The Let's Talk Relationships Podcast

Men make up half the population — yet nearly 80 percent of suicide deaths. Young men are reporting record levels of loneliness. Many have fewer close friendships than any generation before them. They’re falling behind academically, struggling relationally, and quietly carrying pressure they don’t always have language for. So what is really going on? In this episode, I sit down with Kelly Gardner,...

In this episode, I sit down with Mikey Planeta , who you may recognize from season 17 of The Bachelor , for a deeper conversation about dating, faith, and emotional maturity in today’s world. We explore what it really looks like to date with intention as a Christian, the tension many people feel between modern dating culture and deeply held values, and the self work that is essential before enteri...

Dating today can feel confusing, discouraging, and honestly exhausting. Between endless swiping, mixed signals, and a culture that rewards chemistry over compatibility, a lot of people are left wondering what is actually going wrong and whether real love is still possible. In this episode, I sit down with Danny Goldstein , a former corporate lawyer turned matchmaker and founder of Crux Compatible...

In this episode, I sit down with Westley Baer from Love Is Blind season one to talk about what happens after the cameras turn off. We explore Westley’s dating life before the show, his experience navigating Love Is Blind , and what it was like coming to terms with the end of that chapter. From there, the conversation moves into the deeper work. The love letter he wrote to himself, his experience w...

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. R. Scott Gornto, therapist and author of The Stories We Tell Ourselves , to explore the quiet narratives that shape how we see ourselves and how we show up in relationships. We talk about where these internal stories come from, why they feel so real, and how they quietly influence our triggers, behaviors, and relational patterns. From dating and intimacy to con...

Today’s episode is a really special one for me. Bryan Reeves is someone whose work impacted me long before I had a podcast, long before I was coaching, and during a season when I really needed it. I read Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her while going through a breakup, and it was one of those books that didn’t just validate my experience, it gave language to needs I didn’t yet know how to name. It...

Marriage doesn’t always follow a straight path, and Carli and Patrick Roe prove that the winding roads can lead to something even stronger. In this episode, I sit down with Carli and Patrick to hear their unconventional love story: from meeting at a restaurant where they both worked, to breaking up, to finding their way back to each other and building a marriage rooted in friendship and growth. We...

Dating is already hard enough… so why are we making it harder with all these unspoken rules and assumptions? In this solo episode of Let’s Talk Relationships , I’m getting real about dating expectations, the kind we carry in our heads without even realizing it, and how they quietly sabotage connection. From the “he has to confirm the date or else” mindset to shutting down casual first date ideas,...

In this episode of Let’s Talk Relationships , we continue our Let’s Talk Marriage series with Steph and Mike, a couple who’ve known each other since childhood and recently celebrated their 10-year wedding anniversary. Their story is a beautiful example of friendship evolving into partnership but it didn’t come without a few bumps. Steph opens up about her initial hesitation in moving from friends...

What does it really mean to steward singleness well?  In this conversation, we dive into the tension of wanting to be present while feeling the pull of “what’s next,” the grief that can surface when life doesn’t look the way we expected, and the ways time can feel louder in this season. I’m joined by Ryan Wekenman —pastor at Red Rocks Austin, storyteller, and author of Single Today —and Jenelle Ch...

When Robin first met Mike, every sign pointed to walk away . He was 16 years older, already a grandfather, and (in her words) “everything about this was a hard pass.” But then something happened. In this episode, my dear friends Mike and Robin Evans share their 33-year love story: how an unlikely connection through a divorce recovery ministry turned into a marriage that has lasted over three decad...

This week, we’re continuing the Let’s Talk Marriage series with Ash and Sibs Meaney. Married for 32 years, their story offers a heartfelt look at what it really takes to build a lasting, faith-filled relationship. Ash has been a spiritual mentor in my life over the past few years, and it was such a gift to sit down with him and Sibs for this conversation. We talk about how they met, what it looked...

Welcome to the Let’s Talk Marriage series. This is a space where we’re pulling back the curtain on real marriages at every stage — from the honeymoon phase to the hard seasons no one talks about. We’re sitting down with couples who are choosing each other every day and asking what it really takes to build a lasting, loving relationship. No fluff. No filters. Just honest conversations, hard earned...

