The Marriage Altar

What if one simple habit could begin changing the atmosphere of your marriage? In this episode of The Marriage Altar , we're talking about the power of appreciation. It's easy to notice what frustrates us, but healthy marriages are built by intentionally recognizing - and expressing- the things we love and value in our spouse. Join us as we explore how gratitude can soften hearts, strengthen conne...

Somewhere in trying to save your marriage...you lost yourself. After betrayal, it's easy to become consumed with what they did and whether you can trust them again. But what about you? In this epidose, we're talking about how betrayal pulls you into survival mode- and how to start coming back to yourself without ignoring what happened. ' #marriagealtar #betrayalrecovery #marriagehealing #chrisitan...

"if we really love each other... this shouldn't be this hard." It's a quiet belief a lot of us carry into marriage - and when things feel difficult, it can make us question everything. In this episode, we're unpacking why this isn't true, what hard moments in marriage are actually revealing, and how to stop seeing struggle as a sign something is wrong.  #Marriagealtar #ChristianMarriage #MarriageP...

Most of what builds a great marriage doesn't feel sexy. It feels intentional. It feels awkward sometimes. It feels like choosing discipline over desire and consistency over chemistry.  In this episode, we talk about the unsexy work of building a great marriage - the conversations, the boundaries, and commitments that don't make the highlight reel but actually create safety, trust and lasting conne...

Many marriages don't break - they drift. Not because of conflict, but because there was never a shared direction. In this episode of The Marriage Altar, we talk about vision casting as a couple and why clarity matters in marriage. We explore how drifting creates distance, why misalignment often shows up as frustration or silence, and how intentionally choosing a shared vision can bring connection,...

Most arguments in marriage aren't really about the dishes, the budget, or the tone of voice. They're about something deeper. In this episode of the Marriage Altar Podcast , we unpack the truth behind recurring conflict and reveal what's actually happening beneath the surface of your arguments. If you find yourselves having the same fight on repeat, this conversation will help you slow down, identi...

In this episode, we break down the three most common predictors of infidelity-not to create fear, but to give couples wisdom, clarity and practical tools to protect their marriage before cracks start to form. Infidelity rarely begins with a dramatic moment; it almost always starts with the little foxes that go unnoticed. Join us as we break down these different areas and provide solutions to preve...

Sometimes it's hard to know if you and your spouse can benefit more from marriage counseling vs. marriage coaching. It might be possible that you need both! And, what is the difference anyway? Join Michael & Shana as they chat about counseling / coaching and which one may better serve you and your spouse in the season you are in.  Please visit www.shanawilliams.com/the-marriage-altar  for more...

What can God do in a year???? More than we can ask, think or imagine! In this episode we talk about what we have learned over the past year after infidelity and the suicide attempt that forever changed our world.  We also share about what God has done to restore us to better than new!  If you find yourself in a difficult marriage without hope, tune in with us as we share about the process God uses...

Money doesn't just pay the bills- it reflects our values, priorities, and trust in each other. In this episode, we talk about how couples can manage money together in a way that builds unity instead of division. From aligning your financial vision to tackling practical budgeting as a team, you'll learn how to invite God into your finances and create peace in your home.    For more information abou...

Satan's tactics haven't changed since the beginning; but the way they are packaged has changed. We dive into some controversial topics here like abortion, homosexuality, and the transgender movement because these are the top 3 ways that our nation and world are being indoctrinated to believe lies that destroy the very fabric of family.  Join us as we explore these topics and expose lies in our cul...

Trauma in a marriage relationship often leads to triggers- those unwanted thoughts, places, things, and people that cause us to relapse into the traumatic world we left behind. If you and your spouse are struggling with moving beyond the pain of the past, you will need to work through the triggers that plague you both.  In this episode, Michael and Shana share their conversational approach to deal...

Let’s be honest — there are days when praying together as a couple feels more like a chore than a sacred connection. Maybe there’s tension between you, disappointment with God, or just plain exhaustion. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when you don’t feel like praying together — and why doing it anyway can be one of the most powerful decisions you make for your marriage. You’ll hear...

When tensions rise, the way you talk to each other can either pull you closer or push you farther apart. In this episode of The Marriage Altar Podcast , we’re getting real about how to have hard conversations without slipping into defensiveness, accusations, or complete shutdown. You’ll learn: Why high-stress moments trigger the “fight, flight, or freeze” response in marriage Practical ways to kee...

In this powerful and practical episode of The Marriage Altar , Shana and Michael get real about one of the biggest threats to modern marriages: busyness . If your calendar is full but your connection with your spouse feels empty, you're not alone—and you're not without hope. We dive into what burnout looks like in marriage, how constant hustle can slowly erode intimacy, and why guarding your relat...

Let's face it...most marriages are full of monotonous day to day operations of child rearing, working, attending to other dutes that can suck the life out of a marriage. Most marriages are not usually full of laughing and just plain old having fun with one another. In this episode, we chat about the importance of having fun and carving out time for play in your marraige, and the dire consequences...

Tell me lies....or actually, DON'T tell me lies! In this episode of The Marriage Altar, we dive into the lies we tell ourselves, the lies we tell each other and the huge negative impact they have on the marriage. How can you come clean and move into restoration? What does it look like to have an honest marriage with God at the center? We also share practical ways to deal with lies in your marriage...

In this powerful episode of The Marriage Altar, we're digging into a question every couple in crisis has asked: Is this spiritual warfare? You'll learn how to discern when your marriage is under spiritual attack, how the enemy strategizes and uses confusion, division and exhaustion to weaken your covenant, and what the Bible says about how to fight this battle.  Whether you're dealing with betraya...

Join us as we explore this topic in detail to uncover the connection between trauma and marital problems. We will answer your questions and give insight into the role it plays as well as how to recognize issues in your marriage that are directly related. We dive into Michael's life to reveal the role that trauma played in his addictive behaviors that resulted in marital strain and damage to the re...

The weight of betrayal in a marraige is crushing and life-changing for the victim. In an instant, life is forever changed and the innocence of the trust you once knew can never be fully regained. We know this unfortunate truth all too well. But, God can be found in the ruins of a broken marriage and He is more than ready and able to help you rebuild trust, repair the damage and ultimately heal you...

What happens when the fairytale fades and you're left with the ashes of betrayal, addiction and heartbreak? In this raw and redemptive first episode of The Marriage Altar, Michael & Shana open up about the painful beginnings of their story-and the powerful restoration only God could bring.  This episode is more than a testimony-it's a declaration of hope. Michael and Shana walk through their d...