The Libido Fairy Podcast

In this episode, Hannah interviews one of the Libido Fairy coaches, Shannon Hamaker. Shannon is a certified sex coach, educator, and somatic practitioner on a mission to help people shed shame and reconnect with their authentic sexual selves with a specialization in midlife, menopause, perimenopause, and pelvic floor pain. Learn about how to work with us: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-...

In this episode, Hannah talks about foundational ideas that can help women who struggle with desire finally understand more about what's going on in the bedroom. Free quiz mentioned in the episode: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/6552a91c0f189100149493e1 Get support from The Libido Fairy team: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-day-intimacy-accelerator

In this episode, Hannah's interviewed by Abigail Jensen on Rat Girls podcast. We walk through how to go from faking orgasms to enjoying mind-blowing sex with your partner and finding pleasure within yourself. From nervous system regulation, to identifying what you want, to desire types. Learn more about how to work with our team here: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-day-intimacy-accelera...

Today I’m interviewing one of the incredible coaches on my team that works with our students, Bri Carey. Bri is a postpartum intimacy expert and certified sex and relationship coach with over 17 years of experience in sexual health education. Her specialization is in helping parents rebuild intimacy, improve communication, and find their way back to one another. We are giving SO MUCH practical kno...

In this episode, Hannah is breaking down the seven biggest libido lies that are keeping you stuck, and giving you the truth so you can finally feel empowered and turned on again. Get the support of our team: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-day-intimacy-accelerator

In this episode, Hannah is interviewed on the Fluently Forward podcast to unpack the real reasons why so many women struggle with low desire in long-term relationships. From the stress connection, to the hidden role resentment plays in killing your turn-on, Hannah breaks it all down with compassion, clarity, and zero shame. We talk about: Why you're avoiding affection (hint: it's not just about yo...

In this episode, Hannah (aka The Libido Fairy) walks you through a practical, compassionate process for discovering what you actually want in the bedroom—so you can stop deferring, stop hoping your partner reads your mind, and start having sex that feels good for you. Turn on type quiz: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/6552a91c0f189100149493e1 Get the support of our team: https://hannah-dein...

If you’re a high-achieving, do-it-right kind of woman who finds herself overthinking, shutting down, or checking out during sex—you’re not alone. In this episode, Hannah (aka The Libido Fairy) unpacks how perfectionism is sabotaging your pleasure, why “good girls” often struggle in the bedroom, and what to do when sex starts to feel like another thing to perform or fix. Get the support of our team...

Feeling like you should want sex more — but you don’t? You’re not broken, but you might be making a few common mistakes without realizing it. In this episode, Hannah (aka The Libido Fairy) unpacks the sneaky habits that make it harder to feel turned on, connected, and excited about sex in your relationship — and why it’s not your fault. Get the support of our team: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykaja...

In this episode, Hannah (aka The Libido Fairy) breaks down the real reasons why women get stuck in their heads during sex—like stress, performance pressure, and nervous system dysregulation—and how to finally get out of your mind and back into your body. You’ll learn: Why it’s not a personal flaw—it’s a nervous system pattern How performance and people-pleasing kill pleasure The top 5 tools to fee...

In this episode, I’m sharing the five things I wish someone had told me back then—the things that could’ve saved me years of faking it, freezing up, and feeling broken. You’ll learn: 💡 Why mismatched desire is totally normal 💡 How to know if you have responsive desire 💡 What to do if you’re avoiding touch or affection 💡 Why there’s no “right” number of times to have sex 💡 How self-touch build...

Ever wonder how couples with mismatched sex drives actually make it work? In this episode, I’m giving you a real, behind-the-scenes look into my relationship with my partner Taylor—and exactly how we navigate our desire discrepancy without pressure, guilt, or disconnection. You'll learn: 💡 What “responsive desire” really looks like in action 💡 The role of pressure-free intimacy and how it unlock...

Most people think sexual compatibility is either there or it’s not—like some magical, uncontrollable force. But that’s bullshit. In this episode, I’m busting that myth and breaking down what actually makes you and your partner sexually compatible. I’ll walk you through 7 real signs of sexual compatibility, including: ✅ The #1 thing that matters most (hint: it’s not your sex drive) ✅ How to tell...

The best sex you’ve ever had is on the other side of deep emotional connection with your partner. And the opposite is true, too – when you are not on the same page emotionally with your partner, sex can feel even more disconnecting. So, how do you build this amorphous thing called emotional intimacy? I’ll tell you. Get the support of our team: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-day-intimacy...

In this episode, I’m breaking down: ✔️ The five steps to reclaiming your sexual power ✔️ How to identify the beliefs that are keeping you small ✔️ Why women lose connection to their desire in the first place ✔️ How to stop performing and actually enjoy sex for yourself ✔️ Why your pleasure is NOT an inconvenience (and how to ask for what you want) Your sexual power has always been yours. Now it’s...

In this episode, Hannah breaks down her answer to whether or not relationships need sex to survive. Get the support of our team: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-day-intimacy-accelerator

If you’re struggling to orgasm with your partner, it’s not because something is wrong with you. So many women can orgasm alone but not with a partner—or feel like their body just won’t cooperate, no matter how much they want to climax. And here’s the thing: it’s not just about technique. There are hidden reasons why orgasms feel out of reach, and today, I’m breaking down the five biggest ones—and...

In this episode, I’m breaking down: The biggest myth about libido that’s keeping you stuck Why your desire disappears in long-term relationships The real reason you want sex when you do How to identify your unique motivators for intimacy The question that will completely change how you see desire If sex has started to feel like another chore on your to-do list, this episode is for you. 📌 SHARE TH...

In this episode, Hannah shares a personal story of her experience uncovering the way she was being inauthentic in sex and shares tips for feeling more confident taking up space in sex and allowing yourself to feel more pleasure. Get the support of our team: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-day-intimacy-accelerator

Do you ever say yes to sex when you really mean no? You’re not alone—so many women fall into this pattern out of fear of disappointing their partner or avoiding awkward conversations. But saying yes when you don’t mean it doesn’t just hurt you—it can lead to resentment, disconnection, and a lack of desire over time. In this episode, I’m breaking down why we say yes when we mean no, why it’s time t...

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah reveals the often-overlooked secrets to creating deeply fulfilling and connected sexual experiences: what happens before and after sex. She shares how intentional preparation and aftercare can transform intimacy, enhance pleasure, and eliminate feelings of disconnection or regret. Get the support of our team: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.co...

In this episode, Hannah dives into one of the most common challenges in intimacy—faking pleasure and performing in bed. She breaks down why faking orgasms or pretending to enjoy things does more harm than good, for both you and your relationship. With practical steps and real talk, Hannah shares how to reconnect with your body, communicate honestly with your partner, and create a deeper sense of t...

In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the most powerful tools and frameworks for improving communication about sex and intimacy with your partner. Drawing from years of experience helping women create better relationships, she breaks down the essentials of effective communication. Whether you’re struggling to express your desires or simply want to strengthen your relations...

In this special year-end episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah reflects on her personal and professional growth in 2024, sharing nine transformative lessons she’s learned. From navigating public mistakes and embracing imperfection to prioritizing self-care, building a supportive team, and fostering meaningful relationships, Hannah candidly shares how these lessons have shaped her life and bu...

In this conversation, Hannah Deindorfer, a sex coach known as the libido fairy, discusses the importance of understanding the menstrual cycle and its impact on libido and intimacy. She emphasizes the concept of cycle syncing, which involves aligning intimacy with the different phases of the menstrual cycle to enhance emotional and physical wellbeing. Hannah provides practical tips for tracking the...