The Manwhore Podcast: Sex-Positive Conversations

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Fans approach porn performers and other sex workers with grabby disrespect. “I’ve seen so many comments like, ‘She’s a porn star. She gets grabbed all the time on set, so why shouldn’t we grab her on the street?” recalls cam girl Ginger Banks. “Do we go up to UFC fighters and just punch them in the face and say, ‘That’s your job!’”...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This is the filthiest podcast episode I have ever made. Sarah wanted to blow me. Why? Great question. I arranged three drivers to take her different legs of the journey from her city to mine. And, naturally, she had to thank each of these men with some head! Stranger play sounds like the easiest way to get murdered in the face—but...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Most men aren’t confident enough to approach women on a train,” says comedian Eagle Witt. This week’s Manwhore Podcast guest stresses the difference between street harassment and real world flirtation. My guest believes that women will speak up when they want you to leave them alone. “A woman is not mute,” Witt insists. “She will...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Nicoletta Heidegger is an MFT associate and sexologist who thinks there’s nothing strange with being a sex-loving smartypants. “I can be a slut and a scholar at the same time. It doesn’t have to be either/or,” she shares. That’s why she started the Sluts & Scholars podcast! Heidegger joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to disc...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Men sometimes fall folly to the mantra, “Once a slut, always a slut.” It’s at the heart of most of the slut-shaming that occurs in this world. One slut I know has since hung up her scarlet letter—although she’s not certain she’ll stay retired forever. Anna SuperSlut named herself such while making a tear through New York City’s Tin...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Ryan Driller is a machine. So says Ryan Driller. Being a male porn star, you kind of have to be. Shoots can take hours, and you have to be able to get rock hard and ready to go at a moment’s notice. Then you also have to be kind of good at sex. Ryan shares his pre-porn weight loss journey as well as his queer encounters with fans o...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Dudes aren’t the only people who can exhibit toxic masculinity. Pre-woke comedian Elsa Waithe was a queer, butch f*ckboi once upon a time. But now she is a leader in the New York City activist movement, leading protests against racial oppression and anti-queer Trump antics. Activism even led her to Love in a fascinating Black Lives...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida We all have our shameful moments. I happen to have many of them. Allison joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to reminisce about my peak f*ckboi phase in 2015. She and I sit down and “go to the tape” reading our final text exchanges that led to me losing out on a second date. ALSO: a kinky newbie is nervous about entering a 24/...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Transgender porn star Venus Lux has run off to join a bunch of queers living in the woods of Tennessee. “Follow the trail of glitter and you’ll find your tribe!” Although Venus Lux is planning on her life after porn, she still plans to use her success to change how trans is treated by the adult entertainment industry and its fans....

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida OMG! This is episode 200! Who would have thought that my penis could carry a show for this long?! I kid: we all know the ladies are the true stars of this show! On this milestone episode of The Manwhore Podcast, I hand the hosting duties over to two gorgeous fanwhores to interview me. They ask who I’m going gay for, why I stopped t...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Hamiltoe is the porn parody we didn’t know we needed. The pun is so obvious that it’s astonishing no one had made it yet. So when Eitan Levine pitched a Hamilton porn parody to Wood Rocket, they instantly bought it. The comedian tells me the story of how the historical porn parody got made! PLUS: public sex, AVN Awards, #PayForYour...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida There’s a particular brand of nonmonogamy that’s been around for ages with a pseudo-acceptance from mainstream society. Swingers typically play with other people—together! Elle has had quite the sexual journey since her first appearance on the pod over 3 years ago! She started having threesomes, going to sex parties, and then got a...

Stay up-to-date on future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Becky Berardi is the foot fetish queen of New York City. Feet have been a core part of her dating life ever since high school! Something newer in her life is having a boat load of fans thanks to her popular YouTube Channel The Bad Ass Becky Show. But with success comes the occasional overenthusiastic admirer. Becky and I get off her...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Sometimes a dude with a big d*ck is just a big d*ck. Diana returns to The Manwhore Podcast sharing the worst sex she ever had. “He had a bigger than average penis. And I could tell that he knew it and held a lot of his self-esteem in that extra inch or so.” Diana made the decision/mistake of sleeping with me again since she first c...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “When someone puts a hand on my dry clitoris, I’m like, ‘Who raised you?’” says Emily Varnam on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. F*ckbois beware! This feminist has a social justice test before she lets you anywhere near her period panties. The 5th Vital Sign co-founder shares the joys, delights, and mehs of being a birth doula. She ty...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jamie Loftus lost her virginity on August 15, 2010. It’s not just a statement of fact—it’s the name of her one-woman show! To celebrate the anniversary of the night she lost her V-card, the Bechdel Cast host reenacts it in front of a paying audience while the lucky fella Skypes in to co-host. Loftus tells us all about that show as...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida I’m not sure if Nick Hawk is a gigolo or a life guru after chatting with the Showtime star. “The ego is part of you. Embrace it,” he says on an all new Manwhore Podcast. “We confuse confidence with arrogance a lot.” I walked into his midtown hotel room convinced we would discuss the ins and outs of selling sex, but we entered a hig...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “I usually drug myself before I have sex with him,” says this week’s Manwhore Podcast guest. Dove is a sugar baby. She’s a sugar baby who detests her clients. “I like them when they’re losers because they’re easy.” Hear how this young woman went from dating me to making $30,000 this year off of just one guy! If I’m the cause, shoul...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Everyone wants to steal your mind space,” says Daniel Saynt, the Chief Conspirator and Founder of New York City’s hot new sex club NSFW—the New Society For Wellness. “Everyone wants to steal your attention. Especially if you’re doing something that’s pushing something forward.” Saynt is not without his haters, but he pays them no...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Amber Rollo left the glitter-ridden stripper stage for a different stage with a less sturdy pole and a solid brick wall. Amber and I exchanged dirt to prepare for our roast battle at The Stand Comedy Club in New York City. I learned that she was an awkward bisexual youth with dead parents. She learned that a bunch of idiots with qu...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Online dating consultant Steve Dean is so good at dating that he went on a first date…that lasted 17 hours! “I like to think of my dates as having chapters to them,” Dean says. But what happens if I want to skip the boring chapter with a bunch of flashbacks of her father?! The polyamorous “digital nomad” returns to The Manwhore Pod...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Maya attended a sex party to get her mojo back. Instead, she found me. What a bummer! Maya dropped me because I was too young for her—a mere 12-year age gap. On this week’s Manwhore Podcast, I challenge her to find one of a plethora of valid reasons to not date me. As she does so, we talk about escaping an abusive marriage and sear...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida It seems like everyone and their sister is doing porn these days. Porn publicist Lainie Speiser remembers when the adult entertainment industry had true stars! “There are no superstars anymore,” Speiser recalls. “There’s no Jenna Jameson, Jesse Jane, Lisa Anne because everybody’s doing it and it makes it so not special.” In the Age...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Rachel Schenk was easily the star of the very first Manwhore Podcast: Live! Sadly, the Oct. 8th show is lost to time due to a botched recording. So I called (texted) Rachel to come back for a full episode! The comedian guest remembers nearly nothing of our *über romantic* evenings together years ago. We instead discussed her most d...

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Mindy Raf is ready to get back into the dating game. Her and her fiancé are still together, but the polyamorous comedian is finally making room in her life for a new partner! But polyamory comes with homework. Books, podcasts, think pieces—all aim to assist you with the emotional labor attached to having multiple romantic relations...