The Manwhore Podcast: Sex-Positive Conversations

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Tao Ruspoli is monogamish. After his very public divorce with a celebrity actress, the Italian prince (yes, literally a prince) set out on a journey to figure out society’s obsession with monogamy and marriage. That journey became the film Monogamish, out in theaters now. “Why do marriage and monogamy exist?” Ruspoli asks during th...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Morgan was one of my Hyde School crushes. I used to write her sappy love poems calling her my Wiccan Goddess. Oh, brother. We’ve got more wild boarding school sex stories involving ninja-like virginity loss and toe-banging under a picnic table! I also recount my feelings about ManwhoreCon and the special group of diehard fans who j...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida When KarenLee Poter found out her son had his first one night stand, she couldn’t have been happier for him! Not your typical motherly reaction to a son getting his dick wet from some casual sex. It’s not unusual for Karen and her son, comedian Cameron Poter, to have frank conversations about sex. In fact, they do it nearly every w...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida David Piccolomini has big dick problems. The problem is he can’t relate to the average c*ck, I mean, guy. Raised in a “baptist co-op homeschool”, David’s goal at a young age was to be fantastic at sex. He researched. He studied. He practiced. And the Tinder Tales host is a polyamorous sexual pro. Oh, you don’t believe him? That’s f...

My friend Roxanne complained for the umpteenth time, “Billy, I am having such a hard time getting laid!” Of course, she can find a man to stick it in her at a moment’s notice—just open a window. But my female friends tell me that finding a partner with a high sexual IQ who cares about her pleasure (without factoring in physical attraction and personality) is a frustratingly difficult experience. T...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Amanda has survived a sexual assault, a failed suicide attempt, and years of predatory grooming as a teenaged cosplayer surrounded by Nerd Kings of a certain age. Sexual assault continues to dominate headlines as victims and allies alike refuse to stay silent about rape culture in this country, especially on our college campuses. I...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Nikki Silver is hairy. Very hairy. Lives in the woods surrounded by feminist literature hairy. Nikki creates porn that caters to those who fetishize natural body hair! Her site, Naughty Natural, showcases sexy women with armpit hair, facial hair, leg hair, and big, beautiful bushes. “I was a little sex maniac,” the Long Island nati...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Comedian Liz Glazer is not your typical lesbian. There’s no dick envy. She is not disgusted by the male body. It’s more pity, if anything. “If I had a part of my body that was so needy in moments of sexual desire—which I can feel empathy for—I don’t think I could handle it.” The closest she gets is wearing one of her Realdoes. Liz...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Amy practices abstinence. To fully service her Lord, she has snapped her snatch shut until her wedding night. “To let someone f*ck my body is allowing someone to f*ck my spirit,” she shares on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. Sounds like The Holy Ghost has gotten in on some hot action! But before she found Christianity, she found me i...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Mr. Pam was a pervy, little Catholic school girl. “I didn’t learn long division, but I did learn where the g-spot is!” she shares of her grade school antics. Mr. Pam is now ”one of the most respected and successful females in the gay porn industry.” Get ready to hear the story of how one woman went from post-production intern to ga...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida To snip or not to snip? That is the question that faces many new parents these days. My guest this week, Sophia, is one of those parents who chose to keep her kid’s hood fully intact! “My dad and my brother aren’t circumcised….My son’s father isn’t circumcised,” she shares. Why she knows about those first two is beyond me, but it s...

Netflix’s GLOW missed one gorgeous lady of wrestling: Andre Shakti! Maybe it’s because she does her wrestling for a very different kind of broadcast. Yes! Andre Shakti is probably most known for her wrestling porn with Academy Wrestling. The queer-as-funk Kink.com alum wears many hats. In addition to her erotic-slash-terrifying takedowns, she is a sex educator, professional dominatrix, stripper, a...

