The Origins Of Loving Us

Part 3 of 3 The Inner Fight Do you believe in the idea that you would one day be in a relationship with a woman that's healthy? If you are a man who wants to figure out where they can be better for the woman that you want in your future be honest about that. Stop finding issues with every woman you meet as if you're trying to make every woman you meet for you. Because in life, there will a...

Its Part 2 of 3 Women changed over time because the demands of life included us doing more, while most men refused to share the home and family load. Ignoring the need to emotionally and physically be present...Hence a lot of women not wanting to have kids, not wanting more kids... not wanting marriage because they fear becoming your mom... losing a spouse because mentally you are a child. A lot m...

Being a woman today and overhearing the discussions men have about women... it's giving... y'all hate women. Is it the pushback on gender roles? Is it the economic pressure that most men don't want to participate in? Is it men who need to grow up in character and empathy... refusing and not liking the outcome? Is it just hurt men who don't have the words to express how they can&#39...

Yeah, we got a part three because that shit couldn't fit so here we go welcome back to the origins of loving us. We're gonna wrap this up. I promise. In reality this whole episode could've been more episodes because we went down different rabbit holes. But we enjoyed our audience. We enjoyed the comments and we enjoyed just explaining how character and integrity is deeper than what peo...

Clearly, we got more to say it's a part two. But if you haven't listened to part one, what are you doing here? Thank y'all so much for checking out the podcast and if you would like to listen to the podcast live and give feedback live do it on the Stereo app. #theoriginsoflovingus #afterthebreakup #nocontact #toolu  @chanbepoddin /IG/ Twitter Chanbepoddin.com @therealwillray Twitter @w...

Integrity /inˈteɡrədē/ Integrity refers to the quality of being honest, having strong moral principles, and consistently adhering to ethical standards. It is the practice of doing the right thing, even when no one is watching. Personal Character (Psychology & Ethics) In terms of personality, character represents your moral and ethical framework—the integrity, honesty, and empathy you demonstra...

Its part 2... Yall already know. Someone in the audience done got on Will nerves.. He had time tahhhhday yall... Enjoy. Are y'all ready to choose people? The right people? #theoriginsoflovingus #afterthebreakup #choosingright #toolu  @chanbepoddin /IG/ Twitter Chanbepoddin.com https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/ @therealwillray Twitter @willraycomedy TT/IG 

If the thought of anybody having happiness in a relationship pisses you off, you are not ready to choose someone or to be in a relationship with someone. If you're triggered by certain gestures or words or people saying, "hey, I can't come Friday"... I have something else going on and you think they're planning to lie about what they said they're doing you're not ready...

How can you tell when you’re working against your needs, values and morals?  We knew better…was it love? Was it pride? Was it trying prove you had someone to others? Sometimes it’s self hate… This person has shown/ told you by now emotionally, verbally or indirectly if they long term or short term what they want to do… You chose to stay… is it your low standards?… You know that you are working aga...

How can you tell when you’re working against your needs, values and morals? We knew better…was it love? Was it pride? Was it trying prove you had someone to others? Sometimes it’s self hate… This person has shown/ told you by now emotionally, verbally or indirectly if they long term or short term what they want to do… You chose to stay… is it your low standards?… You know that you are working agai...

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 I would love for relationships to be as easy as I think it...Thats not real life. The things that become uncomfortable after that breakup… Emotionally your just exhausted The shame you might feel remembering what you did that you shouldn’t or what you said You get irritated with other people because your mad at yourself, the situation LETS BE REAL !!! YOUR ADDICTED TO LIFE WITH THIS PERSON !!! Yo...

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Still At it. Part 2 #theoriginsoflovingus #afterthebreakup #nocontact #toolu  @chanbepoddin /IG/ Twitter Chanbepoddin.com @therealwillray Twitter @willraycomedy TT/IG 

Do I even want to feel feelings again? Right now? At all? Too many ppl become okay masking “ I’m okay” or “ I’m over it”… if you aren’t… okay. if is okay to feel ya feelings, because if not now when? When are you gonna address what you need to come to terms with? How did you come up with this? Hurting people Getting hurt & feeling how others have felt Getting sick of myself  Having a daughter...

Part 2: Once a person spent months - years learning how to please you… it becomes addicting. You may have the same friends, or be around each others family... you might need to not show up to certain events if they are there. You cant think about doing anyone else, cuddling up with anyone else or going out to eat with anyone else. A lot of times how you bypass the fact that yall broken up is selfi...

We back, Spring has Sprung. Hope yall good. ————————————————— Once a person spent months - years learning how to please you… it becomes addicting. You may have the same friends, or be around each others family... you might need to not show up to certain events if they are there. You cant think about doing anyone else, cuddling up with anyone else or going out to eat with anyone else. A lot of time...

Part 2 continued of Ep 4: Last ep you spoke on something: selflessness and selfishness… a lot of people confuse them… but we need both for balance. Can you explain what you meant? Also, what are 5 selfless acts men can do while being selfish in a healthy way- How can we handle that guilt in a healthy way? Realize when you are craving what you’re used to vs what you need to crave Journal your feeli...

Last ep you spoke on something: selflessness and selfishness… a lot of people confuse them… but we need both for balance. Can you explain what you meant? Also, what are 5 selfless acts men can do while being selfish in a healthy way- Mid march updates in life spring weather, brighter days and finally a reason to be outside The people are really living the pod, yall can drop a review and even donat...

...We're glad We don’t hate them, We just wish we didn’t love them.. It be like that sometimes. Pt 2 The Show Run Down: -why do people still care after the breakup? How do we fight those feelings in a healthy way?   Steps to create space away from your ex What needs to be said? What did we realize? The Inner Fight: Is this truly the last fight or argument? Are we really done? Rules of engageme...

...We're glad We don’t hate them, We just wish we didn’t love them.. It be like that sometimes. The Show Run Down: Catch Up: recap of previous episode to lead into present episode’s topic We discussed black history month, valentines day, etc, Chan had to vent real quick… It was a lot of Ain’t Ish activity for the V Day. ————————————————— What do we do with old feelings? Should we check in? Did...

Part 2: I Don’t Have Time To Be Heartbroken   Last ep:  how did we get here, the introduction of us and what we discussed  Catch up:  What new with us? We are really grieving what we thought in our minds… Maybe figuring out myself is what I need… Which L was it?!?  Lust, Love or Loss  Story time:  Do you really love fully twice? Whats Next?  Tell them the next topic… short snippet of it and stop…...

I Don’t Have Time To Be Heartbroken   Last ep: how did we get here, the introduction of us and what we discussed  Catch up: What new with us? What does it feel like to be heart broken? How do you push through when you feel like shit? Do I want to open up about what I’m scared about? Do I want to be good to someone new? Am I over my get back stage? We are really grieving what we thought in our mind...

“Why did we create this podcast? What’s our objective?” What needs to be said: What did we realize? Every break up aint a loss GET THE LESSON AND MOVE ON  Story time: 1 of the worst/best breakups of my life (explain this but Chan has to explain why she’s never had a “bad” break up) Who’s fault is this? Was it theirs? Was it yours? Was it ours? What did we learn? Alone vs. Lonely. 1. What’s the dif...

Join Will Ray and Co Host Chantal, as they get real about the aftermath of relationship breakups. By using raw honesty, they share their experiences and opinions on: healing, accountability and vulnerability. They’ll take deep dives into the complexities of concepts like black love, self love, emotional growth, discernment, conflict management, helpful communication and more. They blend personal s...