The INFJ Whisperer

We tend to lose ourselves in relationships - INFJs always complain about this particular situation. That's why INFJs usually end up being single. I wanted to talk a bit about how to avoid that. Is it even possible for us to avoid that? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mont...

Difference between intuition and fear - INFJs always ask me this question. How are they supposed to tell the difference between messages coming from their gut rather than their fear-based reactions or paranoia based on life experiences? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mon...

We balance our environment out - If our environment is calm, INFJs are nervous, and if our environment is panicky, then we calm down. We like to balance things out as much as possible. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/sou...

Introverts get stressed easily - when we get overstimulated, we cut and run, because overstimulation from our environment, job, or relationship gets us into burnout mode very easily. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulv...

Calling people out on their stuff - a viewer asked me if INFJs should do this or not? We see people in their essence, and therefore, we wonder if should call people out on their fake-ness or manipulative nonsense or other s*it.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthl...

Putting on masks to hide - A viewer asked me when and how INFJs put on masks to hide. Why do we do this? And how do we this? Great questions. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect wi...

Emotional stress release technique - INFJs obviously get stressed when they are overstimulated. But emotional stress hits us when we experience disharmony in our relationships. How do we alleviate this emotional stress quickly and efficiently? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a...

Being truly authentic is difficult - and I find younger INFJs are usually quite confused about who their real self is. That's common among us, and not a source for consternation at all, INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bi...

Have a system to reward yourself, INFJs. It's so important for our extremely critical nature to be diluted a bit, with reward systems. We are always so harsh on ourselves, we need to temper that with rewards, and nice treats occasionally. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low m...

Don't worry about being authentic, INFJs. As INFJs, we are always playing different roles - if there's an introvert around us, we change to accommodate them, and if there's an extrovert, again we do the same. And that's quite alright.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low...

Use systems to save time - INFJs being obsessed with time, and the transient nature of it, like systems. We like to build systems into our days and lives, so we can save and conserve time, as much as possible. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at...

There's no win or lose in life - if you are an INFJ like me, you are probably surprised by all of the competition on the planet right now - why are people fighting each other? Why can't people just realize that the only person you are competing with, is yourself? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, book...

Are you cold-hearted, INFJs? Something I have asked myself many times and has been asked many times. Nah, bro, we are just good at compartmentalizing life, our emotions, feelings, and stuff, so we can deal with it properly in our own time. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low...

Where does justice fit, into this world? Why are things so unfair? Why do I get so much, and others not so much? INFJ children are concerned with fairness and justice from a young age. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/sou...

I am popular, but I like to spend all of my time by myself - INFJs are popular loners, a term that is becoming more common nowadays. We like people, people like us, but we spend all of our time by ourselves. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&n...

I suck at keeping in touch, but I promise I do really like you - INFJs begging their friends and family to understand this fact, every single day of their life.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

How to silence your inner voice - this is a guide for INFJs, who are extremely skeptical about everything but also want to live in this world in a normal, human-like fashion. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2...

Stop being so flaky - INFJs absolutely hate it when people waste their precious time on this planet by being flaky or unreliable. Stop doing that to us, please! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you...

When it comes down to laws, INFJs have this weird tendency to play by the book. We don't want to waste any time with the law, so we play by the rules and don't bring attention to ourselves. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.l...

When their social battery dies - is also synonymous with hitting an introvert wall. Whenever that happens, an introvert will run in the opposite direction. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want...

I notice everything, especially the issues that everyone doesn't notice, and doesn't see - and that's what makes INFJs oh-so-special. And also, it annoys them, as well. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbsp...

Making quick decisions is easy, especially decisions that are good for you when INFJs are able to really truly know who they are, and what they are all about. Figure out what makes you tick, INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https...

Communicating through spoken words - INFJs are always lamenting to themselves that they are crappy at spoken communication. We can write up a storm, but when it comes to speaking, INFJs aren't so hot. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  ht...

Thinking and feeling together with all jumbled up - INFJs are logical feelers, we are adept at both thinking and feeling, therefore, we fit into neither group perfectly. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbs...

Stop giving your advice and especially your precious energy and time, to people who will never ever use your advice and will keep on doing the same thing for the rest of their lives, INFJs. I beg you. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  ht...