The Lesbian Mafia

This is just a short Signal I sent to one of my friends last night while i was winding down getting ready for bed. I’d had half a gummy to sleep. I’m just posting it here to test if I could ever manage a minute long pod format, prob won't work for me, but I'm trying to test it out because I miss podcasting. Anyway.  Love you, miss you. -Sandi  And to the person who emailed info@thelesbianmafia.com...

Oh hi, back again with a lil more, this time with some touchstone friends. We tried to talk about lesbian sluttiness, but then her daughters walk in, so we shifted the vibe quick, but I left the recorder running, Figured why not post it. The rest is just us talking, reminiscing a little which we do all the time, and maybe not all of it will relate, but may be worth a listen. P.S. The sound quality...

This episode was recorded in pieces--beginning, middle & end--spread out over the last five months. It’s been sitting on my laptop with a few other podcast files waiting to be published, but finally, here we are. The episode starts off a bit odd because I had to cut the intro where I say hi because it was choppy. Yeah and I cut out some crap I didn’t mean to, so the ending’s a little janky, bu...

 In this ep, I talk about my first experience getting flamed on Bluesky after advocating for fairness and safety in women’s sports. It's a heated topic ya know, caring about the safety and rights of women and girls, especially in the LGBTQ+ and trans activist community, where that’s seen as a no-no. I talk about the smearing backlash I received for standing up for the protection of female athletes...

I talk a little about Ellen DeGeneres’ quiet exit and the strange way her legacy is being handled. Ellen wasn’t just a talk show host, she was a groundbreaking lesbian figure in mainstream media. Despite her flaws, she did pave the way for a certain kind of lesbian visibility, and it’s strange how her departure was met with silence instead of recognition. I also want to acknowledge something impor...

For over a decade, I disappeared, not just from podcasting, but from my life. My mother was ill, and caregiving eventually became my full-time world for about 15 years. This series pulls back the curtain on some of that time, I'm sharing therapy sessions recorded during those years with my psychologist (modified voice for anonymity). It’s an unfiltered look into the struggles of balancing family o...

A special concoction brewed by a talented acupuncturist. A lil about how Wendy Williams is the undisputed queen of radio. Plus, a chat with longtime LA friend about the unforgettable experience of the LA fires and life right now in California.  Referenced: Gisèle Pelicot's ex-husband, dozens of others found guilty in rape and drugging trial in France https://www.cbsnews.com/news/gisele-pelicot-fra...

EXCLUSIVE: Luigi Mangione's mom has something to say from the other side! Along with return guest: Aaron Kimberly, We talk Canadian politics and we pick up where we left off last time and get into it into some of the topics we started discussing. The complexities of gender from a detransitioner's perspective. During the episode, Aaron discusses the book Understanding Transgender Identities: Four V...

It started when I spotted Paul Newman’s cookies in the green market, which got me thinking about his legacy charity with wife Joanne Woodward. I'm so impressed by how these two very imperfect people created something so beautiful. Paul passed years ago, Joanne is now nearing the end of her life, yet their incredible charity is still thriving. I also share my recent attempt at Pure Barre (spoiler:...

Visited with a longtime friend for dinner and while she’s straight, nobodies perfect, ya know. This is just a lil bit of our chat about the loss of her mom. We also talk just a lil about abortion. And she also echoes my sentiments on the fake standards on women set by the manosphere and Incelville. Meantime they're they’re lucky if anyone's interested at all. No matter how hard societies attempt t...

Aaron Kimberly, a whistleblower exposing practices at the gender clinic where she once worked, discusses concerns about the fast-tracking of medical gender transitions. She shares her own experience of having surgery approved after just a few visits with a family doctor at the gender clinic and one psychiatric consultation. As a psychiatric mental health nurse, Aaron has raised alarms about the ur...

Who needs lesbian social events or lesbian dating apps when I’ve found straight divorced men right in my building? My 47 year old boyfriend doesn't wear a too-tight polyester dress though, so I guess the lack of said dress just puts me in the boring 'het' camp now. When I wanna feel unique and special, and really stand out from other hets, I could always force him into a dress and we can be keer t...

