Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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INFJs - Remember Everything You Do Matters, Everything! 14.01.2019 12:22

INFJs have this need to change the world, but we aren't happy just changing one or two things. We want to help billions of people, we want to eliminate world hunger, and we want to do it all in a day. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  ht...

INFJs Are Told Over And Over Again That They Have ADD 14.01.2019 17:28

INFJs have a tendency to be interested in many things and to jump from topic to topic or interest to interest because the world holds so many treasures for us to explore. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

INFJs Suppress Their True Selves To Fit In With The World 14.01.2019 18:06

INFJs know they are weird, and they know people freak out when we behave like ourselves. So we spend a lot of our time suppressing our true selves as we walk through the world. It's alright to do that for a bit. Only for a bit. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly pric...

INFJs Want To Walk The Walk, Not Just Talk The Talk 14.01.2019 10:21

There are way too many people on this planet who just talk about what they want to do, but never actually take any action towards it. We hate that as INFJs. We want to be doers and we want to have doers around us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it ou...

INFJs Stock Up On Our Fav Items, So We Never Ever Run Out 14.01.2019 8:59

INFJs have special relationships with their favorite items. We love them to death, so we are extremely careful, especially when we are dealing with the wear and tear of our special items. We stock up, and we make sure we never run out of our favorite items. Ever. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, book...

INFJs Have To Protect Their Heart Fields And Energies 14.01.2019 13:28

INFJs are extra sensitive to other people's energies. We see and feel more than we sometimes realize. That's why we have to be ruthless about protecting our heart field. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbs...

INFJs Are Very Careful Who They Are Physically Intimate With 14.01.2019 13:07

INFJs have this weird thing with physical intimacy. We don't treat it as casually as everyone else on this planet does. It is sacred to us somehow, and it's all to do with energies. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

INFJs Need To Build Better Boundaries With People 14.01.2019 13:50

Boundaries are the hardest thing for an INFJ to build. We can do everything else reasonably well, but with boundaries, we are terrible at it. Absolutely so. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wan...

INFJs Hate Being Micromanaged - It Irritates Us A Lot 14.01.2019 6:27

INFJs don't enjoy being picked at and micromanaging is the worst of it. Why don't people trust us? Why can't people just let us be? Don't micromanage us. Just leave us be.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitami...

INFJs Feel Guilty About Injustices And Want To Bring Balance 14.01.2019 14:13

INFJs feel shame a lot, but also guilt. Guilt pervades our soul because we are luckier than others because we have more than others and other reasons. We are always trying to balance things out. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://...

INFJs Want To Leave The World A Better Place Always 14.01.2019 13:27

INFJs have this thing about leaving their world a better place than when they came into it. It's a thing. We try very hard to fulfill this random thing of ours. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you...

INFJs, Like Elephants, Remember Everything Forever 14.01.2019 13:01

INFJs remember everything. We have excellent memories. Why? And how? I explain more in this episode. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Buy...

INFJs Can Soothe Themselves By Sitting In Quiet Darkness 14.01.2019 9:59

So many INFJs tell me they feel tired being around people all the time, but they don't know how to rejuvenate themselves quickly. This method of sitting in a quiet and dark space has worked really well for me.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it...

INFJs Need To Train Others To Understand Their Weird Quirks 14.01.2019 12:47

INFJs always complain that people don't understand them. We barely understand ourselves, so how can we expect others to understand us? It makes little sense. So train them, teach them about yourself and your quirks.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Che...

INFJs Can Use Lists And Notes To Sleep Better And Longer 14.01.2019 8:42

INFJs always have issues with sleep and insomnia. It's just one of those things. We have a hard time switching off our brain, and just going off into oblivion.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   I...

INFJs - Remember Your Past Doesn't Dictate Your Present 14.01.2019 15:20

INFJs always focus on their past and let it dictate their present. They believe that just because they did something wrong in their past, that they are a bad person forever, and ever. That's absolutely not true. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out...

I Want All INFJs To Have That Aha Moment Of Self-Discovery 11.01.2019 12:09

I remember when I first realized that I was an INFJ, and I am not crazy. That lightbulb moment really changed my life completely. I want that moment for every INFJ out there. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2...

INFJs Are Annoyed When Others Don't See Someone's True Colours 11.01.2019 13:16

INFJs see someone as they are almost instantaneously. And we get really annoyed when we see someone's true colors, and no one else sees them like that. It makes us feel like we are crazy, and it makes us doubt ourselves. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Chec...

INFJs Don't Miss People - So Don't Wait For It To Happen 11.01.2019 14:08

INFJs don't miss people. We know people come in and out of our life, just like stuff does, just like animals do, just like everything else. There is a season for a friendship and then it goes away. Why would we miss people then? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly pri...

INFJs - Here's How To Get Over Being Doorslammed 11.01.2019 8:02

This viewer messaged me to ask how her husband who is an INFJ could get over being door slammed by his INFJ brother. Such an interesting question that I answered in this format. Check it! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/...

INFJs Don't Like Being Part Of An Audience - Don't Force Us 11.01.2019 10:22

INFJs have this weird thing about not being in the spotlight, but also not giving the spotlight. We don't want to have an audience, and we don't want to be in an audience.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitami...

INFJs Care About People And Stuff With A Cause Behind 11.01.2019 12:50

INFJs usually hate most superficial people, causes, or organizations. They just don't interest us. But if there is someone or something that has a cause that matters, suddenly our interest level goes up exponentially. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check i...

INFJs Believe Empty Vessels Make The Most Noise 11.01.2019 11:08

INFJs hate people who talk too much, who make noise just for the sake of making noise. I believe the Zen saying, "Empty vessels make the most noise." The wiser you are, the less you speak or need to speak. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbs...

INFJs Use Different Techniques To Balance Themselves Out 11.01.2019 11:44

Sarah Fountain, a long-time supporter of my channel, said something using the shower to come back to some sort of balance, and I told her how I use staring off into space for the same thing. This video is about balance, and how INFJs can achieve it. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos...

INFJs Need To Own Their Intensity And Passion Authentically 11.01.2019 10:30

Everyone treats INFJs like outsiders for being so intense and passionate. Because of that, we change ourselves and become less intense. I hate when we do that. Don't do that anymore, my fellow INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  htt...