The Later Dater Today

The Later Dater Today

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Between the ages of 45-59? (Give or take a few years) and dating or thinking about it? You're in the right place. There's never been a better time to date later in life. Let us show you the advantages of dating later in life AND the places you might overlook or trip. Lakshmi Rengarajan, host and guide of the The Later Dater podcast has spent almost 15 years trying to improve and shed an illuminating light on the culture of modern dating. She's designed one-of-a-kind events that challenged the idea of the dating profile, she worked at the world's largest dating conglomerate (Match), she studied...

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Mar 17, 2025

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#12 Heartbreak And The Later Dater Part 2: The Overlooked Value of Heartache 03.08.2023

Why you should listen to this episode:  In this 2nd part on heartbreak and heartache, Lakshmi goes into one of the easy-to-overlook benefits when you're moving through hurt and disappointment. Our culture talks more about heartbreak and heartache as things we must "get over" rather than things we might "get into." This refreshing perspective might have you thinking and feeling differently about ho...

#11 Do I Want To Deal With This? How to Listen to Someone Else's Less-Than-Perfect Past 28.07.2023

Why you should listen to this episode: Lakshmi shares a strategy for Later Daters on how to skillfully listen and respond to a person's less than perfect past. Discover how to best build a connection when someone opens up about their perceived "baggage" and turn it into a connective experience you can feel good about. Who is a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels l...

#10 Heartbreak and The Later Dater Part 1: Why You Never Want To Outgrow It 20.07.2023

In this episode, Lakshmi explores one of the most universal human experiences - heartbreak - and why it is different for a Later Dater.  Whether you're currently going through heartache or have in the past, this episode will provide insight and perspective for those looking to process and own this challenging and humbling experience. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com .  Be sure to follow Th...

#9 Baggage or Luggage? How To Think About Your Past 14.07.2023

Lakshmi explores the idea of “baggage” in today’s dating culture and the sneaky way it can show up for Later Daters in particular.  Sometimes weighing people like an anchor rather than filling them up with momentum and excitement about the future.  Even terms like divorce, widow, infidelity, never married; they're not just words, they can shape our experience and your ability to connect with other...

#8 The Problem With "The Numbers Game" 06.07.2023

You've probably heard it before..."You have to get out there and play the numbers game." Lakshmi sheds light on why this belief can actually hurt your chances in dating. Listen to learn a different numbers game worth playing that will truly help Later Daters. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com .  Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater...

#7 From Sitting To Swiping: A Quick History of The Dating Industry 01.07.2023

Making the most of dating today as a Later Dater means understanding how we got here...in episode 7, Lakshmi offers a short 20 minute history of key watershed moments in recent dating history and why they matter. For a much deeper look at what's happened in the past ten years, listen to episode one of Vox Media's Land of The Giants: Dating Games, which is a comprehensive history of the key players...

#6 When Dating Feels Overwhelming: Intergalactic Dating Part 2 23.06.2023

Dating has changed significantly in the past 10-20 years. Part 2 looks at an aspect of Intergalactic Dating that may be unique to Later Daters. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com . Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today/ Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Sc...

#5 Why Most Dating Advice is Sh*tty 14.06.2023

 Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com . Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today/ Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of-pivot/id1073226719?i=1000639439067   Help keep the The Later Dater Tod...

#4 When Dating Feels Overwhelming: Intergalactic Dating Part 1 08.06.2023

In part 1 of this insightful 2-part series, Lakshmi invites Today's Later Daters to rethink the cosmic and often surreal experiences of modern dating through the lens of...Star Trek. Listen in on how lessons from voyaging in the vastness of outer space can help you better understand your own dating journey. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com . Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Insta...

#3 Everyone Is a Museum and Most of Us Stay in the Lobby 01.06.2023

Stop with the "Give People A Chance". Listen in to how this simple metaphor can change your perspective on dating. It's another foundational Later Dater insight! Dating later in life has changed. The Later Dater Today is reimagining and rethinking what it means to date later in life. There are MANY reasons why someone might be dating later in life.   Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com . Be s...

#2 We're All Dating All The Time 01.06.2023

Dating Later in Life has changed. We are reimagine and thinking what it means to be dating later in life today.  Learn one of the foundational concepts for Today's Later Dater, "We're All Dating All The Time". Lakshmi walks you through this key principle she brings to all her work around connection but especially when it comes to dating. Dating is not just something single people do. Learn more at...

#1 The Later Dater Today: Who, Why and What To Expect 01.06.2023

An exciting introduction to The Later Dater Today, who that is, why now and what to expect. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com . Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today/ Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/...

Welcome To The Later Dater Today 01.06.2023

Why The Later Dater Today and Why Now.  This short manifesto offers an overview and sneak peek behind the inspiration and thinking for The Later Dater Today.  Be among the first for the super soft launch of the Later Dater Today. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com . Be sure to follow The Later Dater Today on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today/ Lakshmi was named among...

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