The Missing Secret Podcast

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly discuss the struggle of life, then the solution. So little back story on this topic. Recently John met a brilliant guy that is in the field of maximizing brain health. He read John’s book and had a candid suggestion for John on how to improve the book. He said there w was not enough explanation of the struggle that people go through in...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly introduce an interesting idea. You are two people in one. There is the do’er you and there is the observer you. John points out that this is a powerful way to look at your life from a 30,000 foot view. And it is particularly appropriate for someone doing the think it be it 12 minute a day methodology. That’s the case because the observ...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the idea of renewing one’s wedding vows. John was recently at a wedding a month or two ago and he was taken by the wedding vows the bride and groom were articulating. John was thinking about how he and Ginger are going to Europe in a few weeks. And so they decided to renew their vows at the Eiffel Tower in Paris. John goes o...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about what the true test of intelligence is. As John ultimately discloses, it’s getting what you want in life. Creating the life you want. Then the second question. What is the currency of life? Is it time or is it money? Or something else. It’s actually your attention. During this podcast John and Kelly talk about why people’s li...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the concept that the reason you’re not more successful than you are is because your intelligence and intellect is not choosing your actions. John mentions in this podcast that he is writing a new book called advanced leadership of self. He’s establishing the academic discipline of the emerging field advanced leadership of se...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the concept that attaining success is not about working harder. Without sounding cliché, it’s about working smarter. Both John and Kelly were blessed to take their own personal annual income to over $1 million a year by working smarter. More specifically, understanding how the human mind works. Appreciating that one’s daily...

Takeaway from today’s show is you need to be up to speed on using AI to your maximum advantage .In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about how the difference is widening between the 2% in the 98%. And there’s two factors at play here. The first is artificial intelligence. The people who understand how to use products like chat GPT and Claude adeptly are very definite...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly share their observations on creating success in your career. John mentions that he started out as a CPA and became an entrepreneur when he was 30. Then he was in seven different businesses in his 30s and 40s. But in retrospect, he sees that he was not connected to any of them emotionally. Then when he turned 50, he got in the reverse m...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about taking the advanced leadership of self 12 minute a day methodology to the next level. Using AI. And here’s the thing to appreciate. At the end the day, one success is determined by taking the right actions on a consistent basis. On the issue of consistently taking the right actions, that’s addressed in the 12 minute day meth...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly explain that the mind thrives on order. And when you feed the succinct articulation of your life to yourself each day you create immense order in the mind. And as Kelly points out, it makes you feel lighter. It causes all those half thoughts that are going on in your head to either go away or become full thoughts. To drive home this id...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about how the think it be it life GPS template is set up around your career. There are six things you need to define. Your business plan, your strategy for success, the two – three things that move the needle, where you want your business to be three years from now. The 4 - 5 milestones to get there, and the linchpin issue to go t...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk how in life, most people focus on the obstacles rather than focusing on what they want. During this podcast episode, John and Kelly play a short clip from leadership guru Simon Sinik. It really illustrates the idea of how people focus on the obstacles. As John pointed out, what a lousy way to live. But people are doing that becaus...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk how to up your game on using chat GPT. As a little background, John does a weekly program for the 18 head coaches at the University of Texas. And this week he’s teaching them how to up their game on using chat GPT. So here are some of the ways to do it. First of all, today chat GPT is probably the best AI program to use. Because i...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the concept that you have to figure out your life. John discusses coming to grips with this when he was 50. Only then did he get it through his thick head that he had to figure out his life. Nobody else can figure it out for him. Because nobody else but him has all the information. And there’s not going to be some magical th...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the concept of setting aside time to just THINK a couple times a week. In this episode Kelly talks about how she found this process difficult at first. Then she found it life transforming. John mentions that with each person, there are two parts of you . When you set aside to time to think, the observer is observing your lif...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about what percentage of adults in the United States live the exceptional life. As defined by earning over $100,000 a year, having a great romantic relationship and also being on top of their health. The answer is about 2%. In the podcast, John poses the question to chat GPT. Which confirms this. It’s amazing that in the richest c...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the concept of advanced leadership of self. But what does that really mean? In this episode John poses the question to chat GPT. The essence of what Chat says is it’s taking personal responsibility for your life and the results that show up in your life. Making sure your actions reflect steps to your well thought out goals....

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John share something he has become enlightened to over the last few months. It’s creating a moniker, a bumper sticker for essentially how the think it be it methodology works. And John calls it the bubble up effect. John gives an example in his marriage. So each day, off John and Ginger go. Then around dinner time they reconvene. Now keep in mind, Jo...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about a powerful quote from James Clear. Author of atomic habits. You don’t rise to the level of your goals, you sink to the level of your systems. As John explains, the think it be it methodology is a combination of various systems . A system for controlling your actions. It’s a system for controlling your mindset. Then there is...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the power of really understanding the industry that you’re in. John and Kelly talk about getting into the success industry and discovering how clueless they both were. What they missed is that while everybody wants to be more successful, only 2% of people are driven to be more successful. Where more success is a priority and...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the personality profile known as the disc profile. Essentially what this is is it determines which of four personality types you are. Based on whether you do things fast or do them slow. And whether you are people oriented or task oriented. And one of the key things that comes from understanding this is you realize that appr...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly talk about the amazing season the Seattle Seahawks have had. Who are now in the Super Bowl. Obviously they were able to do their key behaviors consistently rather than sporadically. And John poses this interesting question. Do you think your results in life match your potential. And level of intelligence? If not, consider this. You’re...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John shared some startling facts about health and longevity. John says most people are fundamentally UNENLIGHTENED about their health. And admits that he was to, until about two years ago. Even though he was working out six times a week and eating well. But he was still unenlightened about medicine 3.0. Prevention and longevity. In this episode John...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly share a video that Darren Hardy did on influencing people in 2026. He says it comes down to three rules. The first one is energy leads. You have to decide what energy you want to convey. You want to control your state. And you want to convey certainty. The second rule is clarity wins. Say what you need to say simply and clearly. Most p...

In this episode of The Missing Secret Podcast , John and Kelly share their observations on how to actually love what you do for a career. Where when you get up it each morning, you look forward to going to work. John talks about how with the think it be it methodology, it’s all about giving you control over your self. But what good is control if you’re doing a job that you hate. In studying succes...