The New Adam Podcast w/ Man in the Mirror

A lot of the current conversation around men leaving the church completely misses the point. It’s not about a lack of interest or commitment—it’s that men are tired of being asked to just sit still and be passive observers. In this episode, we want to talk about the growing disconnect between what the modern church model expects and what men actually need. We look at why the standard, spectator-st...

In this episode, Ryan and Jake break down a critical issue facing men today: our obsession with daily optimization and our complete inability to pull back the throttle. Whether you're dealing with standard injuries, chasing vanity, or using the gym as a coping mechanism for mental health, the reality is that ignoring your body’s need for rest is a recipe for a crash. We dive into what it truly mea...

Ryan sits down with Jake Corn to talk about how Christian men should think about the noise — UFO headlines, online controversies, the endless churn of viral debates. It's a conversation about discernment, curiosity, and keeping our heads (and our faith) steady when the internet keeps trying to pull them in every direction. Visit us: maninthemirror.org

Brett Clemmer shares the personal story of his mother’s recent passing and reflects on how we can honor a parent’s legacy while navigating the reality of grief. We hope this perspective offers encouragement and a reminder that a mother's influence doesn't end when her journey does. In this episode: Brett’s personal reflection on loss. Navigating Mother’s Day during grief. The lasting impact of a g...

In this eye-opening episode, Man in the Mirror founder, Pat Morley sits down with Brett to unpack startling new research on the state of young men in America in 2026. As the cultural landscape shifts, the data reveals a generation of "Builders" (men aged 20–45) facing a silent crisis of isolation, screen addiction, and a fundamental questioning of what it even means to be a man. Brett shares highl...

In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Corn sit down to diagnose why so much modern preaching leaves men entirely unfed. We break down the crucial difference between "Topical" sermons (cherry-picking verses to fit a pre-determined theme) and "Exegetical" sermons (letting the ancient text dictate the message, even when it's uncomfortable). Beyond the pulpit, Ryan and Jake catch up on the current "te...

In this episode, Ryan Reeves sits down with Luke Detraz, founder of Field & Faith, to discuss the tectonic shifts facing men in 2026. Luke shares his personal journey from navigating identity wounds to the mission behind his new book, The War for Men. We dive deep into why so many men today feel "functionally invisible" in their own social circles. Luke argues that rebuilding a man starts from...

What would you say to your 20-year-old self if you could sit across the table from him today? In this episode, Ryan and Jake dive into the "weird" and transformative decade of the 40s—an age where the body starts to remind you it’s not invincible, but the soul starts to find its footing. From the physical realization that you can no longer assemble furniture on the floor without a week of neck pai...

What does it look like to "stress test" your character before saying "I do"? In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Brett explore the reality of marriage in your 40s, where "potential" is replaced by honesty, and compatibility is proven in the aisles of a tile store. Ryan opens up about his recent wedding and the "relieved" feeling of finding a partner who levels his life, but the celebration i...

In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Jake sit down just days after the passing of Ryan’s father. Moving past the "clinical" or "academic" view of death, they dive into the messy, multifaceted reality of grief, the "Boomer" legacy of the 1940s generation, and how we as men can integrate loss into our lives without losing hope.

Host Ryan Reeves is joined once again by Jake Korn for a candid conversation on navigating life’s "cold snaps." Moving past the usual surface-level advice, Ryan and Jake explore the biological and spiritual necessity of stress, comparing a man’s growth to trees that require wind to develop deep roots. From Jake’s transition into a new role at Wounded Warrior Project to Ryan navigating the impendin...

In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Brett Clemmer sits down with Chris "Harp" Harper, CEO of BetterMan, for a raw and insightful conversation on the discipline of character and the weight of real-world leadership. From his upbringing in the "hollers" of Kentucky to leading a national men’s ministry, Harp shares why he prioritizes consistency over intensity and the vital importance of a "liste...

In this powerful episode, Brett is joined by RT Phillips, a pioneer in the modern men's movement and the first president of Promise Keepers. RT takes us behind the scenes of the historic 1990 gathering in Boulder, Colorado, where 4,200 men sparked a supernatural explosion of faith that eventually reached millions. From his early days in the "hippie culture" and getting drafted into the Army to pas...

