Chelsea

The Other Woman And The Wife

Society EN ↓ 93 episodes

Welcome to *The Other Woman and The Wife* , where we navigate the complex terrain of affairs with radical honesty, deep compassion, and zero judgment. I'm Chelsea, and I've walked this path myself—from the shadows of secrecy to the light of self-discovery. After my own affair led me to divorce and ultimately to the love of my life, I realized that the narratives we're fed about infidelity are incomplete, shame-laden, and often harmful to the very people who need support most. This podcast isn't about right or wrong, good or bad. It's about the messy, beautiful, heartbreaking reality of human c...

Author

Chelsea

Category

Society

Podcast website

redcircle.com

Latest episode

May 25, 2026

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Episodes

#44 Gangster Gate and Passion Driven Work 02.06.2024

In this weeks episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into "Gangster Gate," where a group of women doxed members of Chelsea's online community. They explore the dramatic events and their fallout. Chelsea shares her experience and the valuable lessons learned from this challenging situation. They also discuss the struggles and triumphs of building a controversial business from scratch, dri...

#43 Is Your Affair a Painkiller or a Refuge? 26.05.2024

In this week's episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the complex motivations behind infidelity by defining and distinguishing between "painkiller" and "refuge" affairs. By facing past traumas and recognizing unhealthy patterns, they discuss how addressing the root causes of infidelity can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Join us for an insightful discussion on...

#42 The Affair That Resulted In a Decade-Long Marriage. 19.05.2024

In this weeks very special episode we are joined on the podcast by non other than Chelsea's husband, Stan. Join them as they discuss the intricate terrain of love, resilience, and personal growth after partaking in an affair. From Stan's immigrant roots to the complexities of their relationship dynamics, they offer raw honesty and shared wisdom, illuminating the transformative power of com...

#41 Whose Happiness Comes First – Mothers or Children? 12.05.2024

In this thought-provoking episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve deep into the often overlooked aspect of motherhood: the mother's own happiness and well-being. Join us as we explore the tendency for mothers to prioritize their children's experiences over their own, the societal expectations placed upon mothers, and the impact of relationships, like marriage, on a woman's happiness.   Jo...

#40 How The 20 Year Affair with My Brother in Law Worked Out 05.05.2024

Episode Description: This week Chelsea is joined in the studio with a special guest, Grace. They delve into the intricate layers of Grace's life, where she candidly shares her journey through a decades-spanning marriage. Discover the profound impact of infidelity on Grace's life, as she opens up about her 20-year affair with her brother-in-law, unraveling the tangled web of emotions, guilt...

#39 Why Do People Stay and Cheat Instead of Leave 28.04.2024

This week Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the concept of opportunity cost in relationships, emphasizing the human tendency to prioritize external factors like financial stability and social standing over personal well-being and growth. They discuss how pro's and con's lists can lead to analysis paralysis, hindering individual growth within relationships. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions...

#38 Does The World Change or Does How You View The World Change? 21.04.2024

In this week's episode, Chelsea & Ann Marie embark on an exploration of how marriage, infidelity, motherhood and many other factors transformed the way they viewed the world. Dispelling common misconceptions along the way, they bravely share their experiences of embracing new mindsets. As they reflect on the transformative power of flexibility over rigidity, listeners are invited to join t...

#37 Am I Giving Him an Ultimatum or Setting a Boundary? 14.04.2024

In this weeks episode join us for a thought-provoking exploration of boundaries, self-care, and the profound impact they have on the fabric of our relationships. Get ready to embark on a journey of empowerment and connection as we navigate the intricate terrain of setting healthy boundaries. Topics: Distinguishing boundaries from ultimatums. Understanding self-abandonment. Empowerment through boun...

#36 Chelsea Jubilee Reaction 07.04.2024

Chelsea reacts to her own guest appearance on an episode of Jubilee centered around infidelity. Join Chelsea as she pulls back the curtain on this experience and talks about what it was really like on this set. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for 1:1 Coaching OUR LINKS Website: ...

