma...

#009 How Does Guilt & Shame Manifest in an Affair? w/ Luna 25.06.2023 17:44

Luna gets to ask Chelsea burning questions on infidelity. Hindsight on her dad's affair How did she perceive infidelity as a child Abandonment of religion Thoughts on infidelity before cheating Accountability and allowing to be involved in an affair ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit your question here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Co...

#008 Can Women Fall PREY to Cheating? w/ Luna 18.06.2023 29:23

Did you ever connect infidelity with women's empowerment? Luna delves deep into the complexities of infidelity and its connection to women's empowerment. Breaking societal norms, Luna challenges the notion that women who seek satisfaction outside their committed relationships are selfish, shedding light on the interplay between infidelity, patriarchy, and women's empowerment. Drawing f...

#007 Why Do Men Cheat? 11.06.2023 29:04

Do men cheat because they don't have the ability to be honest? Because they have tons of unmet needs, wants and desires that they don't know how to communicate to their spouse? Or could it just be that they like to hurt people? In this episode I sit down with Kevin to discuss male infidelity. We talk about: Why infidelity happens in marriages The psychology of cheating in men vs women Masc...

#006 Can you Prevent Affairs? 04.06.2023 24:22

Can you prevent infidelity in a marriage? Chelsea discusses her stand point on eradicating affairs in society and shares her struggles in moving forward with her affair partner. Topics discussed: Preventing affairs Stan's story in and out of the US Moving from affair to a healthy relationship Chelsea's why of making infidelity mainstream ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other wom...

#005 Betrayed Wife Shares Her Story on Being Cheated On w/ Nicole & Sarah 28.05.2023 38:30

ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#004 Q&A How To End the Affair Without Breaking My Husband? 21.05.2023 35:59

#003 Confronting Infidelity in Marriage w/ Greg 14.05.2023 29:52

#002 Q&A: How Do You Get Over a Secret Long-term Affair 07.05.2023 29:03

ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#001 Betrayed Wife Falls in Love with Someone Other Than Husband w/ Veronica 30.04.2023 35:37

Veronica was the betrayed wife and the other woman. I wanted to understand what went through her mind, how she dealt with falling in love with someone who wasn't her husband, and get her perspective now that this is all over. She is also a child abuse survive and we delve into the topic of parenting and what it means to be a good mom as a single parent. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions fr...