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The Hook Up

Society EN ↓ 908 episodes

The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.

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triplej

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Society

Podcast website

www.abc.net.au

Latest episode

Oct 21, 2026

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Episodes

What it’s like to live with constant, uncontrollable orgasms 12.07.2021

Imagine having spontaneous orgasms multiple times a day. It’s a real condition called Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder, that’s rarely spoken about by sufferers due to the shame and stigma attached. In this episode, we’re finding out what it’s like to live with PGAD, and whether there’s a potential cure.

What it's like to be LGBTQ+ and indigenous 05.07.2021

It’s NAIDOC Week, and in this episode we’re spotlighting the LGBTQIA+ First Nations experience with a panel of indigenous artists, writers, performers and thinkers to find out what it’s like to belong to both communities.

When your partner hasn't come out 28.06.2021

Being out, loud and proud, and dating someone who isn't has its challenges. In this episode, we find out how to navigate this conflicting and delicate situation, and whether it can work out in the long run.

Semen retention: Why some guys are obsessed with not jizzing 21.06.2021

There are countless testimonials from semen retainers online about the physical, emotional and even sexual benefits they’ve experienced since holding onto their nut. In this episode, we find out whether the universe really starts to work in your favour if you don’t sow your seed.

A beginner's guide to sex toys for boys 13.06.2021

For far too long, penis owners have been shunned for sex toys. Well we say, NO MORE. We’re here to smash the stigma and give you the low down on how to break into the masc toy market.

How do we date with an open mind? 07.06.2021

Everyone has a dealbreaker (or two) when dating. But what if you’re missing out on a perfect match? In this episode we examine the biggest dealbreakers for young people, why we have them and how to challenge our prejudices.

Should you be thinking about kids when dating? 31.05.2021

The decision on whether or not to have kids can be a dealbreaker -  if partners disagree, it can cause major conflict and ultimately end relationships. So should we be bringing it up sooner than we think when dating? In this episode, we find out why the tide is turning against having kids and when to have that conversation.

Where are they now? 24.05.2021

On The Hook Up we help you through your complex love, sex and relationship problems. But what happens after the show’s over? In this episode, we’re checking in with some listeners who have shared their stories with us, and finding out what they’ve learnt.

When your partner comes out as transgender 17.05.2021

Coming out as trans is a life altering event for a person, but it’s just as profound for their partners who experience it by their side. Nat speaks to Emma Batchelor, author of Award-winning memoir Now That I See You, about what it’s like to be in a relationship with someone transitioning.

How to date without drinking 10.05.2021

If the idea of going sober on a date makes you sweat, you’re not alone. In this episode, we find out why we’re so reliant on liquid courage to meet people and whether it’s worth giving sober dating a go.

Dating in a bigger body 03.05.2021

Whether you’re constantly grappling with the unrealistic size standards of the society we live in, or you’re super confident in the skin you’re in, dating in a bigger body is minefield. In this episode, we’re taking a close look at dating with a lot of body - the positive, the negative, and the neutral.

The Beginner's Guide To Blowjobs 26.04.2021

Sucking dick is a staple sex act, but it's not the easiest to swallow. In this episode, we're bringing you the definitive guide on how to slob on the knob.

What to do when your parents and partner(s) don't get along 19.04.2021

The relationship between parents and partners can be complicated. In this episode, we're finding out what to do if they're at war and you're caught in the crossfire.

Have you got relationship FOMO? 12.04.2021

When you're dating, the fear of missing out on someone better can end a perfectly good relationships before it's even had the chance to bloom. In this episode, we find out why you're moving on too quickly and how to slow down and smell the roses.

BONUS: There Is No "I" In Threesome with Jan Oliver Lucks 04.04.2021

Can you have your cake and eat it too? That's the promise of open relationships. We talk to NZ based filmmaker Jan Oliver Lucks who put it to the test with his new documentary There Is No "I" Threesome, a deep and unflinching look at his own polyamory journey.

Endometriosis: what we still don't know 29.03.2021

1 in 10 people have it, but we still have more questions than answers - and no cure. In this episode, we’re deep diving into the world of Endometriosis, a painful chronic illness that for some can take a decade to diagnose.

The Beginners Guide To Eating Pussy 22.03.2021

It’s time to put that pussy where your mouth is. In this episode, we’re bringing you a definitive beginners guide on how to go down on that punani like a pro.

Love behind bars 15.03.2021

Love in prison isn't like Orange Is The New Black. We find out what it's actually like to fall in love with someone behind bars, with stories about the struggle on the outside as well as inside of jail. Lifeline: 13 11 14 Beyond Blue: 1300 224 636 Relationships Australia: 1300 364 277 Support for people in & out of prison: VIC: VACRO - (03) 9605 1900 NSW: Community Restorative Centre - (02) 92...

Beyond exploitative or empowering: Tilly Lawless on sex work and feminism 07.03.2021

Tilly Lawless is a queer sex worker, writer, feminist and advocate. For International Women's Day, we chat with her to understand the misconceptions of the industry, the shame that surrounds it and the complicated relationship between feminism and sex work.

What's the deal with crystal sex toys? 01.03.2021

Quartz pleasure wands and jade "yoni" eggs are all over Instagram right now, but do they actually do what they claim? We're sussing out the crystal sex toy craze to find out why people love them and whether they're even safe to use.

Can people really have multiple orgasms? 22.02.2021

The multiple orgasm is something of a legend - and so far, science can't technically prove they exist. But plenty of you are experiencing them. On this episode, we're putting the multigasm under the microscope and finding out how to achieve them.

Do you love them, or the idea of them? 14.02.2021

Are you finding your expectations of your date aren't meeting reality? You might be more into the idea of your partner than, well, them! We look at why our imaginations can run wild when dating, and how it can get toxic.

Is the fertility awareness method for me? 08.02.2021

If you're looking for a hormone-free contraceptive, FAM might be for you. Fertility tracking apps are a new way to avoid pregnancy, but how safe are they? We've got all the info you need and we'll explore the other non-hormonal birth control options.

What to do if 'the one' got away 01.02.2021

Is there someone you refer to as 'the one that got away'? Maybe an ex, an unavailable crush, or someone where the timing just wasn't right. In this episode, you'll find out how to stop wondering 'what if?' and move on.

BONUS: Meet the stars of BUMP 28.01.2021

BUMP is a new Aussie dramedy on Stan that you'll fall in love with. It's all about a surprise teen pregnancy, first love, parenthood and cultural differences. In this episode, Nat chats to the stars Nathalie Morris and Carlos Sanson Jr.

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