Oscar Aydin is a blouse, “or what’s considered a feminine top.” The New York City comedian joined me for a fun episode to talk about his ideal man, having confidence on a first date, and where the best public sex locations are in the city. “When you’re in a candy store the size of New York City, you’re gonna try every f*cking candy you can.” ALSO: Goddess Jasmine shares a story of how her BDSM cli...

Kitty Stryker is a feminist killjoy—and her tattoo will be the first to let you know it! “If I watched stand-up comedy, I would break my laptop in half,” the queer activist and writer says. Kitty joins me for a lively discussion about call-out culture and modern feminism. We agree that it’s important to do more than just shout and be angry. That’s why she’s writing a ‘zine titled “So You Got Calle...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Asher is a lesbian. She’s known all her life. That’s why when we made out in a gay bar, she abruptly ran away when she felt some tingles and jingles. “I kissed a boy—no hetero!” I catch up with Asher to talk about the demise of lesbian bars and coming out to her not-so-thrilled grandmother. We also contemplated how much money it wo...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Dr. David Ley will tell you what to do if you "accidentally" download child porn. Sh*t happens, right?! But seriously, he wants you to be more proud of your porn use. The Ethical Porn for D*cks author writes about how shame has hindered us from embracing our sexualities. Don’t let society tell you how to experience pleasure! David...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Comedian Will Miles is a modern man. He pays for his porn; he respects politically correct vocabulary; and he hosts a podcast with his girlfriend optimistically titled Hopefully We Don’t Break Up! For a year and a half they've stayed together to talk about dating and relationships. It's like this podcast if someone had been willing...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Polyamory takes work. That work becomes a lot more difficult when you or your partner is dealing with mental illness. Kat returns to The Manwhore Podcast after a wonderful appearance on episode 19. But as the Senate Republicans shove through a health bill that will make access to mental health services out-of-reach for millions of...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jessie met me on a street corner a couple of years ago. We exchanged no words. She led me to her apartment door, gave me a kiss, and took me inside for speechless sexuals. So if we learned anything, it’s a good idea for Billy to keep his big mouth shut! My polyamorous guest gives some surprising answers as to why we didn’t work out...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Sex expert Tyomi (America’s Next Top Model, Tosh.0) knows there aren’t a lot of sex-positive black voices in the sex education world. She would think to herself, “There isn’t anybody I can relate to. Well, I guess I’ll be that person!” The self-taught sex coach has taken YouTube by storm with viral videos such as Riding The North F...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kevin Allison can’t tell you how to get into super secret gay kink camp. But he can tell you all about it! The Risk! podcast host joins me this week as my “manwhore of Christmas future.” Kevin talks all about consent in gay culture and how the sex scene of New York City has changed drastically since he moved here in the ‘90s. “Giul...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Repeat after me: “I probably have herpes. I probably have herpes and it’s totally fine. I probably have herpes and it’s totally fine and I’m not going to die!” Herpes probably has the most unfair stigma of all the crotch rots out there. At the end of the day, it’s a skin condition that comes with an awkward conversation. Dr. Sarah...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Dr. Timaree knew she was bisexual at a very young age. “Sometimes Barbies would date other Barbies. And sometimes they’d date Kens,” she shares on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. “It didn’t occur to me that that wouldn’t make sense.” The Sex With Timaree host discusses growing up queer in Nebraska and how she became a ‘doctor of sex’...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Netflix’s hit series 13 Reasons Why brings me back to darker times of my life. I can’t say I never thought about the painlessness of not existing. But I can say that I made it out of the pack. I made it through where I maybe wasn’t supposed to. Take that, Darwin! This week’s Manwhore Podcast starts on a somber note as I share raw e...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Roller derby is the coolest sport you didn’t know you love. I attended my first bout via New York City’s Gotham Girls league last month and fell in love—with both the sport and its players. This week you’ll hear me chat with veteran skater Whiskey Lullabye about the state of women sports. “What do they say when a man is great at a...