Thinking out loud about how LGBTQ and queer identities intersect with the experiences of Lesbians and the issue of Lesbian erasure. Seeing how the drive for inclusion at any cost (mostly for 45+ yo straight men who identify as "lesbians") within the queer framework has led to the exclusion and underrepresentation of Lesbian women. Where do we go from here? Article referenced: A Straight Man Walks...

Late-night recording, Scattered ramblings. A very unfocused chat with a long time friend (Patti). We touched a bit on long-term friendship, parenting, and a lil commiserating about our entirely shitty families . I came to the table with no topic for this podcast and was very tired, so it's pretty unorganized. We also talked a little about the Olympic disaster and, toward the end, I'm rambling some...

In this solo episode, I recount my latest Pilates session (a newish venture) and an assisted stretching appointment where I found myself in a compromising position with my Flexologist when she revealed details about her polyamorous lifestyle. And she later shared that her kid is trans, possibly thinking we might have something in common. Don't worry, I quickly clarified that. Apologies for being a...

Some comments about Panera's shocking lethal lemonade.  Then, I sit down with a dear friend who opens up about her journey. After six years together, her partner's decision to transition gender sparked a serious shift in their relationship. From the initial discussion to the swift decision for bilateral mastectomy surgery without any psychiatric eval. She deliberately avoided the psychiatric evalu...

Just some thoughts on LGBTQ+ and how Transgender activism is impacting the Lesbian world.   Planet Fitness Transgender Policy (referenced during episode) https://t-nation.com/t/planet-fitness-transgender-policy/287277 Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747 Follow TLM on TwitterX: https://twitter.com/TheLesbianMaf...

The miraculous world of Chinatown massages. Close encounters with trees. The question of whether it's fair for everyone to let uber-hot women work. Also, the often underdiscussed allure of menopause and the very often overlooked freedom that definitely deserves a spotlight. Giving meno-merrymaking the bloody attention it secretly craves! Email: info@TheLesbianMafia.com Twitter/X: http://Twitter.co...

Observing the world of fitness, where each workout reveals the sad state of the womenz. Also, in conversation with old friend Dante, we explore her transformation from a glamorous exotic dancer past to a masculine identity.  Feel free to reach out at info@thelesbianmafia.com for any inquiries or communication. Looking forward to hearing from you! Emailing burns calories! (Not really) Until we meet...

Rant about the not at all hidden risks lurking in our favorite fast food. The inconvenient consequences of convenience dining.  McDonald’s revenue soars as it hikes menu prices: ‘$18 Big Macs’ https://trib.al/QOtdhJm Dunkin Donuts nightmarish sugar & pesticides:   https://twitter.com/modelthins/status/1702309923575513435 Starbucks ditto Dunkin Donuts: https://twitter.com/No0orah/status/1702013...

It's been forever. Missed you terribly, but hi again =)

New mini-podcast, can you believe it?! Haven't posted in a very long WHILE but had to say something about some of the things we have seen on our Twitter timeline NAMELY Eva Longoria LYING about eating Cheetos! Miss you all terribly and not sure when there will be another podcast but someone had to tackle this tough issue once and for all! Music: Earth Versus the World - The Polish Ambassador  Love...

Ciao, long time. Ignore the color of the audio player (on the site) it's ugly and needs to be changed. Nicole begins with an audio apology for being a slacker s.o.b so I “audio” answer because these bitches do NOT help me for shit! Let's hope they aren't as LAZY in the sack as they are with NOT EVER helping me with this podcast!!! It’s just me and Nicole on this one and it’s gets a little contenti...

Finally been bullied into posting a new show, it’s been forever! Been having some technical issues with the site, PLEASE ignore the hideous colors on the audio player, they’re DEFINITELY temporary, but we ARE going to try to post more regularly and if you don’t like this one, blame the listeners who finally got us to get it done and post this one! Longer than usual mono where I talk catalog models...

mono is super short and TBFTGOG plays for too long but what are ya gonna do? experimenting on skype with Lale in LA and of course the sound is dreadful. we talk cigs, lesbian repair men, and more!!! Nicole and I chat about her leaving the psych ward gig, coming out at her new one, and other stuff like what to do when you find out that you’re not sexually compatible with your partner late in the re...