The INFJ Whisperer

Other people believe we love being an INFJ or being special, or rare. But that's really not the case. We hate it; we want to be normal, and accepted, first. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wan...

INFJs have this weird thing where even when we are being asexual, and trying to stay away from sex, people still interpret everything we do and say as sexual. Why, God, why???? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamin...

INFJs never really take sides until they have all the information. And we don't really have all the information ever, because there's always more information coming in all the time. So, we really hate taking sides. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it o...

We live in a world right now that is full of sheeple. Or flock mentality. Everyone has to agree with everyone else, or they are labeled an outsider and ostracized. INFJs hate that. We really do. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://...

INFJs would rather look foolish themselves than make other people feel foolish or put other people down. That's one of our things. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me furth...

INFJs are terrible liars, and we have horrible poker faces. So we don't lie. We hate it. We hate getting caught up in it. It's so embarrassing. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect...

INFJs are perfectionists, and we have this insane fear of criticism. We are afraid of criticism because we think it says that we are bad human beings somehow. In this video, I chat about how I have gotten better at receiving criticism. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mont...

INFJs are major empaths, so they need to take time out when certain things irk them or give them warning signs. How do we know when to take a time out? What are some physical signs? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

INFJs have this weird thing about food. We love to eat, because we are sensual, and it's delicious. But, we also get distracted and forget to eat food.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wa...

A viewer, Atum, asked for this video, and so here it is. Are INFJs decisive or indecisive? It's another one of those paradoxes of our nature. That contradiction that we always are.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/s...

INFJs have this weird seesaw they go on every time they think of the world that they live in. They gain some hope for the world and want to believe in the future, and then they lose hope because they see some foolishness, and then they go back up again. It's a wild ride. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my cours...

INFJs have this weird thing about humor. Not only do we have a weird sense of humor, but we don't get other people's jokes. So when people are waiting for us to laugh at them, we get really irritated. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  ht...

Most people think INFJs are being serious when they are joking or being stupid. They don't get our jokes. They don't get our sense of humor. It's really sad cos we think we are the funniest people alive. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at ...

So many INFJs ask me how I have gotten so good at communicating my thoughts to the world. I tell them the same thing repeatedly - I was a terrible communicator before. Absolutely horrible. It's a practice that made me better. The same applies to you. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos...

One of the most common questions I get asked on email or Facebook is if someone is truly an INFJ. It's such a dilemma for so many people. And I wanted to do this episode to answer that dilemma. Hope it helps. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&...

INFJs seem like they are Autistic or have Asperger's sometimes. A viewer asked me if all INFJs are actually autistic, or is that just a misdiagnosis? I am not a doctor or an expert. But I share some of my opinions. Just my opinions on the matter. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for...

INFJs aren't interested in 99% of people. Everyone else is like a brother or sister to them. They want to be platonic with everyone. Only occasionally, their interest gets piqued. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvita...

INFJs have certain typical speech patterns - one of them is asking if the person they are chatting with is still with them. We lose so many people on the way to getting somewhere with our conversations that we are always wary. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price...

INFJs are mission-oriented, which means we won't do anything we don't truly believe in. We have to believe in something to complete it. That's why we procrastinate so much because we don't believe in what we are doing. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check...

INFJs are terrible, absolutely terrible at accepting praise. They just have way too high standards for themselves. And that's why we are always striving and working so hard. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2...

"Am I insane? Not yet?" INFJs check up on their insanity level several times a day. To make sure they are normal or at least they can pretend to be normal. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want...

INFJs feel extreme sadness, even grief when they meet people who have no layers to them. It is such a terrifying and depressing thing. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me f...

INFJs don't get into relationships without a lot of forethought. They need to know, absolutely, that they can trust this person they are going to date. That takes a lot of time and effort. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly...

It's very rare that INFJs outright dislike people. Most people we are indifferent to. But sometimes we dislike someone, and we will go to extreme lengths to avoid them. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbsp...

INFJs are really intense and passionate but we are told repeatedly, not to be. Don't listen to them and don't worry about being yourself. Just be intense. That's our power. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &...