The Lit Lounge Live!

Every relationship faces conflict. What if those moments of tension could actually bring you closer instead of pushing you apart? In this episode of The Lit Lounge Live Podcast, you’ll discover practical steps for couples to transform conflict into deeper connection. What you’ll learn: How to communicate without constant arguing so both partners feel heard and respected. Simple strategies to turn...

Welcome to The Lit Lounge Live! where Christian couples discover how to move beyond the busyness of life and build a marriage that’s deeply connected, alive of excitement, and rooted in purpose. Hosted by Debra and Jabari Steward, Transformational Christian Marriage Architects and founders of Keeping It Lit Media, this podcast blends biblical wisdom and real conversation that empower Christian cou...

We don’t just coach couples, we are the couple who had to do the work first. In this episode of The Lit Lounge: Real Talk for Christian Marriages, we walk through parts of our Marriage Reset Checklist—live, in real time. Not for show. For realignment. We're Debra and Jabari Steward. We help Christian couples transform their marriage from just 'fine' to truly phenomenal. We've built the frameworks...

What Happens When God Feels Closer Than Your Spouse? It’s a silent struggle many married couples face but hesitate to address. In this powerful and vulnerable episode, Jabari Steward shares the deeply personal story of following God’s call, the spiritual isolation that crept into his marriage, and the heartbreaking consequences that followed. But this isn’t a story of defeat. It’s a testimony to G...

A Laker fan married a Clipper fan… what could go wrong? We’ve got our differences (and trust us, it gets lively during basketball season), but one thing we agree on is this: even the best need a coach. Take Kobe Bryant—a Laker legend. At the top of his game, he had Phil Handy as his personal skills coach, sharpening his skills and pushing him to even greater heights. But what does that have to do...