The Jesus Hilario Show

In this episode, I share the personal journey of how my wife and I transformed our lives by tackling $50,000 in debt—including $46,000 in student loans—in less than two years. I dive into the "game-changing" shift from viewing ourselves as owners of money to becoming stewards of it, explaining how a disciplined budget and open communication in marriage helped us eliminate the stress and fighting t...

In this episode, I dive into the challenges of navigating a world built for the "norm" while living with ADHD and neurodiversity. I share a recent experience from a live stream where I had to handle social policing—those moments when critics try to put you in a box or tell you to "say it better". I explore the internal struggle of self-consciousness regarding speech and communication, the reality...

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m diving deep into my debt-free journey. It’s been about three years since my wife and I reached a point of having absolutely no debt—no house payments, no car payments, and no student loans. I discuss the intense "social policing" we faced from people telling us that staying in debt was the "normal" way to live, and how we pushed through with overtime,...

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m reflecting on what 12-plus years of marriage has taught me about faith, trust, and the reality of shared life. I dive into how our expectations often clash with reality, the importance of keeping the covenant we made at the altar, and how we’ve learned to navigate my ADHD within our relationship. Whether you are single and seeking a partner or have be...

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m talking about my recent journey rediscovering my passion for the guitar. From my early days learning metal music to earning a degree in classical guitar, I’ve realized how much I’ve missed the instrument. I dive into why I’m looking at eight-string electrics, why learning to read music is a complete game-changer, and how to ignore the "social policing...

In this episode, I’m getting real about the hard lessons I’ve learned regarding "leeches" and the narcissistic people who use your kindness against you. I share my experience of trying to help family members with rental properties, only to face entitlement and manipulation. I also open up about my decision to go no-contact with my mother for seven years to protect my children and break the cycle o...

In this episode of "Real Talk," Jesus Hilario, host of the Corpus Christi Originals Podcast, pulls back the curtain on the local creator economy. From identifying toxic "triangulation" and narcissism in creative spaces to the exact gear setup (Sony ZV-E10 & DJI Mic) used to build the CCO Network, this is a masterclass in professional growth.

Go behind the scenes with the host of the Corpus Christi Originals Podcast. In this update, we dive into the reality of managing a growing local platform—from handling viral social media clips and Facebook comments to the challenges of monetizing and guest invites. We also discuss recent highlights, including local water crisis discussions, interviews with figures like Rachel Caballero, and the Dr...

In this video, I’m responding to a viewer’s question about a painful but common tactic in narcissistic families: the isolation of siblings to maintain control. Drawing from my own life, I share how my mother used "triangulation" to position herself as the middleman between my brothers and me. For years, we didn't go to each other; we went to her. I discuss the regret of lost time, the reality of b...

Month since last open mic. I love my family—sometimes need a breather and that's normal. Went up unprepared, got chuckles. Not seeking approval from other comics anymore—their silence hurts. Just enjoying the ride. Daughter waited up for me. Watching an excellent comedian—reps, practice, iron sharpens iron.

Fixed camera flickering using Gemini AI in 30 minutes. Moving podcast from live stream to weekly Wednesday uploads. Consolidating brand and podcast. Reconsidering stand-up comedy—ADHD dopamine hit then crash. Is it okay to stop after 10 open mics? Focus on one project, not multiple mediocre ones.

At 2:30am on my sofa, I finally had peace about where I'm going after I die. I've feared this since I was 10 years old. I'm ready to go to heaven but it's on God's time. My wife helped me realize we're not actively looking for sin. Faith like a mustard seed.

I don't get social cues and people make fun of me indirectly. My brain doesn't catch up till later. People with ADHD can be taken advantage of in relationships—I went no contact with my narcissistic mother after years. Teaching my daughter about ADHD so she knows what to look out for.

Random thoughts vlog recorded February 22, 2026! In this episode, I discuss taking the Corpus Christi Originals podcast on the road to local businesses, dealing with the annoying guy at the gym who won't stop talking, my one-hour full body workout routine (compound movements only - squats, deadlifts, bench press), and why my wife says I need more cardio. I dive into a stand-up comedy realization:...

Rough morning canceling work due to babysitter scheduling conflict. I hate letting my employer down—it's taxing on my mind. Dispatchers use words to get in your head and make you backstep. I keep everything on text to stay professional and documented. Driving for owner operator adds pressure.

Men need hugs but it's difficult to ask. I see it in myself and my 5-year-old son. Culture teaches "don't cry, keep going, don't be emotional." My wife knows I'm strong but sometimes when we're both tired I need acknowledgement. At open mic, a guy needed a hug—comic said "let's break toxic masculinity." It's okay for men to have emotions and want hugs.

Real talk about being the oddball in every social circle. In this episode, I share how I already know when I'm going to get rejected or put outside the circle because I'm weird - at church, comedy, music, coding, work - there's always cliques and I'm usually the oddball. I'm done trying to be part of those circles, don't need their acceptance or peer pressure. It bothers me when excluded but I can...

Random thoughts vlog after a long, rough day. In this episode, I talk about the importance of rest for mental well-being and how negative thoughts creep in when exhausted - I need a nap and a guitar (my therapy), working out makes my muscles scream to go back. I discuss patience running thin with people, gaslighting in unhealthy relationships (when someone uses your patience too thin then calls yo...

Jesus shares his morning thoughts, from marriage stresses and ways to reset before going home, to his comedy show learnings and the psychology of laughter. Plus, insights on how his size affects his stage presence and how he flips the script on potential hecklers.

My eighth open mic at Rich's pool hall on January 4th, 2026—first open mic of the new year! In this episode, I share the totally different experience of performing in a pool hall venue, dealing with imposter syndrome after the set ("Dude, am I funny?"), and learning that even experienced comics get it all the time. I discuss my writing process: using pen and paper, computer typing, Gemini for rese...

Real talk about never fitting into social circles and why I always create my own lane. In this episode, I share how I've never really been part of a crew or group from high school to now - whenever I try to be part of a social circle, I find myself putting aside what I want to do to please the circle. Learn why I had to create my own thing with podcasting, comedy, guitar, programming, and YouTube,...

Real talk about bombing in stand-up comedy. In this episode, I share my humbling experience at open mic number three where I completely bombed, the depression that followed, and how I learned to be confident in failure for open mic number four. Learn what it's like when jokes don't land, why I didn't prepare the audience or warm them up, how I wasn't looking at the crowd during number three, and t...

My second stand-up comedy open mic at Mesquite Street Comedy in Corpus Christi! In this episode, I share what I learned about trimming the fat (fixing bits to make them better), stretching jokes longer, and being uncomfortable when the audience doesn't laugh. I almost didn't go up—sat in my car second-guessing myself until my wife encouraged me. Learn about recording your sets on your phone to ana...

Description: I finally did it—my first stand-up comedy open mic! In this episode, I share the nerve-wracking experience of trying stand-up for the first time at a downtown Corpus Christi open mic hosted by Tina La Cochina. After telling guests Chris Longoria and Ronnie Fryar I wanted to try comedy, they got me on the hook and I had to kick myself in the butt to actually go through with it. Learn w...

Real talk about fame, recognition, and staying humble. In this episode, I discuss how a little bit of fame can change people—and how I've noticed it starting to affect me too. My wife and I talked about how some people aren't ready for fame because as soon as they get it, they want more. I share stories about women using their looks to get on my podcast, people demanding free promotion for their e...