#35 From Trolling to Dialogue: A Betrayed Spouse Shares His Journey 25.02.2024

ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for 1:1 Coaching OUR LINKS Website:  theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#34 On The Other Side Of Infidelity w/ Melanie 21.01.2024

ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for 1:1 Coaching OUR LINKS Website:  theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#33 Twin Flames, Validation & Real Love w/ Kristin 14.01.2024

Chelsea & Kristin discuss infidelity, the essence of love, societal expectations of relationships, and the concept of soulmates or twin flames. Rather than sticking to societal norms, they emphasize the paramount significance of cultivating self-love, seeking internal validation and nurturing genuine self-understanding. They explore the idea that one's relationship with oneself sets the fo...

#32 Male Emotional Affair Gone Wrong w/ Marty 07.01.2024

Marty shares his complex journey about an emotional affair he had while being married for 20 years. He details his struggle with balancing his love for his wife and the feelings for his affair partner, while also dealing with personal growth and realization. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Commu...

#31 Why He Won't Leave Her w/ Minister Jamie 10.12.2023

In this episode of The Other Woman and a Wife, host Chelsea is joined by minister Jamie to discuss the topic of infidelity and why women often find themselves in competition with one another. They explore how societal expectations and upbringing shape women's perception of themselves in relation to men, the importance of passion in relationships, and the complexities of reconciling after infid...

#29 Growing Up in a Toxic Family Environment w/ Kaity 19.11.2023

Get  10% off  your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link:  https://betterhelp.com/theotherwoman Description: Katie shares her story of growing up in dysfunctional families, dealing with emotionally unstable parents, and the trauma these experiences have inflicted on her. Katie extensively shares her childhood experiences, detailing how her parents' unhappy marriage and sub...

#28 From Shame to Growth: Therapist Talks Infidelity w/ Romi Cumes 12.11.2023

Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwoman Description: Romi Cumes is a leading professional in somatic and relational psychotherapy, bodywork, yoga instruction, and intuitive healing. She supports people to explore the profound relationship between somatic (body-centered) awareness, inner-healing and personal growth.  In this...

#27 Former Pastor got Accused of Cheating w/ Dave Capozzi 05.11.2023

Dave Capozzi is a former evangelical pastor turned teacher. Dave shares his personal experiences with infidelity, including unexpected proposals and accusations. Chelsea and Dave explore deconstruction, the challenges of marriage within the confines of religion, and the importance of trauma-informed care. Topics Personal Experiences with Infidelity The Impact of Marriage and Expectations The Decis...

#26 Exploring the Intersection of Religion and Infidelity w/ Bible School Black Sheep 29.10.2023

Topics: fear of being ostracized purpose of religious relationship religious deconstruction fear of hell miss-use of religion religion & human development community Mal's links: Tiktok Mal's Paintings ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LI...

#25 From Resentment to Healing: How a Betrayed Husband Overcame the Pain of Infidelity w/ Luke Shillings 22.10.2023

Luke is relationship coach specialised in infidelity recovery. In his previous marriage he got cheated on by his wife. He now uses that experience to help the betrayer and betrayed parties to heal from their affairs. This episode is packed with personal stories and insights. Topics: Luke's infidelity experience The Role of Feelings and Emotions Decision to stay Wanted and Unwanted Emotions Bou...

#24 Q&A: Did he use me? Is he having Sex with his wife? 08.10.2023

ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website:  theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#23 How Money Influences your Relationship & Independence w/ Julie 01.10.2023

Topics Lack of money Independence Leaving without money Finding a job Value system around money Schedule your  15min free call here ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website:  theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@theow...

#22 Betrayed Wife Stays in Marriage After Affair w/ Kayti 24.09.2023

Topics Kayti's betrayal story Being honest with emotions leading military couples after infidelity Fear in affairs Avoiding infidelity in marriage Choice in affairs Managing kids after the divorce What men are allowed to do.. letting go of identity Schedule your  15min free call here ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN H...

#21 Leaving Husband for Best Friend w/ Suzi 17.09.2023

Topics How did the affair start? Distance through no contact Feeling used by AP Signs of the universe Christianity & Adultery Dissecting to move forward with AP Women judging women Honesty between betrayed parties Focus on yourself Impact of affair on children Schedule your 15min free call here ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here H...

#20 How To Forgive Yourself After the Affair 10.09.2023

Schedule your 15min free call here ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#19 How to Reinvent Yourself After Divorce w/ Marissa Baker 03.09.2023

ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

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