Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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About This INFJ - Where I Live, What I Do For Fun And Work? 03.01.2019 11:34

So many of you ask me questions about my life, what I do, where I live, and so on. So here it is. :) Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Buy...

To An INFJ, A Doorslammed Person Is Essentially Dead 03.01.2019 10:03

I have done videos on door slamming, and how we do it, and why we do it. But I haven't done a video on what do we do after we door slam?? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with m...

INFJs Are Terrible At Receiving Criticism Gracefully 03.01.2019 9:40

INFJs get upset when someone criticizes them or we feel threatened or defensive. I want to show you how I have learned to accept feedback gracefully and properly over the past few years. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/s...

INFJs Don't Like Making Their Good Deeds Visible 03.01.2019 9:41

INFJs don't enjoy making their good deeds visible. It makes them feel weird about it. They don't want to do good deeds because they want to get credit for it or karma points. They want to do it because it feels good to them. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price....

INFJs Have No Middle Ground - Either Obsessed Or Indifferent 03.01.2019 9:58

INFJs really don't have any middle ground in life. We are all in or we don't give a care. That's all. Either extreme. Nothing in the middle. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect wit...

INFJs Deal With Insomnia Often With Minds That Don't Shut Off 03.01.2019 10:38

INFJs have a mind that is forever moving and moving and moving. It never stops. Not even at night. So we spend a lot of time lying in bed, counting sheep, wanting to sleep, but unable to sleep. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://b...

INFJs Hide In The Kitchen At Family Gatherings 03.01.2019 8:41

INFJs are not good with crowds. We just aren't. But what we do at family gatherings, where emotions are really charged, is something different. We hide in the kitchen. Are you serious, you might ask? Yes, absolutely. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it...

INFJs Love Abstract Conversations And Concepts 02.01.2019 13:25

INFJs have a weird way of looking at the world. We look at, think about, and speak about everything, in abstract terms. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below...

INFJs - Try To Spend A Few Hours A Week Being Truly You 02.01.2019 12:21

INFJs spend a lot of time being chameleons. It's what we do. That's why I take a few hours off every day now (used to be every week), being truly myself. Don't know what your true self looks like? Start there. Start figuring that out. It's important. I think. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, a...

INFJs Have This Deep Bond With Their Siblings 02.01.2019 7:50

INFJs are extremely loyal and kind to their siblings. In fact, they are usually super blind to their siblings' faults. They love them and no one can say two bits about them. Otherwise, it's war. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://...

INFJs - Our Opinion On God, And Religion 02.01.2019 12:10

What do INFJs think about organized religion, and how do they see God? This is what I have gathered from conversations with my viewers.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect wi...

INFJs Despise Being The Centre Of Attention 02.01.2019 11:01

INFJs don't enjoy being the center of attention. We want the spotlight far away from us. Far, far, far away. That's an INFJ thing. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me furth...

INFJs Can Always Sense Other People's Personality Types 02.01.2019 12:39

No matter how long I have known someone, from the point I meet them, I know things about them they haven't actually told me. It's an INFJ thing. We are so intuitive, it's scary. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitami...

How To Tell If An INFJ Likes Someone For Their Brain Or Body? 02.01.2019 11:27

A non-INFJ viewer asked me this question. How do I tell if an INFJ is interested in me, fully, or is just interested in my body and is lusting after me? And this is the episode I created as a reply. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  http...

INFJs Need Constant Feedback From Everyone Around Them 02.01.2019 11:31

INFJs need feedback, positive or negative, it doesn't matter. But we want to know we are getting better. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:...

INFJs Get Attached To Inanimate Objects (More Than People) 02.01.2019 9:49

INFJs get really attached to inanimate objects. It's a little odd, how that works out. I don't get it, myself. I am strange when I do that. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with...

INFJs Listen A 100 Times More Than They Speak 02.01.2019 12:16

INFJs spend 100 times more time listening and observing, rather than speaking. We are quiet for a reason. We don't speak unless absolutely necessary. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to co...

INFJs Have A Hard Time Showing Weakness 02.01.2019 13:16

INFJs have a hard time showing our soft side, our underbelly, our vulnerabilities. We want to be strong all the time. But we are not. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me fu...

INFJs Have A Non-Existent Mind Body Connection 02.01.2019 9:01

INFJs have a hard time realizing that they are not only mind but also body. That's why we have a hard time with physical experiences. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me fu...

Do INFJs Even Feel Emotions?? Or Are We Robots? 02.01.2019 11:19

Sometimes I wonder about myself. Do I have feelings? Do I even care? Or am I a robot? I don't know. It's a complete mystery to me. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me furth...

INFJs And Our Dark Side - What Is It All About? 02.01.2019 13:21

A viewer asked me to expound on our dark side, and so I am. I hope this makes sense to all of your outstanding viewers. It is definitely a difficult topic to chat about. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbs...

INFJs Do Not Want To Inconvenience Others 02.01.2019 10:19

INFJs do not want to inconvenience others. They don't want to cause a ruckus. They want to ensure everything runs as smoothly as possible. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with...

INFJs Run Away When The Chameleon Effect Takes Place 02.01.2019 8:05

INFJs have a tendency to run away and hide whenever they realize they have been playing the role of the chameleon, rather than being their own person. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to c...

INFJs Would Do Great On A Deserted Island (Or Would They?) 02.01.2019 9:22

A viewer said INFJs would do great on a deserted island, and I wondered to myself if that is actually true. What do you think? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further -...

INFJs Deal With Intense Emotional Bursts This Way 02.01.2019 9:06

INFJs are very intense human beings, and they feel deeply. But how do they deal with such intense emotions? What can they do to quell the tide of these feelings?? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If y...