The INFJ Whisperer

INFJs and misanthropy - this is another one of those contradictions that make up our personality. We hate people and humanity, and we love people and humanity. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you...

INFJs hate promoting themselves - it feels like bragging to them, something they despise greatly. So how is a writer like me supposed to get the word out about her books??? :S How To Get Over Yourself And Write Every Day - https://amzn.to/3hG26SH Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for...

Too much independence can be a bad thing, INFJs. We sometimes take it a little too far, I think. At least I know I do. I run away from people, pretending like I can live without them when I know that no being can be an island. Every being needed others around them, especially as we are all social creatures here. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vit...

Don't foist your high standards on others, INFJs. Just because we have high standards for ourselves, it doesn't mean that we should hold others to that high standard as well. It's not fair to them. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https...

Numbing ourselves from pain - a viewer recently said something about how he doesn't understand why everyone feels so much pain because he doesn't. Instantly, a red flag popped up in my head. It showed to be a lack of mind-body connection that's inherent in a lot of INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my cour...

Maladaptive daydreaming - it's a thing and many of us are doing it without being conscious of it. It has actually been labeled as a disorder and I'm surprised to see that I have spent hours and hours doing what I thought was a harmless thing, but it's actually not so harmless. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my...

Giving mixed signals? INFJs, when confused about their own feelings, have a tendency to give out mixed signals and send out mixed messages to the people around them. Fix that through self-reflection and self-analysis. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check i...

Hypocritical about boundaries - INFJs think it's okay when they place boundaries on others, but not okay when others place boundaries on them. Quite hypocritical of us! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbsp...

Not interested in details - INFJs are big-picture thinkers. They are interested in thinking about ethereal, big concepts, not about mundane administrative details. Details bore us to death. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.l...

How to deepen friendships, especially as an introvert, who doesn't know how to be social - this is a question a viewer asked recently. Great question, I thought. I hope I can do justice to it. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bi...

Find people who complement you, so that you can balance out your weaknesses and focus on your strengths, INFJs. You don't need to be good at everything, just surround yourself with people who are. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https:...

Playing an unconscious role - a lot of INFJs (and people) play these roles in their families, in order to alleviate the mood and help out their depressed family members. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbs...

When your anxiety won't let you relax - when it is always thinking about something going wrong, even when everything in your life has been taken care of, and is going well. Stop doing this to yourself! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  h...

Staring deeply into your soul - I think this is why INFJs stare into your eyes so intensely. We are trying to peer into your soul to figure you out, on a deeper level. We don't want to do superficial relationships anymore. Let's go deep, as much as we can. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and...

Imagining fake scenarios all day long - that's what INFJs do to torture themselves. Most of those scenarios never come true in the way that we imagine them - essentially wasting our time and energy in the process. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it ou...

Who told you you are broken INFJs? Whoever did tell you that, it's completely untrue, because you are perfect and you are here for a special reason. As soon as you start believing in your worthiness and beauty, your life will start blooming and blossoming in a miraculous way. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my...

Don't power through your anxiety, INFJs. We don't need to power through it, but to understand why it's coming up and to use it as a guidepost towards better understanding ourselves. Take care of yourself. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbsp...

Protect your digital space from negative messages, negative people, and toxicity. It's highly important for us as empaths, and HSPs, INFJs. Otherwise, you will be roaming around with low energy and a low mood, confused and tired. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly pr...

Do opposites really attract in relationships?? Being an introverted morning person, I always end up with extroverted night owls. It's not like I am even trying to search for someone like this, but inadvertently, I end up dating my opposite in every which way. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, a...

I don't know how to be social anymore - introverts everywhere think after Pandemic 2020. Social anxiety is something that probably affects a lot of us, but never more so than when we are out of practice at socializing. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check...

Introverts need lots of time and space in the morning - for me, I need at least 3-4 hours of alone time in the morning to be able to function normally with people during the day. What about you? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://...

Maintaining the peace and harmony in a relationship is more important to an INFJ sometimes, more than their own mental health. This is wrong and should be corrected at once, if possible. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/s...

INFJs fix relationships by ruining them - for some odd reason, INFJs don't really get why people hang with us, and we always think that we are being a burden to others. Thus, we ruin the relationship in order to fix that person's burden. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mo...

The little things are more important than the big ones, or at least that's what INFJs think. We assume someone who doesn't care about the little things, won't care about the big things either, and then what's the point of knowing such a person? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a...

There are so many different kinds of people and INFJs out there, that there is really no point judging one for being more of an INFJ and another for being less. There is no such thing as a true INFJ. Period. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&n...