The INFJ Whisperer

INFJs have a very unique way of processing and dealing with information. The older I get, the more conscious I become of this process and it just astounds and awes me. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

INFJs are overthinkers and overplanners. Sometimes it can be a positive trait, but other times, it can turn into a curse. Use the technique I speak about in this episode to stop your overthinking in its tracks. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out a...

INFJs have a powerful intuition and that makes us believe that we know best about everyone. And maybe we do. But others really don't care about that, so stop being condescending to your friends and loved ones. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at...

It takes INFJs so much time to decide to do a doorslam, that they will rarely, if ever, reverse it. The person must truly show a lot of remorse for it to happen, but that usually doesn't happen. So doorslams, in my opinion, are usually irreversible. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos...

INFJs sabotage their efforts by doing this silly thing. It's a defense mechanism to protect ourselves from failure because we are perfectionists. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connec...

INFJs spend too much thinking, analyzing, and ruminating, and not enough time doing. If we changed this way of doing things, we would accomplish great things in this world, which is our birthright as unique souls. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it ou...

INFJs have this unique character trait where we bounce back from good, bad, and all other experiences quite fast. It might even seem like those events never happened to us. We appear to be cold automatons without feelings or emotions, which is not true. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and vid...

You might be surprised to see an INFJ silent as a mouse and boring as anything when they are around people who they don't trust yet. It might seem like we are two-faced because of this, but as time passes by and we get more comfortable, things will change rapidly. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, boo...

If you are interested in an INFJ, then you will want to ask them the right questions to get them to open up. Otherwise, it will be as quiet as the Sahara on your dates or meetups. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvita...

INFJs are afraid of confrontation and of asking for what they need. That's why setting boundaries can be such an ordeal for them. Have you gotten over this fear of ours yet? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2...

INFJs are quirky, weird, odd, strange, and many more such descriptions apply to us. That's why we usually end up feeling out of place and disconnected from our families and loved ones. That is, until we find our tribe and our place in this world, which, unfortunately (or fortunately) takes a long while. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins whe...

If you were wondering why you have a hard time being in a relationship as an INFJ, don't wonder anymore. It's a common tendency among all of us and it's the reason why we are single more often than not. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at ...

Authenticity is a primary value for all INFJs, and this tends to rub some people the wrong way and other people the right way. Some people tend to hate us from the get-go and others tend to love us forever and more. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it...

No one ever believes I am a feeler, because I come across as so stoic and cold, but also because I never say 'I'm feeling this way or that.' It's so weird! I'm a feeler, I swear, but it only shows up on the inside. Never on the outside. Well, only with practice, I guess. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my cours...

In this podcast episode, I chat with a psychologist who chats about how narcissists think of people and why they are so attracted to INFJs in particular. If you are surrounded by narcissists, then you will want to listen to this episode. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mo...

I used to always wonder why I ended up with so many ENFP friends, and Maryia was able to explain that to me, using depth typology. It's so fascinating! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to...

My INFJ friend, Elle, and I share 5 lessons each that we have learned in our journey on this beautiful blue planet. I hope you can gain something from this. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wan...

In this podcast episode, I speak to an INFJ male, who laments about how INFJ males have only two modes of operation - either they are too nice or they become aloof, cold, and bitter. Do you relate to this? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbs...

INFJs assume that people need help if they are complaining about something and we will do anything to help them. But sometimes (most times) people are complaining just for the sake of complaining. You are wasting your energy by giving advice and help when it's not asked for. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my c...

INFJs should always carry earplugs around with them and headphones to listen to music. This way they can always be protected from any noise around them and protect any drains on their limited stores of energy. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at...

INFJs tend to go for relationships with people who take advantage of us and treat us badly, over ones who treat us right and love us right. This way when the relationship fails, because it inevitably will, we can conclude yet again that we are unworthy of love. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books,...

INFJs hold themselves to high standards, of course. But we also hold others to a high standard and we get irritated or disappointed when people fall below those standards, particularly when people display signs of laziness, both mental and physical. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos...

INFJs have a hard time asking for help, which means that we don't build a very good foundation for many relationships. But you can stop doing that now, and start asking for help, no matter how uncomfortable it makes you, especially on the big stuff! Remember, practice makes perfect. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all...

I wasted so much of my youth avoiding important details of my life because I was too afraid or felt too inept. But they were still there waiting for me when I returned back to Earth and stopped avoiding them. And I was worse off because I had to deal with the repercussions of procrastinating on them. Don't let this happen to you as well. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online...

I made lots of mistakes in my university life because I was a clueless INFJ. But I don't want you to make those same mistakes. Listen up for some good advice from an older (been there done that) INFJ. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  ht...