Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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INFJs Start Off Thinking People Are Not To Be Trusted 04.01.2019 8:23

I want you guys to believe that people are inherently good. Even though that might not be the case every time, let's start off believing that as INFJs. We should and must have hope. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

INFJs Cry At All The Small Things, But Not The Big Ones 04.01.2019 11:27

It's weird being an INFJ sometimes. We are forever explaining to others, why certain things bother us so much, and other things that should technically bother us, don't. Ugh. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2...

INFJs Hate People Having A False Image Of Them 04.01.2019 8:04

INFJs hate it when people have a weird false image of them. It feels like they are lying to them somehow, and they want to correct any untruths right away. It's imperative. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &...

Why I Think INFJs Have A Hard Time With Traditional Justice 04.01.2019 11:15

People have been asking me if they think INFJs would be skilled lawyers or judges. And what we think about justice. I wanted to do this episode to explain my viewpoints on it. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins...

INFJs Love, Love, Love Directness And Honesty 04.01.2019 8:42

INFJs love it when people around them are really honest. And direct about their feelings and emotions. It is so important to them. Words can't describe it. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want...

INFJs Have Hundreds Of Layers That Are Revealed Over Time 04.01.2019 10:09

Everyone has many layers to them, but I feel like INFJs have more layers than anyone I really know. So many freaking layers that it's a little crazy. Listen and learn. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

Why Do INFJs Have Trust Issues?? 04.01.2019 10:52

INFJs have trust issues. Period. That's the gist of us, and of our relationship problems. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Buy my course o...

INFJs Think Being Helpless Or Hopeless Is The Worst Thing Ever 04.01.2019 9:17

INFJs think being helpless is the worst thing on the planet. They would rather die than rely on someone else. It's not a wonderful quality of ours. It makes us strong, but it also makes us alone. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https:/...

INFJs Work Well In Non-Traditional Relationships (I Think) 04.01.2019 9:32

This was a really hard video for me to create, so be easy on me. It's an important topic to talk about, but definitely triggering. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me furth...

INFJs Crave Order In Trivial Ways To Feel Sane Again 04.01.2019 10:04

INFJs like routines and they don't like those to be disturbed. But sometimes it's hard to have those big routines, so we can bring sanity into our lives in small, trivial ways. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamin...

If You Want To Be With An INFJ, Take It Real Slow 04.01.2019 8:57

INFJs are fast in most ways, but in relationships, we are slow as hell. We like to take our time with it, so be patient with us, please. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with...

INFJs And Their Ideal Jobs - Some Of My Thoughts 03.01.2019 13:13

INFJs have a hard time working in traditional jobs. It is an unfortunate thing, but it's the truth. We hate open-concept offices, and we despise noisy environments. Here's what I think would be nice for us to work in. Just my opinion. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low month...

INFJs Are Good Social Chameleons 03.01.2019 8:17

INFJs can be chameleons in any setting, but specifically so, in a social setting. We change and mold ourselves to the people around us, especially at a social event. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   I...

Do INFJs Become INFJs Over Several Lifetimes? 03.01.2019 7:05

Do INFJs become INFJs over several lifetimes? Or are we born this way? I answer this question with my belief system. Take a listen and let me know what you think. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If y...

If An INFJ Is Weird Around You, They Are Comfortable 03.01.2019 7:57

INFJs have a hard time being themselves because they have been told so often to be normal. They hide their true selves, normally. But if they are abnormal around you, that means they trust and like you. They are comfortable with you. And that's a big deal. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and...

The Myth Of The Good Little INFJ Busted! 03.01.2019 9:00

INFJs are not good little people. They are not always nice. In fact, they can be downright mean and touchy. Get used to it. Don't make us apologize for that. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wa...

INFJs Have A Lot Of Emotional Bursts (And How To Deal) 03.01.2019 7:33

INFJs feel a lot - they are feelers all the time. Feeling sometimes too much and wanting it all to stop. How to make it stop? How to deal with it properly? Let's chat. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

INFJs Are Usually A Jack Of All Trades (A Generalist) 03.01.2019 9:55

Should INFJs stick to being a jack of all trades, or should they specialize? What works better in this world? What do you think? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further...

INFJs Hate Having Their Routines Disturbed (It Irks Them) 03.01.2019 10:50

INFJs always have strict routines with their days, and they hate, absolutely hate having it disturbed or disrupted by anything. Really, just don't. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to conn...

Two INFJs Dating Each Other - Would It Work Or Not? 03.01.2019 8:42

INFJs can date each other, can't they? I mean, they would understand each other, right? That could work. Here's what I think about that. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me...

INFJs Have Background Music Running Constantly In Their Heads 03.01.2019 7:00

INFJs have told me this more than once - they have this background music or hum running in their heads or minds constantly, all the time, without fail, without stop. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   I...

INFJs Spend 75% Of Their Time Alone (And They Love It) 03.01.2019 10:26

INFJs love spending time on their own, and it isn't because they don't like people. We love people, but we love being on our own so we can ask ourselves the important questions about life - why are we here, what's our life purpose, and more. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a lo...

INFJs Get Overstimulated Very Quickly (And Then We Run) 03.01.2019 11:28

INFJs don't like to go to hair salons, malls, or social events. Because we get overstimulated so quickly, and then we want to run and hide. Eek! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect...

Why Are INFJs So Freaking Secretive? Why? 03.01.2019 7:51

We will share random details about our life without blinking an eye, but INFJs have this weird thing about secretive about certain details. Why?? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connec...

INFJs Are Not Happy If Their Partners Are Not Happy 03.01.2019 8:07

INFJs find it impossible to be happy if their partners are not happy. It's just not possible. Just not. Don't even ask why. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - be...