The Multiorgasmic Millionaire

For all of you trying to get religion out of your bedroom...   If you got raised religious, chances are, your body and unconscious mind are still holding onto some religious myths about sex keeping you from feeling amazing in your body and sexuality.   I didn't realize how much these religious myths were affecting my sex life, until they weren't…   When I got real about turning sexual & body shame...

At one point, I thought learning new sex positions or ways to self pleasure would be just the thing to spice things up.   Then, I started learning tantra.   And I was like, "Wow, when you learn how to have tantric sex, you'd have to be half dead to get bored. How does everyone not know about this?!"   Playing with sexual energy is fun, but playing with it in structured way is magical.   It's like...

Have you ever met a friendly person who was open to life and everything happening around them, wonderful to be around, and had a strong sense of joy and radiance about them? Then you've probably met someone with a balanced and open sacral chakra. People with balanced and open sacral chakras tend to attract very healthy relationships where they feel safe being intimate and vulnerable with others, e...

Something unexpected I learned about sex years ago was that...it could lead to a spiritual awakeing.   To my conservierative, religious conditioned side, I was like... wtf?   But my punk ass rebel side was like, "oh hell yes! Sign me up!"   Long story short...my punk ass rebel side won (as it usually does ;)   And I unexpectedly had a spiritual awakening through sex.   Not only did I wake up to my...

Most mornings I wake up around 2am and think to myself, what in the world would I be doing right now had I not said yes?   Yes to my self.   Yes to my kids.   Yes to my purpose and desires.   And it seriously scares the shit out of me.   For one, I would have NEVER spent 6 weeks having the time of my life in Bali and Mexico this summer learning to surf, spending time with friends in far away place...

No doubt it's common for women to lose touch with themselves after becoming a mama. But what's sad is that so many are left wondering where their desire went after having a baby even if the baby isn't so much a baby any more.   If your birth experience didn't feel empowering, then, it felt dis-empowering and this loss of power makes you question if you can trust your body.   Which can totally kill...

Ever had a busy day at work or a hellacious day parenting your 3 year old the same day you had a hot date planned with your partner?   And you started thinking, "maybe we should just cancel," but deep down inside you really wanna go through with it?   If you struggle getting out of career woman or parenting mode and dropping into the super sexy woman you know you are inside, today's episode is for...

In April 2019, I went to Pussy Mansion in Greece for 10 days with a group of 15 other sex/love/relationship coaches from around the world.   We booked a house for a month and got together for a work-ation/vacation.   We did many wild and sacred rituals, held visibility workshops, boss bitch baptisms, I learned to give a proper lap dance and...I recorded the stories of some of the most sexually awa...

I'm gonna be honest, I get *pissed* when people make men out to be the only one of the genders that's ever REALLY interested in sex.   Like for real, it's my biggest pet peeve other than my kids asking me 10 times a day "what are we having for dinner mom?!"   Because it doesn't matter what gender you are, people have different levels of sexual desire.   And that can absolutely mean that a woman ha...

Are sex fantasies good? bad? Normal? Do they cause you problems? Can you not have an orgasm without them? Do you enjoy them but you don't know how to talk with your partner about them?   People carry a lot of shame and guilt around certain fantasies or around having enjoyed certain negative non-consensual sexual experiences even.   I think it's this very shame and guilt that gets people locked int...

Ever get envious of confident people? Mmm, I sure used to. I used to be the most socially awkward, uncomfortable-in-my-body person that you could've ever imagined.   And sometimes, I still am, but it's a lot less common! (Bring a hot dude around and I can slip into my old patterns of discomfort in ½ a second.)   When I ask people what would be the best thing about having better orgasms and more co...

Guess what, it's not your kids, it's not that you don't have time, it's not the phase of life you're in, it's not all the surface level b.s. you think it is.   It's way deeper. If you grew up in a conservative religious environment, I guarantee that your unconscious religious conditioning is playing into why you don't desire sex the way you once did.   One of the biggest problems with patriarchy a...

