The Masculine Revival Podcast

How are you showing up as the leader of your marriage and family? This episode is a simple diagnostic, a real vibe check on where you're actually at. Not where you think you are. Not where you hope you are. Where you're actually showing up. We walk through 14 questions covering vision, spiritual leadership, presence, provision, brotherhood, and how you handle the hard moments in your marriage inst...

In this episode, Brendan shares his personal journey of discovering his mission in life — from being a deeply anxious young man struggling to function in daily life, to eventually building the Masculine Revival Brotherhood and spending the past five years helping men grow in leadership, faith, and brotherhood. This conversation breaks down the reality of purpose: how it’s discovered, why most men...

What advice would you give a Christian woman who is waiting for a husband? In today’s episode, I respond to that exact question and share a few honest thoughts about preparing for marriage in a culture that often romanticizes it. Many people spend years thinking about finding the right person, but far fewer spend time becoming the kind of person who is actually ready for marriage. In this conversa...

What are the fundamental difference between men who radically change their lives and men who stay comfortably the same? At the beginning of this episode, I also share a personal update: I’ll be legally changing my last name from Schmidt to Scholefield. I explain why, and what that decision represents for me in this season. From there, we dive into the deeper theme of the episode: decisiveness. We...

In this episode, I break down one of the most common and destructive dynamics I see in my work with men: simping inside marriage. This is the subtle, well-intentioned, “nice guy” pattern where a man abandons his backbone in the name of keeping the peace… and slowly erodes attraction, polarity, and respect in the process. We’ll talk about: -What “simping” actually looks like in a marriage -Why it o...

The podcast is back! Brendan shares life and business updates, as well as briefly addressing what happened with the Unplugged dating app. Most couples chase tools, tips, and techniques to fix their marriage, but what if the real problem isn’t a lack of tools, but rather a heart posture that has drifted away from love, humility, and connection? In this episode I break down why heart posture — the o...

In this episode, I sit down with my good friend Curt Storring, a husband, father of four (with a fifth on the way), and a man who has walked the path of family leadership with both humility and courage. He talks honestly about the mistakes he's made, some of the lessons he's learned, and what it means to approach marriage and fatherhood with clarity, sobriety, and conviction. This isn’t just theor...

No man is truly self-made. You were shaped by your parents, your friends, your pain, your past. Even the things you think you did on your own were built on a foundation someone else helped lay. In this episode, I break down the myth of the self-made man and explain why isolation is the enemy of real growth. We cover the danger of always running from your reflection, the value of staying in hard re...

I sit down with Jonathan Rios who is a psychotherapist with over 20 years in the mental health industry for a deep and grounded conversation on what it means to become a man. We cover a variety of topics pertaining to the pursuit of authentic and mature masculinity, like... – Cultivating a masculine identity in a confused culture – Facing fear and finding real courage – Discovering your purpose an...

Most modern men are stuck in a victim mindset and they don’t even realize it. In this episode, I unpack what it means to cultivate a masculine mindset, one rooted in responsibility, grit, and forward motion. From killing your inner complainer to learning how to lean just past your edge, this is a wake-up call for men who are ready to reject passivity and start carrying real weight. We cover: Why l...

In this episode, I break down 21 traits that define authentic, mature masculinity. This isn’t just a list of ideals, it’s a mirror. A way to see where you’re standing strong, and where you’re falling short. We cover everything from taking full responsibility for your life… to leading your family with both strength and tenderness… to living with sexual integrity, emotional discipline, and masculine...

Too many men are stuck in cycles of guilt, shame, and self-hatred, trying to move forward while dragging the dead weight of their past behind them. In this episode, Brendan delivers a stern but fatherly call to finally lay it down. You’ll learn why willpower isn’t enough, what it really takes to receive forgiveness, and how to stop punishing yourself for the man you used to be. This is about more...

What does it take to become a man in our time? In this episode, I sit down with Father Michael Butler, who is the priest of Holy Transfiguration Orthodox Church in Livonia, MI, for a deep conversation on manhood, virtue, and faith.   With over 30 years of experience in men’s work and 30 years serving in the priesthood, Fr. Michael brings a rare depth and nuance to the discussion. We talk about the...

