The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast

In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the initial conditions that create the beliefs and Pseudo-solutions that develop in narcissism and borderline personalities and the codependent behaviors that entangle the high conflict triangle.  For more information about our services Please visit our web page at www.highconflict.net You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd.  Join "The Dise...

If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the notion of finding the prospective of replacing gratitude and wonderment from victimization and what is being done to me, in order to get the ball rolling forward t...

If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the importance of connecting with you children and creating strong connections and secure attachment. When children experience parents that are narcissistic in nature...

In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how one parents push and their high and unreasonable exceptions cause great levels of anxiety and long term conditioning for the child. Often Narcissistic personalities have unfinished personal business an overlay on the children to become what they were unable achieve on their own. You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd. Join "The Disengag...

If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and Tony talk about the crazy making chaos that comes from dealing with narcissistic personalities and how to navigate the fallout that comes with the out of control behavior that show...

If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and his guest Patrice Courteau LMFT discuss the various aspects of why a child becomes distant from a parent. Where it ofter starts, progresses and how to navigate the tricky journey i...

In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how some parents are in revenge mode and use the children as weapons both consciously and unconsciously. Brook and Michelle help the listeners identify some of these patterns so they can change them and further get the children out of the middle of the conflict. You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd. If you are finding these podcast of val...

If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how the disengagement process brings up strong emotions of anxiety, fear and confusion and how to begin to be with the process. They give examples of differing sit...

In this episode Brook welcomes special guest Cynthia Kane, author of the book Communicate Like. A Buddhist. Brook and Cynthia discuss the principles of Mindfulness and Self Awareness as the pathway to reduce conflict both internally and externally as well as a pathway to better relationships. To contact Cynthia you can email her @ cynthia@intentionalcommunicationinstitute.com and her website is in...

In this episode Brook has special guest Attorney John Varley to discuss bankruptcy before, during or after divorce as a tool to regain financial stability and to help move forward toward a less stressful future. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enj...

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how the recurring patterns and habits of conflict tend to reappear for both you and your Ex. during times of stress, even though you think they have disappeared.  If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! D...

In this Episode Brook and Michelle discuss how to help children understand and navigate boundaried parenting plans (Parallel Parenting Plan) with schedules they may not like and how to continue to maintain a healthy and attached relationship with them. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using th...

In this episode Brook and Michelle have a conversation about the importance of staying aware of when important events and occur and boundaries crossed that you are able to take the proper action in a timely manner so you don't loose an important window that could enhances or change the course or overall outcome of your case. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue rece...

In this episode Brook and Tony talk about the need to start thinking about how to re-readjust to the changing world of Covid-19 as we begin to open up and relook at how our parenting and parenting plan are working and not working. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on you...

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the extra strains that Covid 19 put on families involved in High Conflict during the holidays and some solutions to help navigate them. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" M...

In this episode Brook and Charlie bring in a guest Step Mom to have a conversation of the perils of being a Step Mom and a look at the different perspectives of being a Step Mom. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zon...

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the Parallel Parenting model and discuss the importance of changing the narrative so people understand that Parallel Parenting IS Co-Parenting and is the prefered model when there is moderate to high conflict. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the...

In this episode Brook and Tony talk about the added intensity and division that the Covid 19 has brought to the families in high conflict as well as the other added events taking place in the world that are eroding the fabric of our nervous systems and our ability to cope with even the easier challenges we face every day. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receivi...

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss just how easy it is to go astray and get lost in the deep woods of high conflict when you haven't put together a good team at the earliest possible time and if after getting lost having the proper help will help you find your way out. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please co...

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss how the current circumstances of the Covid virus are magnifying everything. Our fear, our clinging to our belief systems, our anger and grief. And giving some perspective on how to manage and navigate this extremely difficult time. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider...

In this episode Brook and Tony discuss how the current circumstances of the Covid virus are magnifying everything. Our fear, our clinging to our belief systems, our anger and grief. And giving some perspective on how to manage and navigate this extremely difficult time. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider...

n this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how Fear and Freeze keep us stuck and from moving forward with the opportunities presented us and how we can monitor the freeze and begin to melt into movement and agency. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. En...

In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about the Manhole Story and how as humans we have unconscious blind spot that keep us doing the same thing over and over and how we can become conscious of the Manhole and begin to repattern our thinking to avoid the fall. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating...

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the dramatic changes the cover-19 pandemic have created for everyone, especially those caught in high conflict divorce and custody cases. It is forcing everyone to think and rethink their actions regarding exchanges, travel and communications around containment. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free conten...

In this episode Brook and Charlie explore how looking at the internal components of Conflcit, meaning those sensations and internal beliefs that live within all of us can go a long way to help us disengage and begin to solve the external conflicts in our relationships with others. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free plea...