Does your partner think you're a crazy bitch because you're not clear about what you want or how to ask for it?   I'm pretty sure I've exploded a relationship or two simply over the fact that I wasn't in touch with what I wanted and sucked at asking for it when I found out.   And who knows…they're probably a couple guys out there that are like, "Damn, that Lacey Broussard…she's a crazy bitch."   A...

Since I was 16, I knew that everything I'd been taught about sex being wrong and dirty and something to be ashamed of wasn't for me.   What I didn't know was the opposite – how to turn sex into a spiritual, sacred experience that I could celebrate and revel in!   15 years later, I discovered the ancient tantric and Taoist traditions.   And I immersed myself in them until I turned my shame into cel...

I know how intimidating and frustrating it can be to put on your comparison glasses when you hear your friends talk about their love and sex lives and you're either 1. Totally inexperienced, 2. Perpetually single, or 3. Wondering what all the hype is about because you're not that interested in sex.   I was in category number 1 for a long time never having felt free to have the sorts of sexual expe...

If you've ever wondered how to keep the spark alive between the two of you, Tantra is where it's at.   Many partnered people write in to tell me that they don't know how to revive their spark or how to spice things up in their long-term relationship.   And what's sad is that they think the solution to this is doing what they see in porn, or diving into fantasy and BDSM and kink BEFORE they ever le...

Did you see the Netflix series, Sex Education yet? If you're one of the many women out there that doesn't know your body very well or know what you like, then, feel free to skip ahead to episode 6 and hear Amy talk about how she "fakes it" all the time because she doesn't know what SHE likes.   And then…listen to my podcast below!   Today, I'm gonna help you solve this little issue of not knowing...

Have you ever found yourself saying the following things?:   I don't have time for sex and I'm too tired for sex. I don't know how to transition and relax from my busy day into feeling up for sex. S/he doesn't give me enough foreplay. Sex hurts and I don't enjoy it. It's the same thing every time, why bother?   And simultaneously wondering if this has anything to do with why you don't desire sex?...

If you've ever thought you were broken because you're not sure if you've ever had an orgasm, or if the pleasure you feel is so week that you're not sure if it's even an orgasm,   I want you to stop what you're doing right now and listen in to today's episode.   It's not your fault that no one ever taught us about orgasms or how to have one.   You're not broken and neither is your orgasm.   Listen...

For as long as I can remember, there's been this cultural narrative that the tighter a woman's yoni, the better.   But the truth is, a tight yoni limits a women's pleasure. So…why do we continue to perpetuate this ideal?   It's time for women to learn what really opens them up to their full pleasure capacity instead of being fed cultural ideals about things that actually limit them pleasure.   Lis...

As I'm sitting here wishing my cycle would start so the breast pain will go away, I'm reminded of how many women suffer from much more severe pelvic pain when they're menstruating and how messed up hormones can affect our desire levels.   That's why I brought on hormone health coach, Sara Lopez so she could share her wisdom on all things female hormone and cycle related.   Endometriosis, period pa...

Want to hear the answer to the #1 question I get asked?   I'd like to say that I totally sympathize with you if you've never had an orgasm from penetration, but honestly, I don't know what that's like.   For as long as I've been sexually active, I've had this skill.   And here's why:   As a teenager, I carried so much sexual shame that I never masturbated, played with my vulva or discovered my cli...

If you've followed me on social media in the last couple of weeks (oh, you're not? You can do so on my preferred outlet – Instagram @lacey.broussard), you probably got my message asking what you're most struggling with in sexuality and relationships.   And since I hear it all day long, I thought I might as well give you all one big reply on how to revive a sexless or low-sex relationship!   On tod...

If the words "sexual energy" intrigue you or make you think woo and/or you're slightly skeptical of the idea altogether, today, I'm giving you 3 reasons why you'd want to explore this component of sexuality anyway.   Are you constantly wondering how to change things up so you're not doing the same thing every time, how to get your spark back, how to achieve orgasm in different ways or more easily,...

Have you ever struggled with enjoying giving blow jobs? Did you know you can actually have an orgasm from deep throating?   There's such a stigma around men in long-term relationships never getting blow jobs. Well, it's my prerogative to turn that shit around!   If you experience little to no pleasure (or even fear or resistance) to giving blow jobs, you'll for sure want to check out today's episo...