Sharon Goh & Désirée Jamerson

The Other What

Society EN ↓ 22 episodes

THE OTHER WHAT brings together two Atlanta-based queer women of color who are navigating the intersection of mid-life experience, divorce, lesbian identity, building community, and living as multiple “others” in the heteronormative world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Author

Sharon Goh & Désirée Jamerson

Category

Society

Podcast website

theotherwhat.com

Latest episode

Oct 30, 2025

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Episodes

Lesbian Hall Passes & Dating App Fails - with Erinn Thompson 30.10.2025

In this episode, the hosts dive into relationship dynamics and the pitfalls of modern queer dating, specifically exploring "Lesbian Hall Passes" and common "Dating App Fails". This discussion features guest Erinn Thompson. The conversation flows from navigating lesbian identity, to relationships, to mid-life experiences as queer women of color. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more infor...

Chosen Family: Identity, Roles & How You Identify 23.10.2025

This episode of The Other What focuses on the concepts of identity and the roles individuals adopt and how they choose to identify themselves. This discussion aligns with the broader mission of the podcast, which centers on two Atlanta-based queer women of color navigating lesbian identity, mid-life experience, divorce, building community, and existing as multiple "others" in a heteronormative wor...

We're Back 16.10.2025

Welcome back to The Other What podcast for the start of Season 3. We've missed you all and encourage you to tune in for the rest of the season. The episode is planned as an "AMA with The Other What" (Ask Me Anything). The discussion touches on major life changes, including one host becoming "pretty much a parent now". This person is also described as a "powerlifter" and a "new woman," offering to...

Black Gay Pride Atlanta 12.05.2025

Join Atlanta-based queer women of color, Sharon Goh and Désirée Jamerson, as they navigate mid-life experiences, divorce, lesbian identity, community building, and living as multiple “others” in the heteronormative world. This episode is dedicated to Black Gay Pride, focusing particularly on the history and experience in Atlanta. Sharon and Désirée discuss the origins of Black Gay Pride, sharing p...

Restaurant Week - S2 E7 - The Other What 07.04.2025

Desiree and Sharon discuss favorite restaurants in Atlanta, outside of Atlanta, and internationally, highlighting queer and people of color-owned establishments. Atlanta The Consulate: Near Midtown Martyr Station. Menu changes every 3 months based on a globe spin. Owned by a Black interior designer and Asian chef. Oriental Pearl: Buford Highway. Traditional Chinese dim sum. Sharon went there for l...

Catch Up 19.11.2024

This episode of The Other What podcast offers a candid look at international travel, touching on themes of diversity, cultural exchange, and personal growth. Desiree's experiences challenge listeners to consider their own travel perspectives and the unexpected lessons that can be found in new places. Ready to hear more about Desiree's European adventure? Tune in to the full episode of The Other Wh...

Uh, Ya Got Kids? - S2 E5 - The Other What 23.07.2024

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Coming Out in Your 40s - The Other What - S2 E4 16.07.2024

In this candid episode of The Other What, hosts Sharon Goh and Désirée Jamerson sit down with their special guest and friend, Erinn, to discuss the powerful and emotional journey of coming out in her forties. The conversation covers Erinn's upbringing in a deeply religious family and the realization of her true identity. Erinn shares vivid anecdotes, including an eye-opening trip to Philadelphia,...

Women's Health - The Other What - S2 E3 25.06.2024

In this episode of "The Other What" podcast, Sharon Goh and Désirée Jamerson delve into various aspects of women's health, combining humor with informative discussion. Désirée shares her recent experience of undergoing a colonoscopy, breaking down the process step-by-step to demystify the procedure and alleviate common fears. She highlights the importance of preventative health measures and encour...

"You've Got... White Privilege" - The Other What - S2 E2 11.06.2024

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"Where Y'all Been?" - The Other What - S2 E1 04.06.2024

Kicking Off Season 2: From the Closet and Beyond In the premiere episode of season two, hosts Sharon and Désirée reflect on their experiences since season one, including significant life transitions such as new jobs and relationships, as well as divorce. They share humorous anecdotes and deep conversations about Valentine's Day, reconnecting with old friends, and embarking on a travel adventure to...

