Aay Jay

The Oasis Podcast

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Welcome to The Oasis Podcast where we are cultivating intentional and honest conversations about this journey called life! Join my special guests and I as we tackle life, motherhood, love, wellness, mental health and everything else we encounter! Follow us:Instagram: TheOasisPodcastFacebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: TheOasis PodcastLinkedIn: TheOasis PodcastLinktree: linktr.ee/TheOasis_PodcastWebsite: www.theoasispodcast.wixsite.com/podcastEmail us your comments, questions and show ideas: aayjaysoasis@gmail.com

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Aay Jay

Episodes

Episode 59 - TILTBT: Reasons, Seasons and Lifetimes 30.12.2021 22:46

On this episode of TILTBT, I'm talking about accepting the Reasons people enter and exit our lives! Note: The podcast will be taking a break for the month of January. See you all in February 2022! Love y'all and be safe! Follow us on: Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: TheOasis Podcast Youtube: TheOasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen and watch...

Episode 58 - Religion v Spirituality Part 2 16.12.2021 57:45

On this episode, Part 2, Ms. Ayanna @harrietreturned and are talking rituals, honoring our ancestors, some history, religion in parenthood & our relationships and much more! If ya caught a word! Drop an offering! CashApp Us: $HarrietReturned $AayJaysOasis Purchase the book “Half of What You See: The Scars of Love” here: www.harrietreturned.com Also Follow Ayanna: Instagram @harrietreturned Ins...

Episode 57 - Religion v Spirituality Part 1 02.12.2021 57:23

On this episode, Part 1, I am joined by another sister-friend Ms. Ayanna @harrietreturned as we really dive deep about the differences between religion and spirituality. We also discuss how you can be in a religion but don’t have the spirit and how what you do or don’t practice spiritually can impact your dating experience. Purchase the book “Half of What You See: The Scars of Love” here: www.harr...

Episode 56 - Home-buying Update: Lessons Learned 18.11.2021 1:03:51

On this episode I am joined again by my sister-friend Jenn again!!  We're bringing you updates and lessons learned about the Homebuying journey! Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com #homebuying #ownership #wealth #anchor #iheart...

Episode 55 - TILTBT: Boundaries are Self-Care 04.11.2021 15:25

On this episode of TILTBT I talk about why you need to be consistent in upholding them boundaries! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen and watch here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #boundaries #selfcare #anchor #iheart #stitcher #spotify #googlepodcasts #applepodcasts #itun...

Episode 54 - Dating While 30! - Red Flags 21.10.2021 1:04:35

On this episode, Chad Scott, a Certified Relationship and Life Coach aka The Accountability Coach, and I discuss red flags! Follow Chad Scott on Instagram @chadscotthere Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #dating #relationship #red...

Episode 53 - Dating While 30! - What You Bring to the Table? 07.10.2021 1:00:23

On this episode, Chad Scott, a Certified Relationship and Life Coach aka The Accountability Coach, and I discuss the question of “what you bring to the table?”, relationship expectations, the importance of self-esteem in dating, who sets the tone in a relationship, being accountable and so much more! Follow Chad Scott on Instagram @chadscotthere Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: Th...

Episode 52 - Sister 2 Sister: Manifesting Your Reality 23.09.2021 1:13:57

On this episode, Keesh and I talk about how she manifested her reality from being unemployed, dealing with imposter syndrome, praying intentionally, the prepping season to living the life she imagined! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Po...

Episode 51 - TILTBT: Waiting on Your Time, Your Season 09.09.2021 28:46

On this episode, I talk about waiting on your time but praying intentionally till it comes!  Makeup by my cousin @august_rn  Listen and watch here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast  Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast  Facebook: The Oasis Podcast  Youtube: TheOasis Podcast  Email us your comments and questions at aayjaysoasis@gmail.com  #time #healing #growing...

Episode 50 - TILTBT: Investing In Yourself 15.07.2021 5:37

On this episode, I talk about the one investment that's never too risky and always yields a return, and that's the one you make into yourself! Omg!!! My 50th episode!! I can't believe I made it to this point!!! I'm so thankful and grateful to all my listeners and viewers! Thank you so much to all who are behind the scenes who continue to encourage me! My birthday is next week !! So blessed to be a...

Episode 49 - Home-buying Journey Update 01.07.2021 1:01:04

On this episode I am joined by my sister-friend Jenn as we talk about the ups and downs of buying a home! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #homebuying #ownership #wealth #anchor #iheart #stitcher #spotify #googlepodcasts #applepo...

Episode 48 - Is It Just Me? 17.06.2021 7:16

On this episode, I discuss feeling all out of sorts! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #growing #healing #retrograde #anchor #iheart #stitcher #spotify #googlepodcasts #applepodcasts #itunes #castbox #youtube #breaker #overcast #radiopu...

