The Libido Fairy Podcast

In this episode, Hannah talks about sexual motivators, how sex drive really works, and answers the question of whether you need to have sex to have a healthy relationship.

Is sex your duty? A friend sent me this tweet yesterday about “duty sex” that is blowing up on X. I think within 2 days it had over 5 million views and the responses got dicey. We’re going to check out that original tweet, read some of the wildest replies, and I’m going to give my take as a sex coach that’s helped thousands of women deal with sex challenges like this.

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah breaks down the challenges and strategies for initiating sex in a way that builds intimacy and connection. She begins by explaining the different types of desire—spontaneous and responsive—and how they affect the way partners approach sex. Hannah dives into the common struggles of initiating, such as fear of rejection and mismatched desire types,...

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah delivers 10 years of brutally honest sex advice that transforms your relationship with sex, your body, and your partner. Drawing from her experience coaching thousands of women, she dives into the most effective, no-nonsense tips that will help you reclaim your pleasure, stop faking orgasms, and boost your desire.

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast* Hannah introduces a simple yet transformative bedroom tool that can enhance intimacy, boost confidence, and bring more playfulness into your sex life. Sharing personal stories and client experiences, she explains how this underrated addition can heighten your senses, reduce performance pressure, and build deeper trust with your partner. Hannah offers pr...

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah takes on the topic of faking orgasms—a common issue for many women. Drawing from personal experiences and stories from her students, she explores the reasons why women fake it, ranging from wanting to protect their partner’s feelings to feeling insecure about their own ability to orgasm. Hannah explains why faking orgasms is damaging to both pers...

In this powerful episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the topic of sexual confidence and freedom. Inspired by a conversation with one of her students in The Intimacy Accelerator, who expressed jealousy of Hannah’s ease and playfulness around sex, Hannah shares what it truly takes to let go of guilt, shame, and years of awkwardness in the bedroom. She discusses how women can start...

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into one of the most challenging aspects of intimacy: giving honest feedback about sex without hurting your partner’s feelings or causing conflict. Drawing from her personal experiences and years of coaching, she shares practical tips on how to approach these conversations with compassion, openness, and curiosity. Hannah discusses why it’s...

In this episode of the Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah Deindorfer busts common myths about sex in long-term relationships. She discusses how desire discrepancy (when one partner wants sex more than the other) is normal, the prevalence of responsive desire (needing emotional or physical stimulation to feel aroused), and the fact that many women don’t orgasm during sex—yet this doesn’t mean the sex is...

In this episode, Hannah Deindorfer, the Libido Fairy, shares five actionable tips to enhance sexual satisfaction. She highlights the importance of supporting the nervous system, adding more time for foreplay, engaging in self-touch, stimulating nerve-rich areas like the clitoris and nipples during sex, and using lubrication to prevent discomfort.

In this episode, Hannah is interviewed by Marina on The Deep Within Podcast about her journey to overcoming sexual trauma, mental health issues, and gives practical tools for overcoming negative sexual experiences.

In this episode, Hannah gives simple tips to help you figure out what you want in the bedroom so you can communicate it effectively with your partner and have better sex.

In this episode, Hannah Deindorfer, also known as the Libido Fairy, dives into the critical changes you need to make in your beliefs and behaviors to reignite your sexual desire. She shares practical steps to overcome common misconceptions about sex, prioritize your pleasure, and create a more fulfilling intimate life. Learn how simple shifts can break the cycle of rejection and help you crave sex...

Listen in on a conversation between The Period Nutritionist and The Libido Fairy. We chat all things women's sexual health, body connection, and regaining periods and libido.

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the rejection-pressure-avoidance cycle that so many couples face when there's a difference in libido. She breaks down why forcing yourself to have sex just to please your partner can actually harm your desire even more, and shares what you should do instead. Learn how to explore your own pleasure, build security in your relationship be...

In this episode, Hannah dives deep into the topic of intimacy avoidance. She shares her personal experiences of avoiding intimacy and provides insight into how avoidance creates a reinforcing feedback loop of fear and anxiety. Discover how fear often amplifies what isn’t real and how exposure therapy can help you confront and dissolve those fears. If you’ve ever found yourself avoiding your partne...

74% of sexless marriages end in divorce. Hannah shares seven mistakes to avoid when it comes to sex. If you’re making any of these mistakes, they’re a recipe for becoming that statistic.

In this episode, Hannah gives tangible tips for getting out of your head and into your body during sex so you can stop spectatoring and start experiencing more pleasure.

In this episode, Hannah is putting words to some things that can be hard for low libido partners to describe.

Hannah shares her engagement story and talks about her commitment to pleasure and a spicy story with a lesson.

In this love note, Hannah talks about two fixes you can implement now to stop automatically rejecting your partner when they initiate with you.

Today, Hannah goes in on THE TRAP OF CARETAKING and how that’s been a huge killer of her libido as well as one of the main barriers she sees in clients. She gives tips on how to surrender, slow down, receive, and enjoy pleasure and sex.

Hannah is interviewed on the Unnamed and Untamed Podcast and shares her story and tangible tips for breaking through common barriers to desire including resentment, shame, and emotional disconnection.

In this episode, Hannah busts one of the most common myths about sex and helps you figure out why you should want sex (or not)?

Join Hannah as she answers listener questions on Seggs Talk Radio Sleepover with Thea. Topics range from keeping things spicy in long-term relationships to cucking and more.