"Breakups" - The Other What - S1 E10 13.02.2024

Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color living in Atlanta, Georgia, introduce their podcast, “The Other What.”  They started the Other What podcast to share their stories and explore race, queerness, and growing up in the South. They discuss their friendship and how they bonded over their experiences growing up. Find us on our website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , and follow...

Our Third Spaces (S01E09) 06.02.2024

Sharon and Désirée reminisce about where they hung out in the 2000s: lesbian bars, gay bars, lesbian parties/pop ups. Mentioned in this Episode: "Nowhere to Party - The Decimation of Queer Spaces for Black Lesbians" - LGBQ Nation "Moby Dyke" Cruising: A queer documentary podcast DJ Vicki Powell on queer nightlife, a changing Atlanta, and the art of throwing a party ZAMI NOBLA -...

Dating by Decade (S01E08) 06.02.2024

In this episode, Désirée and Sharon discuss their dating lives by decade - from partying in their 20s to all-inclusive vacations in their 40s. tiktok.com/@ceewilldotcom "We're Atlanta Queers" Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color living in Atlanta, Georgia, introduce their podcast, “The Other What.”  They started the Other What podcast to share their stories and explore race,...

Burlesque & The Business of Boobs (S01E07) 23.01.2024

Désirée and Sharon reminisce on Atlanta 90's nightlife. They review the "Empire Strips Back" cabaret show wrapping up it's Atlanta run and talk about the Atlanta strip club culture, lesbians and race. Mentioned in this Episode Empire Strips Back: https://theempirestripsback.com/atlanta/ The Clermont Lounge: https://www.clermontlounge.net/ Blondie (of Clermont Lounge Fame): https:...

What's Your Flavor? (S01E06) 16.01.2024

In this episode, "What's Your Flavor?," Sharon and Désirée discuss why they date the people they date -- touching on race, their different upbringings and their personal values. They dive in to how their values have shifted over time. Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color living in Atlanta, Georgia, introduce their podcast, “The Other What.”  They started the Other What podcas...

Our Ideas of Love - The Other What - S1 E5 09.01.2024

From Furniture Building to Family Love: Exploring Parental Influences In this heartfelt episode, hosts Sharon and Désirée dive deep into the ways their parents have influenced their perceptions of love and relationships. They share personal anecdotes, from Sharon's father's humorous grocery store encounter to Désirée's parents' affectionate marriage. The conversation touches on the contrasts betwe...

Hey Mom & Dad - The Other What - S1 E4 02.01.2024

Coming Out Stories: Realizations, Firsts, and Family Reactions In this heartfelt episode of The Other What, Sharon and Désirée delve into the pivotal moments of their lives when they realized they were gay, recount their first queer experiences, and share the emotional journeys of coming out to their parents. Sharon recounts her high school days, navigating confusing crushes and the eventual reali...

Queer Family Dynamics - The Other What - S1 E3 26.12.2023

Family Dynamics and Growing Up Queer in the South Join hosts Sharon and Désirée as they dive into the complexities of family dynamics and growing up queer in the South. In this episode, they share personal stories about their upbringing, exploring how their families viewed queerness through the lens of religion and cultural backgrounds. Désirée opens up about her childhood in Savannah, Georgia, wh...

Lesbian Labels - The Other What - S1 E2 19.12.2023

Diving into Lesbian Labels: Exploring Identity In this engaging episode of The Other What, hosts Sharon and Désirée delve into the intricate world of lesbian labels. With a plethora of new terms emerging since they first came out, the duo embarks on a journey to understand and discuss the 27 types of lesbians listed on OnceUponAJrny.com. From "stud" to "chapstick lesbian," they explore how these l...

Getting to Know Her... - The Other What - S1 E1 12.12.2023

Welcome to The Other What Podcast: Episode 1 In this inaugural episode, hosts Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color from Atlanta, Georgia, introduce themselves and share their unique stories. They delve into their experiences growing up in the South, navigating race, queerness, and community. From hilarious anecdotes about mistaken identities to heartfelt reflections on their friendship, th...

TheOtherWhat.com 21.09.2023

" The Other What " is a podcast that brings together two Atlanta-based queer women of color who are navigating the intersection of mid-life experience, divorce, singlehood, lesbian identity, building community, and living as multiple “others” in the heteronormative world. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theotherwhat/message Hosted on Acast. See acast....

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