The Healing Exchange

Comparison is one of the enemy’s favorite distractions. It quietly convinces us that we’re behind, not enough, or that everyone else is living the life we should have. But the truth is, comparison doesn’t inspire us—it steals from us. In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about how comparison robs us of our peace, confidence, gratitude, and purpose. We’ll discuss why comparing your...

Can you love Jesus deeply and still need therapy? For many Christians, the answer to emotional pain has often been, “Just pray about it.” But what happens when you’re praying, reading your Bible, attending church… and you’re still battling anxiety, depression, grief, or unresolved trauma? In this powerful episode of The Healing Exchange , host Jacquilla McFarley sits down with La Tanya D. Walker ,...

How do you know if you’re truly walking by faith… or simply believing a lie you’ve convinced yourself is from God? In this powerful conversation, host Jacquilla McFarley sits down with LaTronda Owens to explore one of the hardest questions believers face: Where is the line between genuine faith and self-deception? Together, they unpack what it looks like to trust God while remaining honest with yo...

What happens when the search for love, validation, and acceptance leads you down the wrong path? In this week’s episode of The Healing Exchange , my guest Tremika Elie shares her powerful testimony of moving from promiscuity to purity . We talk about shame, healing, identity, God’s grace, and what it looks like to truly walk in freedom. This conversation is raw, honest, and filled with hope for an...

⚔️ EPISODE 5: THE WAR WITHIN ⚔️ Have you ever found yourself wanting to do what’s right, but still battling desires, thoughts, and temptations that pull you in the opposite direction? In this episode, we dive into the daily struggle between the flesh and the spirit—the invisible battle taking place within every believer. We talk about temptation, obedience, holiness, and what it really looks like...

Part 2 is finally here… and this conversation goes even deeper. In Episode 4 Pt. 2 of “I Want God but I Don’t Want Church” , Karla Jones continues the conversation on faith, church hurt, disappointment, healing, and what it really means to pursue God beyond religion and performance. Some conversations are uncomfortable… but necessary.  This is for the people who still love God, but have wrestled w...

Episode 3 is one of those conversations that a lot of people feel… but don’t always say out loud. This week, we sit down with Karla Jones to unpack the tension between loving God and feeling disconnected from church culture. From church hurt, disappointment, expectations, and healing — to rebuilding a real relationship with God beyond performance — this conversation is honest, vulnerable, and nece...

Episode 2: The Egypt Mentality 🏜️ Have you ever been physically free… but mentally still stuck? In this episode, we talk about what it means to carry an “Egypt mentality” — fear, complaining, doubt, comfort in bondage, and struggling to trust God even after He brings you out. Just like the Israelites in the wilderness, many of us are delivered externally but still battling internally. This convers...

There are moments when faith doesn’t feel peaceful—it feels like a fight. A tension. A back-and-forth between what you feel and what you believe. In this first episode, I open up about the internal struggle of wanting to say “no” to God… but choosing to stay anyway. The questions, the frustration, the silence—and what it means to wrestle without walking away. If you’ve ever felt confused, distant,...

Tune is as Jacquilla recaps season 3. Thank you to all of the supporters and new subscribers for making season 3 a huge SUCCESS! This is not goodbye, just a “see you later”… DM or email your feedback from this season! WE LOVE YALL!!! Support the show

We all have an inner child within us that sometimes screams for help depending on the trauma that was experienced! How often do you talk to your inner child? Does your inner child hinder your adulthood!m? Tune in as Jacquilla has a tough conversation with the little girl within her.  Support the show

A wise man once said that just because it’s your truth, doesn’t make it THE truth! Tune in as Jacquilla has a tough conversation with her biological mother, Angela. They each got to share their perspective which brought clarity & a HEALING exchange! Support the show

Sometimes, waiting becomes disappointing if you get weary. However, KEEP WAITING because God is shaping you into the BEST version of yourself!  Oftentimes we compare & give ourselves lack of grace. But, God constantly reminds us, “But those who wait on the LORD Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint...

Oftentimes, God chooses the unlikely one to help build His Kingdom on earth. No matter how ugly your story is, you are not EXEMPT from God calling you into His will & purpose for your life. Run YOUR race & not compare yourself to others.  Tune is as my special guest, Eddie Acker, shares his testimony about how God call him (the least likely one) to the kingdom of God!  Support the show

God usually call those whom seem to the world but the MOST qualified in the KINGDOM! Tune in as special guest, LaTasha Bogan, shares her experience in the street life & how God led her to Him!!! Support the show

Building yourself back again after a Divorce can weigh heavy on you mentally, emotionally, & physically. During this process, NO ONE wins… but have you given God those broken pieces? On this episode, special guest Samantha McCarthy will share her experience with divorce & how she found TRUE love afterwards. Support the show

We all have had moments of wanting to QUIT, rather silently or publicly. But… even those moments are okay to have. The best thing you could do to fight these moment is to be honest IN that moment… Support the show

It’s easy for us to judge those that are being exposed as “monsters” through the media… but, if we be honest, how different are you from them? Have you truly dealt with your demons & dark places? When was the last time you evaluated the dark secrets in your heart? Do you believe we all have “monster” moments to where we act out on our trauma to hurt others?  For context, please be sure to watc...

True growth happens from the INSIDE out. The inner man is what’s most important in God’s eyes. Have you checked your heart lately? What are some of the reoccurring thoughts that you meditate on? How are you taking care of your soul❓ Support the show

“To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven:.”  Eccl. 3:1 Support the show

Cheers to Season 2! Tune in as Jacquilla does  a recap of the topics discussed within this season & some exciting news for the upcoming season! Thank you for your support!  Support the show

How often do we respond from our pain instead of responding to the reality of the situation? Tune in as Jacquilla shares her personal journey regarding this topic. Are your responses based on facts or feelings? Support the show

Tune in to the final part of our series regarding grief. Jacquilla & Kimberly processes the emotional ups & downs with grief & how God makes it work for our good if we include Him in our pain. Support the show

Tap in as Jacquilla shares her testimony with toxic “love.” Many times people show up in the name of “love” but it’s not love at all! Are you making yourself hard to love & blaming it on your trauma? Let’s find out!  Support the show

Tune in as special guest, Annalisha Beauford shares her testimony surrounding the unexpected death of her 16 year old son. Jacquilla & Annalisha will talk through another facet of the grieving process & the pain behind it all!  Support the show