Aay Jay

The Oasis Podcast

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Welcome to The Oasis Podcast where we are cultivating intentional and honest conversations about this journey called life! Join my special guests and I as we tackle life, motherhood, love, wellness, mental health and everything else we encounter! Follow us:Instagram: TheOasisPodcastFacebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: TheOasis PodcastLinkedIn: TheOasis PodcastLinktree: linktr.ee/TheOasis_PodcastWebsite: www.theoasispodcast.wixsite.com/podcastEmail us your comments, questions and show ideas: aayjaysoasis@gmail.com

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Episode 127 - TILTBT: They Didn't Like You! 27.06.2026 16:51

On this episode of TILTBT, we're discussing them people not liking you! #reality #relationships #coaching #authentic #love Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservices.com Call us at 1...

Episode 126 - Rules to Dating by Referral 13.06.2026 18:14

In this episode, we're discussing the rules to dating by referral and vetting efficiently! #dating #referral #coaching #authentic #love Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservices.com Cal...

Episode 125 - Lessons of turning 40 with Ms. Keesh 23.05.2026 38:35

Happy Birthday to my mini me!! Enjoy your season Gemini's! Keesh is 40 now! On this episode, she shares what she wished she knew before and what she's learned since turning 40! #forty #aging #lessons #life Connect with Ms. Keesh @keesh1119 on IG and Threads! Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn mor...

Episode 124 - Dating While 30!: Financial Celibacy with Chad Scott 09.05.2026 40:17

In this episode, we're joined by Chad Scott to discuss the concept of Financial Celibacy in dating! #dating #budget #finances #Celibacy #coaching Connect with Chad Scott on all platforms @ChadScottHere. Watch video here: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUd6KpRD1nL/?igsh=MWMxbnYxYmU1MnFpMw== Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prena...

Episode 123 - Dating While 30 - TILTBT: No More! 25.04.2026 12:56

In this episode, we're talking about no more turning frogs into princes! #dating #life #wellness #coaching Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservices.com Call us at 1(347)746-3735 Fo...

Episode 122 - The Grief of Life w/ Ms. Keesh 11.04.2026 42:42

In this episode, Ms. Keesh and I discuss experiencing the grief that comes with life as you get older! Connect with Keisha on IG @keesh1119 and find her on Psychology Today by searching Keshia Cameron. #grief #life #wellness #coaching Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services...

Episode 121 - TILTBT: Let Them! 28.03.2026 19:27

In this episode of TILTBT, we're talking about letting those people do what they rather do! #lettinggo #relationships #wellness #coaching Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservices.c...

Episode 120 - Circling the Block with Chad Scott 14.03.2026 39:29

In this episode, we're talking with Chad Scott about circlingthe block! Follow Chad Scott on all platforms @ChadScottHere #circling #dating #relationships #wellness #coaching Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us...

Episode 119 - TILTBT: You Don't Have to Forgive! 28.02.2026 27:07

In this episode, we're talking about forgiveness or rather, choosing not to forgive! Listen to clip by Nicci Morris here: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUrxfPtkdVp/?igsh=YW9rOHF3OGc2azhw #forgiveness #women #choice #wellness #coaching Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services...

Episode 118 - Dating While 30!: How to Date in 2026 14.02.2026 59:13

Happy Valentine's Day!! In this episode, we're here with Accountability Coach Chad Scott talking dating in 2026! Follow Chad Scott @ChadScottHere on all platforms! Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at:...

Episode 117- New 1 Year 05.02.2026 14:47

Happy New Year! In this episode, we're reflecting and discussing what a 1 year signifies as well as, what's to come for the podcast! Donate to the Prenatal and Postpartum Supplement Fund Here: https://www.ajoconsultingservices.com/prenatal-postpartum-fund Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservices.com...

Episode 116 - This Grief is Complicated 20.11.2025 25:40

In this episode, I discuss this complicated grief I've been experiencing. Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajocons...

Episode 115 - Dating While 30?!: Single Parent Edition with Chad Scott 06.11.2025 47:35

In this episode, Chad Scott and I discuss what it looks like to date as and to date a single parent! Follow Chad Scott @ChadScottHere on all platforms! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LL...

Episode 114 - Take Inventory 23.10.2025 12:24

In this episode, we're talking about taking a look at your life and removing what might be holding you back! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingserv...

Episode 113 - The State of Dating in 2025 with Chad Scott 25.09.2025 33:19

In this episode, Chad Scott and I discuss what dating looks like currently and provide some insight on how we can all improve it. Follow Chad Scott @ChadScottHere on all platforms! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more abou...

Episode 112 - TILTBT: You Wont Know Till You Know! 18.09.2025 41:44

In this episode, we're talking about breakups after birth! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast YouTube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservices....

Episode 111 - Never Loved Like This 11.09.2025 27:17

In this episode, I talk about loving in a way I've never had before! Follow us on: Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsult...

Episode 110 - Just Be! 07.08.2025 19:03

In this episode, I'm talking birthday, dating, and sharing a nugget from therapy! It's still my birthday! Lol! So, if you'd like to bless me with a gift, you can CashApp me at $aayjay23 Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast...

Episode 109 - Leo Season is Upon Us! 17.07.2025 17:50

In this episode, I'm talking about what I've gained in this past year of life! If you feel like providing me a gift for my birthday, my CashApp is $aayjay23 Follow us on: Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulti...

Episode 108 - TILTBT Postpartum will weed them out! 03.07.2025 36:54

On this episode, we discuss how postpartum will let you see the real from the fake! Join our Mommy & Me group here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/mommy-me-group-tickets-1411153661589?aff=oddtdtcreator Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podca...

OBG - A Story of IVF and Joy 19.06.2025 41:55

In this episode, in honor of Infertility Awareness Month, we are running back an OBG where I spoke with Rikesha, who walks us through her experience of infertility, In-Vetro Fertilization (IVF), and the journey of birthing her son! Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservices.com Call us at 1(347)746-3735 Fac...

Episode 107 - So I Did a Thing! 05.06.2025 24:40

In this episode, I discuss a huge thing I did recently! Follow us on: Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠Listen and watch here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservi...

Episode 106 - Life Lessons from My Toddler 22.05.2025 22:24

Happy Birthday to my Gemini Princess!!! In this episode, we talk life lessons I've learned from my mini! Follow us on: Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen and watch here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here:Website: www.ajoconsult...

Episode 105 - What 2 Years of Motherhood Has Taught Me 09.05.2025 51:07

In this episode, I discuss the lessons that motherhood have taught me thus far. Follow us on: Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen and watch here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at:...

Episode 104 - Trust the Process! 01.05.2025 10:06

In this episode, I share a message about trust! Follow us on Instagram @TheOasisPodcast Facebook: The Oasis Podcast Youtube: The Oasis Podcast Email us your comments and questions at ⁠ aayjaysoasis@gmail.com ⁠ Listen and watch here: Linktr.ee/TheOasis_Podcast Learn more about AJO Consulting Services, LLC here: Website: www.ajoconsultingservices.com Email us at: info@ajoconsultingservices.com ...