Episode 47 - TILTBT: Stop Wasting Your Own Damn Time! 03.06.2021 12:08

On this episode, I discuss how we know better and still decide to waste our time! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #knowbetter #dobetter #anchor #iheart #stitcher #spotify #googlepodcasts #applepodcasts #itunes #castbox #youtube...

Episode 46- Oral Sex: To do or Not to do? 20.05.2021 1:02:33

On this episode, Marquis and I talk about oral sex! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #oralsex #anchor #iheart #stitcher #spotify #googlepodcasts #applepodcasts #itunes #castbox #youtube #breaker #overcast #radiopublic #tunein #jiosaavn...

Episode 45 - Sister 2 Sister: Homeownership, Motherhood and Dating 06.05.2021 40:01

On this episode, Keanna and I discuss her being a entrepreneur, homeowner, a mother and trying to date out here! (Please excuse the sound quality) Want to hear more about Keanna’s story? Check out Episode 10: Faith, Fear, Spirituality & Life After Death Listen to Episode 10 here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7nOm4MbisYYUFF3aazrYNt?si=le9tDmsBQVy8l_OxCMDuFw&utm_source=copy-link Listen a...

Episode 44 - Don't Befriend an Ex! 22.04.2021 23:36

On this TILTBT, I discuss why not to befriend an ex! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #exes #heal #anchor #iheart #stitcher #spotify #googlepodcasts #applepodcasts #itunes #castbox #youtube #breaker #overcast #radiopublic #tunein...

Episode 43 - Weight Shaming 08.04.2021 50:42

On this episode, Ayanna and I discuss navigating through life being too big or too small and how people & society need to leave people TF alone! Follow Ayanna: Instagram @beautifulflowers.tornedpetals Instagram @harrietreturned Instagram @swagsoldseperatelysss Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at aayj...

TILTBT - Accountability & Perception: You a Villain! 25.03.2021 3:50

On this episode, I discuss perception and the side effects of accountability! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen and watch here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #accountability #perception #anchor #iheart #stitcher #spotify #googlepodcasts #applepodcasts #itunes #castb...

Episode 41 - Accountability: Are you a Trash Ass Person? 11.03.2021 1:09:14

On this episode with Mel and Rich of @ForTheLovePodcast and Ayanna of @harrietreturned we’re talking accountability, self awareness, integrity and more! Follow For The Love Podcast: Instagram @ForTheLovePodcast Facebook: For The Love Podcast Follow Ayanna: Instagram @harrietreturned Instagram @sawgsoldseperately Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis...

Episode 40 - Brothers, Y'all Alright?!: People Daughters Out Here Wildin! 25.02.2021 1:08:02

On this episode of Brothers, Y’all Alright?! I am joined again by Andre Apparicio of Its a Process to discuss dating as an entrepreneur! Find Its a Process on: Instagram @itsaprocess_org Facebook: Its A Process Email: Itsaprocess.org @gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@g...

Episode 39 - Baecations 11.02.2021 58:52

On this episode, Mac and I talk about Baecations! What they are, what to consider before going on one, travel style, who pays, the horror stories and much more! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: TheOasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast #baecations #vacation #travel #ancho...

TILTBT - Therapy is Life! 31.12.2020 9:19

On this TILTBT episode, I'm talking gratitude and thanking the heavens for Therapy!! Wishing you all a Happy New Year filled with health, peace and love! The podcast will be taking a break in January so go on and listen to our past episodes! I promise at least one episode will resonate with you!  Subscribe and listen now anywhere you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to Rate the podcast on App...

Episode 38 - Dating While 30!: Dating & Mental Illness Part 2 17.12.2020 24:15

On this episode Andre and I walk through his journey of situational depression after breakups, the process of getting help, taking medication and getting to the root of his depression. We talk self awareness, stigma faced as a Black man with mental health issues and why knowing thyself before dating is essential! Follow Andre: Instagram @andregunts2 and @theonelovechronicles Facebook: The One Love...

Episode 37 - Dating While 30!: Dating & Mental Illness Part 1 03.12.2020 54:50

On this episode Mel and I discuss dating someone with a mental illness and having one as well! We talk the signs, what the experience was like, accountability and honoring oneself while dating! **Please excuse the audio quality* Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen...

TILTBT - Letting Go in Peace! 19.11.2020 16:06

On this TILTBT episode, truth moment on really letting go! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast  Email us your comments and questions at  aayjaysoasis@gmail.com Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast  #peace #anchor #iheart #stitcher #spotify #googlepodcasts #applepodcasts #itunes #castbox #youtube #breaker #overcast #radiop...