In this episode, Brett sits down with Robbie Angle, President of True Face Ministries, to dismantle the "know more, do better" treadmill that leaves so many men exhausted and isolated. Robbie, a former therapist who once served as a missionary in al-Qaeda territory, shares his personal transition from a high-drive achiever "earning" God's love to a leader practicing the "lighter yoke" of abiding....

In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Korn strip away the "romanticized" pressure of finding a mystical career calling, arguing instead that work is primarily about identifying your natural talents and learning how to monetize them. Jake shares his personal transition from the military to a civilian role at the Wounded Warrior Project, emphasizing the importance of "putting miles on the soul" thro...

For many men, prayer feels less like a conversation and more like a "scheduled conference call" that usually goes to voicemail. We want results, we want a "Plan A to Plan B" outcome, and when we don’t get an immediate response, we default to our own self-sufficiency. In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Ryan and Brett strip away the religious formality and get real about why men find prayer so...

As the calendar turns, many of us are tempted by the "cliché" of New Year’s resolutions—gym memberships that go unused and lofty goals that lack a plan. But for men, the start of a new year often brings a heavier burden: regret. In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer dive into the psychology and theology of looking back. They discuss the critical difference between "good guilt" (a warning...

In this moving episode of The New Adam Podcast, hosts Ryan and Scott sit down with Zach Garza, founder of You Can Mentor and author of Tell Me About Your Father. Zach opens up about the pivotal moment in eighth grade when his father left, sparking a downward spiral of seeking affirmation in all the wrong places. He shares how a man named Bob eventually broke through his defensive walls—not with pr...

In this episode of the New Adam podcast, host Ryan Reeves and guest Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) reflect on the vital role of humility and intentionality in marriage and fatherhood. Kent shares the joyous news of his son's recent wedding, a high school sweetheart romance, and the subsequent realization that he was "not ready" for marriage in his early twenties, admitting to struggles with immaturi...

In this vital episode of The New Adam Podcast, host Ryan welcomes Todd McIntyre, Senior Executive Pastor at Victory Church in Norcross, GA, to discuss fresh, unconventional strategies for engaging men in faith and community in the coming year. Todd shares the powerful and surprising insights gained from initiatives that successfully re-engaged men who had previously drifted from the church. The co...

We all long for the "Swiss Army knife" mentor, a perfect, all-knowing sage like Gandalf, Dumbledore, or Obi-Wan Kenobi. But Episode 12 of the New Adam podcast, featuring Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer (celebrating his 25th anniversary at Man in the Mirror), argues that this pursuit leads to disappointment. Instead of looking for a single, flawless figure with "secret knowledge" to guide every aspec...

Midlife hits every man differently, sometimes suddenly, sometimes slowly, and often in ways we don’t expect. In this episode, Ryan and Brett have an honest conversation about what it actually feels like to realize you’re not a kid anymore. From the moment your body stops keeping up, to the shifting expectations of work, marriage, identity, and spiritual growth, they unpack the subtle transitions,...

Continuing their deep dive into the world of non-traditional education, Ryan and Brett explore the fundamental "benefits and challenges" of homeschooling. Building on Ryan's family's experience, the hosts offer a balanced look at the core advantages, such as providing a truly personalized education, fostering deeper family bonds, and navigating the increasingly complex social issues of modern scho...

In this episode of the New Adam podcast, Ryan and Brett dive into Ryan's personal story and rationale behind his decision to homeschool his children. Prompted by early negative experiences in public kindergarten, including a lack of parental involvement and exposure to inappropriate language, Ryan and his wife made the pivot to a flexible, hybrid homeschooling approach. They discuss the advantages...

In this episode of "The New Adam Podcast with Man in the Mirror", Brett and Ryan discuss Brett's recent whirlwind trip visiting Man in the Mirror Asia. Brett shares stories and observations from five countries, highlighting the growth and impact of the ministry in diverse cultural and religious settings. In Malaysia, the ministry is thriving with over 50 groups using the "My Journey" curriculum. I...