This is the story behind the man you see today, and the pain that shaped him. In this episode, I walk you through some of the pivotal turning points in my life. This is a raw and honest look at how God used brokenness, not success, to make me a man. If you’ve ever felt lost, broken, or unsure of the road ahead, this one’s for you. CONNECT + WORK WITH BRENDAN 🔹 Instagram Daily content on masculini...

What is mature masculinity, and how do you cultivate it in a culture that never taught you how to grow up? In this foundational episode of the Masculine Revival Podcast, Brendan Schmidt delivers a clear, structured teaching on the journey from boyhood to manhood. Drawing from personal experience, years of mentorship, and hard-earned wisdom, he lays out the traits of immature men, the marks of matu...

In this comeback episode, Brendan shares the personal and spiritual journey that reshaped his life, work, and message. He opens up about the cost of choosing conviction over comfort, and the clarity he’s found on the other side. This episode lays out a bold new direction for the Masculine Revival Podcast, and a call for men to pursue truth no matter the cost. If you’re feeling stuck, compromised,...

When he leads well, her submission flows naturally and easily... right? In this episode, Brendan breaks down the ever popular concept of "masculine men create feminine women." He explains the ways in which this concept is true, and the ways in which it can be incredibly damaging and detrimental to the health of a relationship. Lots of insights, lessons and tips shared in this one... Enjoy! _______...

Entering mature manhood with both feet requires doing the "inner-work". A man must get right with himself, his past, and where he comes from. Once he's done this, he is freed up to do the "outer work" of acquiring, accomplishing, achieving, and becoming the man that he wants to be. In today's episode, Brendan explains the ins and outs of what can be a complicated and confusing topic for many men....

Is a wife's sin her husband's responsibility, and is there even such a thing as an "abusive wife"? Our highly feministic culture usually suggests that any wrong a wife does in her marriage was somehow triggered by her husband's poor behaviour or poor performance. This thinking leads to not only a whole lot of marriage dysfunction, but sadly a whole lot of divorce. In the first ever Masculine Reviv...

Join Brendan for the much anticipated 41st episode of the show as he briefly addresses parting ways with Mike, and then dives into the topic of how to properly assess compatibility for marriage and how to know if a woman is worth marrying!  New content coming out weekly again. Thank you for your patience and understanding! _____________________________________________________________ CONNECT + WOR...

Brendan & Mike answer 16 questions from the audience on a variety of topics. _____________________________________________________________ CONNECT + WORK WITH BRENDAN 🔹 Instagram Daily content on masculinity, marriage, and leadership https://www.instagram.com/masculinerevival 🔹 Substack Weekly teachings and personal reflections for men and women—packed with free value https://www.masculinereviva...

Join Mike for a solo-episode where he shares about his strength training and weight-loss journey, as he offers advice on where to start, why strength training is important, the negative aspects of gym culture, how to approach the gym as a Christian, and more! _____________________________________________________________ CONNECT + WORK WITH BRENDAN 🔹 Instagram Daily content on masculinity, marriag...

A deep dive into the world of self-help, healing and personal development. Too often men and women get lost in doing "inner work" and endlessly obsess over trying to heal and improve themselves. In this episode, Brendan and Mike bring some clarity to what can be a confusing topic for many. Join us for yet another entertaining and informative episode!   _____________________________________________...

Hard truths and sobering reminders about the reality of marriage and married life. If you want a thriving marriage, are in a rut in your marriage, or need a mindset overhaul when it comes to your marriage, we've got you covered in this episode.   Get Brendan's Marriage Check in HERE _____________________________________________________________ CONNECT + WORK WITH BRENDAN 🔹 Instagram Daily content...

Discussing living together before marriage, boyfriend/girlfriend culture, the glory of being a husband and father, and how to approach courtship properly!   _____________________________________________________________ CONNECT + WORK WITH BRENDAN 🔹 Instagram Daily content on masculinity, marriage, and leadership https://www.instagram.com/masculinerevival 🔹 Substack Weekly teachings and personal...