Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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How To Permanently Stop Self Sabotage, INFJs? Reduce Perfectionism. 06.12.2019 10:57

How to permanently stop self-sabotage - INFJs need to stop focusing so much on perfectionism and start focusing on getting stuff done, imperfectly. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to conn...

I Am Not Going To Do Something, Unless I Know It Works, All INFJs Say 04.12.2019 10:56

I am not going to do something unless I absolutely and utterly know that it is going to work. INFJs need evidence before they start believing and working on something. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

Mean To The People I Like, Nice To Those I Don't Care About = INFJs 02.12.2019 11:00

Mean to the people I like, and then nice to the ones I don't really care about - this is confusing to everyone, especially INFJs themselves. Why do INFJs do this?? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If...

The Older I Get The Less I Care, The Less Social Anxiety I Have, INFJs 29.11.2019 11:03

The older I get the less I care - I used to have terrible social anxiety when I was younger, but as I get older, it is getting better and better. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connec...

Losing My Identity Wondering Have I Gone Insane - INFJs Around People 27.11.2019 12:53

Losing my identity wondering have I gone insane - this is what every INFJ goes through when they are surrounded by people all day, for too long. We start losing ourselves around people. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/so...

Socially Awkward And Introverted, INFJs Are Always Trying To Hack Cool 25.11.2019 11:41

Socially awkward and introverted - that's an INFJ's fate, but it doesn't need to be. We are always trying to figure out what cool means, and we hack it and copy it, so we can fit into the groups around us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbs...

Serious And Rigid We Are Not, But INFJs Come Across As Such To Others 23.11.2019 11:22

Serious and rigid is what INFJs come across as, but we aren't as serious or rigid as you think we are. Yes, we have certain rules and schedules that we abide by, but we can be spontaneous and impulsive as well if the time allows for it. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mon...

Small Talk Is Like Poison To An INFJ - So Go Deeper My Friends 21.11.2019 13:14

Small talk is like poison to all INFJs - we don't know exactly why we hate it so much, we have some reasons why we hate it, but we just don't want to dwell on it too much. Just avoid small talk with us, and we will be good. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. C...

Don't Stay At Home All The Time, Introverts - Let Extroverts Help You 19.11.2019 11:25

Don't stay at home all the time, INFJs, and introverts of all kinds. It's easy for us to do so, but I think we should allow our extroverted friends to pull us out of our caves more often. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/...

So Many People Feel Lost And Confused About Life | INFJs Esp Feel This 17.11.2019 12:19

So many people feel lost and alone and confused about the direction their life should be taking, and none more so than INFJs. In fact, this is one of the most common messages/emails I get from INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  htt...

How To Deal With Unsolicited Advice - An Important One For ALL INFJs 15.11.2019 11:40

How to deal with unsolicited advice - INFJs have this tendency to listen to advice that comes from all different avenues, because we judge others' opinions are stronger or better than ours, especially if we haven't learned to trust ourselves completely yet. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and...

Our Own Best Friend And Worst Enemy - INFJs Are Both For Themselves 13.11.2019 11:46

Our own best friend and worst enemy - INFJs tend to self-sabotage themselves, but also love themselves in equal measure. It's another one of those contradictions about ourselves that is so INFJ-like. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  htt...

Time Is A Currency More Precious Than Money, Especially For INFJs 06.11.2019 11:14

Time is a currency and INFJs treat it as such. If we are spending our precious time on you, you better realize that we really care about you, and we are doing it as a major favor to you. We would rather be spending this precious currency on our obsessions or on being on our own. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of...

Learn To Trust Yourself More And Stop Second Guessing Yourself, INFJs 04.11.2019 11:18

Learn to trust yourself more, INFJs. You know more than you realize, and you are right more often than not, so trust your intuition, and stop second-guessing yourself at every step. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

Accomplishments Need To Be Spoken About - INFJs Hate Bragging Though 02.11.2019 11:41

Accomplishments need to be spoken about - but INFJs always think that talking about accomplishments seems like bragging to other people, so we stay quiet.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you...

Corporate Culture Can Be Toxic To Introverts | Extroversion Is Rewarded 30.10.2019 11:17

Corporate culture can be toxic to introverts in general because we are constantly berated for being introverts in a culture that's filled with and rewards extroversion. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbsp...

Child Separation Anxiety - INFJ Children Experience This Intensely 28.10.2019 11:08

Child separation anxiety - this is a pretty common ailment among INFJs, as we are unsure about the world we live in, and the only thing that we have that is certain is that our parents are there to take care of us in their own way.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mo...

You Have To Play Along With Society To Be Accepted - INFJs Realize 26.10.2019 11:22

You have to play along with society to be accepted - this is a vital truth that INFJs realize very early on in their lives. Even though we don't believe in most tenets that hold a society together, we still play along with the rules, because we know that's how the world works. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my...

How To Be Creative Using Your Intuition - INFJs Create Better This Way 24.10.2019 11:02

How to be creative using your intuition - INFJs need to learn to use their powerful intuition and create from that divine source rather than use their heads. Our intuition is our superpower, so we need to learn to use it well. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price...

4 Powerful Ways To Build Your Intuition - Use Your Superpower, INFJs 22.10.2019 11:51

4 powerful ways to build your intuition, as described by an INFJ who is obsessed with building her introverted intuition as rapidly and as much as possible. Intuition is our superpower, INFJs, build it up, trust it, and use it well. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly...

I Would Rather Spend My Time Doing Anything Else Than Clean, INFJs Say 20.10.2019 12:01

I would rather spend my time digging through conspiracy theories on the Internet or focused on my various random obsessions, than clean my house. Even though INFJs hate messy places, they really absolutely hate to clean. What a conundrum. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low m...

Cynical And Happiness - INFJs Need Their Cynicism To Live Fully. 18.10.2019 11:21

Cynical and happiness - is it possible for them to go together? INFJs need not close off their cynical side in order to live in the world. It's okay. Let your cynicism come through. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

Do You Get Startled Easily, INFJs?? We Spend Way Too Much In Our Heads. 16.10.2019 11:57

Do you get startled easily? INFJs have a tendency to spend time in their imaginary worlds in their head and forget that the physical world exists. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to conne...

Did You Miss Your Childhood? INFJs Usually Grow Up Too Fast. 14.10.2019 12:26

Did you miss your childhood, INFJs? Most of us have because we were asked to skip our childhood and become adults to help out our families. It's a trauma that we need to deal with asap. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/so...

Feeling Anxious For The Holidays Already? An INFJ Asks How To Deal. 12.10.2019 11:54

Feeling anxious for the holidays already? An INFJ messages me with the concern about the upcoming Christmas holidays, four months away, but already causing immense anxiety. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &...