Lape Soetan

The Lape Soetan Audio Show

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This is The Lape Soetan Audio Show, the podcast that helps men and women over the age of 30 navigate the world of relationships. If you’re looking to add more love to your life, start by adding this podcast. Lape Soetan is a certified relationship coach, author and speaker. To find out more about Lape and how she can help you, go to www.bit.ly/lapesoetan

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#97: Should you stay or should you go? 16.06.2026 5:33

SHOULD YOU STAY OR SHOULD YOU GO? If you’re in a tough spot in your relationship and wondering if you should stay and battle on or if you should throw in the towel and move on, today’s podcast episode is for you. Thereare several things to take into consideration before making such a big decision so, check out the episode for some tips. Get details on my various coaching options and their prices...

#96: How to make consent sexy and cool 22.04.2026 6:35

HOW TO MAKE CONSENT SEXY AND COOL Sex is more fun when all involved are willing participants. Even if the sex involves role-playing or fantasy-ideations like reluctance or restraint, it can only be fully-enjoyed if everyone involved has agreed to participate in the act or acts to follow. Sex never has to be about manipulation or force. Fun, exciting sex can still be achieved when you get consent...

#95: How to find the right person 20.02.2026 4:14

If you’ve been searching high and low, online and in reallife for the right person for you but haven’t had much success then you’re in luck because in this episode of my podcast, I share my top tips on how to find the right romantic partner for you. Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ . I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, comm...

#94: Coping with Christmas alone 26.11.2025 5:54

Christmas may be the season to be jolly but if you’re single then, you can feel anything but. If being in a relationship is priority number one for you and you’re single at Christmas, the season can be tough. But! I’m here to make things easier for you. In this episode of my podcast, I share tips on how to cope with Christmas if you’re single and don’t want to be. Enjoy! Get details on my vario...

#93: What it means when he says, "You're too good for me." 07.10.2025 4:36

This is what it means when he says, "You're too good for me." Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ . I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ . Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an...

#92: How to find love as an introvert woman 10.06.2025 5:07

HOW TO FIND LOVE AS AN INTROVERT WOMAN Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠here⁠ . I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠here⁠ . Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being sing...

What to know about The Lape Soetan Audio Show 29.05.2025 1:07

WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT THE LAPE SOETAN AUDIO SHOW Get details on my various coaching options and their prices here . I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out here . Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being s...

#91: The most unusual red flags in men 10.02.2025 4:39

THE MOST UNUSUAL RED FLAGS IN MEN Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Check out my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ .Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/coursesbylape⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠he...

#90: What to do when you’re bored with your sex life 17.09.2024 7:21

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU'RE BORED WITH YOUR SEX LIFE Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Check out my various coaching options and their prices ⁠here⁠ .Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/coursesbylape⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woma...

#89: What does a healthy relationship look like 24.04.2024 5:39

WHAT DOES A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP LOOK LIKE? Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: ⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/coursesbylape⁠⁠⁠ Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠...

#88: How to make small talk with your crush 29.01.2024 4:09

HOW TO MAKE SMALL TALK WITH YOUR CRUSH Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: ⁠⁠bit.ly/coursesbylape⁠⁠ Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ . Get regular...

#87: How to be more confident 14.11.2023 4:47

HOW TO BE MORE CONFIDENT Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love ⁠here⁠ . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: ⁠bit.ly/coursesbylape⁠ Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One ⁠here⁠ . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman ⁠here⁠ . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s ⁠here⁠ . Get regular tips on love and relati...

#86: Why guys don't approach you 24.07.2023 5:01

WHY GUYS DON'T APPROACH YOU Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love and relations...

#85: Should you date a colleague? 11.04.2023 3:33

SHOULD YOU DATE A COLLEAGUE? Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love and relationship...

#84: How to talk to women and make them like you 19.10.2022 4:36

HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN AND MAKE THEM LIKE YOU Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love and re...

#83: How to get out of a situationship 25.07.2022 4:38

HOW TO GET OUT OF A SITUATIONSHIP Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love and relationship...

#82: How to know if he sees you as a friend or something more 03.05.2022 3:46

HOW TO KNOW IF HE SEES YOU AS A FRIEND OR SOMETHING MORE Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips o...

#81: How to know quickly if someone is for you 21.03.2022 5:08

HOW TO KNOW QUICKLY IF SOMEONE IS FOR YOU Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love and rela...

#80 - New relationship: should you do a hard or soft launch? 14.02.2022 3:34

NEW RELATIONSHIP: SHOULD YOU DO A HARD OR SOFT LAUNCH? Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on...

#79 - How to know if he wants to be more than friends 29.12.2021 2:31

HOW TO KNOW IF HE WANTS TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love an...

#78 - How to find your twin flame 26.11.2021 4:44

HOW TO FIND YOUR TWIN FLAME Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love and relationships by f...

#77 - What to look out for before going into a relationship 28.10.2021 4:05

WHAT TO LOOK OUT FOR BEFORE GOING INTO A RELATIONSHIP Get my LATEST e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on l...

#76 - What to do if you're unhappy in your relationship 30.09.2021 6:14

WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE UNHAPPY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP Get my NEW e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love and...

#75 - What to do when he doesn’t call 30.08.2021 4:05

WHAT TO DO WHEN HE DOESN'T CALL Get my NEW e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here . Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here . Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here . Get regular tips on love and relationships by...

#74 - How to know if he's just wasting your time 27.07.2021 4:46

HOW TO KNOW IF HE'S JUST WASTING YOUR TIME Get my NEW e-book, 100 Affirmations to Help You Manifest Love here . Take my e-course to help you attract the person you want here: bit.ly/coursesbylape Get my EBOOK, 7 Steps to Meeting the One here .   Get my EBOOK, Loving & Living as an Introvert Woman here .   Get my EBOOK, How to Be a Single Woman in your 30s here .  Get regular tip...