The Hook Up

Did you learn anything weird in sex ed at school that didn’t really help you out? On the podcast we’re talking about sex ed in schools. What’s taught and what should be taught. Featuring comedian (and former high school teacher) Mark Butler, and Professor Christopher Fisher from the Australian Research Centre for Sexual Health and Society (ARCSHS). Hosted by James Findlay.

Despite sex work not being decriminalised in Australia and different laws allowing different things in different states, sex work still happens - and as you’ll hear, it’s not just people who can’t pick up who are seeing sex workers. We recently got an email from a listener who was shocked and concerned that her boyfriend had seen sex workers, and it got us thinking – how many people have this as o...

Talking about sex can be pretty hard at times, but can be made so much easier when you can have a bit of a laugh. On the podcast, we chat to the team from Glittery Clittery from Colin and Alia from #Pickup , who are all in Melbourne for the Melbourne International Comedy Festival .

Having kids might be a way off for you, but you may need to at least consider prepping your body for that now. On the podcast, we’re looking at fertility. You’ll hear from people in their 20s who are freezing their eggs or sperm, and we talk about options you have if you’ve got complications with the ability to have a kid. Joining us is Dr Manuela Toledo, IVF and fertility specialist at Melbourne...

Have you ever been kicked in the balls and liked it?

What’s the difference between bi and pan? We break down the labels.

How soon is too soon? What can go wrong? And can travel flings have legs?

Do you think personality tests or horoscopes could help you find a partner? Lately there’s been plenty of people putting lil letters pop up in dating profile bios like INFJ, ESTP, but what do they mean? On the podcast, we discuss the Myers Briggs test when dating plus why people rely on horoscopes to find the perfect partner. But is it all bullshit? Featuring: Relationship Coach Megan Luscombe Ast...

Do you like to play hard to get? Or does it drive you crazy? The chase is at the centre of dating culture but is it worth playing the game? You'll hear from relationships coach Megan Luscombe on why the chase is a thing, and the best way to get the most out of dating when there’s a chase involved.

Imagine you’ve had sexual tension build up with someone for a while, and you’re about to have sex with them for the first time… but then as you’re getting ready, your erection disappears. Many men experience performance anxiety, and when it happens, it can really affect your confidence in the bedroom. Here to help you out with it, is counsellor and sex therapist, Dr Christopher Fox.

Has body image or weight become an issue in your relationship? Research suggests it’s very common for people to put on a few “love kilos” when you’re in a relationship, and while that’s not necessarily a bad thing, it *can* put strain on your mental health and your relationship. On the podcast you’ll hear from people who have had their partners tell them to lose weight, someone who’s considering g...

Can you sync your period with others? Can you get pregnant during period sex? On the podcast we’re rolling out the red carpet and talking periods, menstruation, ya menzies. You’ll meet Dr Carnesky, who’s spilling all about the symbolic and cultural power of menstruation in her stage show, Dr Carnesky’s Incredible Bleeding Woman . Plus, a medical doctor, Dr Deborah Bateson from Family Planning NSW...

Are you lacking some tinder-game? Feel like you’ve got a pretty good profile, but it’s just not getting you the matches you want? We’re looking at how you can really pimp your profile. You’ll hear what you should put in your bio, whether you should say more or less, and what pics you should use. Featuring relationships expert and dating coach, Samantha Jayne .

Experiencing the gay and lesbian Mardi Gras in Sydney is really something else. So much glitter, so little clothing and SO much fun… but the Mardi Gras isn’t just a big party… On the podcast we’re looking at the history of Mardi Gras, as it celebrates its 40th anniversary, and ask young queer Australians where we go next. Featuring Matthew Wade, editor of Star Observer, and Ruby Susan, co-host of...

Pole dancing is becoming a really popular sport, but it can come with a lot of stigma attached to it. Emma Lee Corbett aka Suzie Q was a pole dancer and stripper. She stripped to pay her way through uni. She’s just released a book, The Stripper Next Door , and we wanted to find out what it’s like earning cash by taking your kit off and whether Emma has any advice for anyone wanting to take it up.

You may have passed the odd sex shop on the street from time to time, but have you ever gone into one? On the podcast we’re looking at how sex stores have changed, and why you might be more inclined to go into one these days… Featuring Associate Professor Lynn Comella and the owner of a feminist, women-friendly sex store.

Pets can be a super important part of our lives. Your cat, or dog, or axolotl, they can be like family. But what happens when they don’t fit in with our relationships? On the podcast you’ll hear from listeners who have had issues with their relationships because of pets. You’ll also hear from a animal behaviourist on why pets act in certain ways. Featuring psychotherapist Carol-Ann Allen and pet t...

Have you ever wanted to dress up and act like an animal? Well, there’s a kink for that. On this podcast we’re looking at the kink of pet play. You’ll meet a couple of kitten pet players, a handler and a pup pet player. Why do people do it? What’s involved? Has it got anything to do with real animals? All those questions will be answered!

Are you about to start uni? Well we’re putting the O in O Week. Starting uni is a totally new chapter of your life, and it opens you up to a lot of new relationships and experiences. If you’re going to uni for the first time and don’t know what to expect, then we’ve got you covered. On the podcast, you'll hear from Jimi Bursaw who's managed colleges, o-weeks and all kinds of uni activities to give...

It’s that time of the year again – Valentine's Day. Does the thought of it get your heart racing or does it inspire loud groans? Putting all that pressure to be romantic on one day can make us feel doomed to fail, but Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to suck. On the podcast you’ll hear from BJ , a kink expert and educator on how you could spice up your V-Day. Plus sexologist and counsellor Amanda Lamb...

**adult content warning** We’re young, dumb, and full of it. We're talking about cum, semen, jizz, the milky chance. For some people, it’s kinda icky, but others love it, and everywhere. On the podcast, we’ll take a look at why people fetishize it and why people can’t stand it with sex therapist Tanya Koens. Plus, can you really get an infection in your eye if someone cums in it? Nurse Mat will be...

Have you ever fantasised about being with someone famous? Maybe you’ve slept with someone famous and it was the root of your dreams. Maybe you’re still together! Or perhaps it was a total nightmare and ruined that person and the work you loved, forever. On the podcast you’re going to hear from someone who had an up close experience with the lead singer of a band that tarnished their music in her e...

Is locking someone down really so hard? Or are you the type of person that freaks out and leaves as soon as something becomes a bit serious… On the pod we’re looking at commitment - that tricky transitional phase in dating where you go from casual fling, to deleting all your apps and deciding to date each other exclusively. But if one of you is more into the idea of locking things down than the ot...

The holiday season is upon us, so we're talking about the emotional and relationship shit-storm that is summer. Whether it’s dealing with your partner’s relatives or wanting to break up but kinda not wanting to do it smack bang in the middle of Christmas, there’s plenty going on during this period. You’ll hear from relationships specialist Melissa Ferrari on ways that you could avoid the holidays...

This week, musician Kirin J Callinan flashed his penis on the ARIA Award red carpet this week, and as you’d imagine in the current social climate, people were pissed, and fairly so, it is indecent exposure and therefore a crime. But it shouldn't come as a surprise for anyone who knows of him... on his latest album cover he’s peeing on his on own face. But the latest backlash has made us wonder abo...