Get ready for a real one. In this episode, I’m joined by the wise, grounded, and always honest Louis Pisano, and we’re talking all things dating, heartbreak, and modern masculinity. We swap stories, get personal, and explore everything from getting your heart broken (and putting it back together) to figuring out what we actually want in a partner. Louis opens up about how a breakup sparked some se...

Brad Ledford may look like the Newport Beach cowboy of your algorithmic dreams, but behind the reels is a man with depth, discipline, and a whole lot of perspective. In this episode we talk about what it means to be a man of faith in today’s dating world, the role of emotional intelligence in modern masculinity, and why discipline is nonnegotiable if you want to build something that lasts. We also...

Why is dating today so exhausting these days? In this episode, I’m joined by Sam Whitney, author of How to Date Authentically , to unpack what’s really going on in the modern dating world. From the rise of self-focused dating to the pressure of performance and perfection, we explore why nearly half of Americans say dating feels harder now than it did ten years ago. Sam shares his take on how our e...

What if conflict could actually bring you closer? This week, I’m joined by conflict resolution specialist, relationship coach and registered psychotherapist Tannaz Hosseinpour, and we’re diving into a topic many of us try to avoid conflict. But here’s the thing: when handled with care and curiosity, conflict can strengthen your connection. Tannaz shares her unique journey from conflict law to rela...

In this episode, we're shining a light on narcissists—what to look for, how to protect yourself, and why these red flags are so often missed. I’m joined by Carla Litto, a no-BS licensed therapist known for helping people break free from toxic relationship patterns. She’s also the author of Outsmarting Egomaniacs , a self-help guide for anyone tired of getting manipulated, bullied, or emotiona...

In this episode of Let's Talk Relationships , we're diving into the world of situationships with dating coach and therapist Dr. Ibbie Aromolaran, PhD, LPC. Why do so many of us get stuck in these undefined, in-between relationships? We talk about how attachment styles, emotional behavior, and even things like love bombing play a role. Dr. Ibbie shares her insights on how knowing your val...

In my first ever solo episode (!) I’m opening up about some major life shifts: turning 35, leaving my corporate job in commercial real estate, and taking a huge leap of faith toward the work I feel truly called to do. I talk about what it’s looked like to slow down, get quiet, and actually listen—to myself, to God, and to the gentle nudges that come with closed doors and unexpected redirections. F...

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Adam Dorsay for an inspiring conversation about his journey to becoming a psychologist and the transformative power of connection. From navigating ADHD and dyslexia to transitioning from the corporate world to psychology, Dr. Dorsay shares the pivotal moments that shaped his path and led to his book Super Psyched . We explore what it means to truly connect with...

In this episode of Let’s Talk Relationships , I sit down with BC Serna, a men’s conscious coach, for a deeply engaging and honest conversation. BC opens up about his journey from youth mentoring to coaching men, sharing how purpose and personal growth have shaped his approach to life and love. We dive into the challenges of modern dating in LA, why authenticity and honesty are non-negotiables in r...

In this episode of Let's Talk Relationships , I’m chatting with relationship and wellness coach Marianne Drew about the 'Nice Guy Syndrome'—that belief that 'nice guys finish last.' We dig into what’s really behind this mindset, inspired by Dr. Robert Glover’s book No More Mr. Nice Guy, and talk about the signs, root causes, and how to shift from being a 'Nice Guy&apo...

In this episode of Let's Talk Relationships , I sit down with Kesha Hughes, the inspiring founder of the Grace and Wisdom Institute. Kesha shares her journey of building a life skills program for teens and dives into the real gaps she’s seen in today’s education system. We cover everything from teaching essential life skills to how technology is changing the way we build relationships, plus K...

In this episode of Let's Talk Relationships , I sit down with dating expert and author Evan Mark Katz to dig into the highs, lows, and realities of modern dating. Evan shares how he went from screenwriter to “the dating guy” and reflects on how online dating has changed the way we look for love. We get into everything—from the rise of dating apps to why good, old-fashioned courtship still mat...