The Healing Corner with NicoleHeals

I have officially declared 2022 my villain era. It's time! It's actually been a long time coming and I'm so glad to be stepping into this space that I've been avoiding for so long. Often time we are scared of ruffling feathers, of falling out of social grace, of being the villain or doing 'villainous' acts because we do not want to run the risk of being un-accepted, disconnected from, and socially...

Do you have control issues? Let's be real, we all do to some capacity. But have you considered the origin, the true start of your control issues? Have you considered that it may also be where your anxiety was born out of?  That being wrong, making mistakes, and ultimately not knowing the next step on the path, the next answer, what it was and where it was going to come from, has everything to...

We go our whole lives dissecting the person that we are, trying to fit ourselves into a little box enforced with standards that other people put onto us, and standards that we've learned to go out and look for others to give us. From a childhood where we are always corrected, never respected, emotionally neglected, with the Self gone unprotected, we are taught that liking who you naturally are, pa...

Healing in itself is A LOT, lets be real, but healing while having someone depend on you for their SURVIVAL? Let's be real, that's a full, possibly overflowing load. In this episode, NicoleHeals shows some love to parents out there trying to heal, and reminds them that healing for the sake of their child is admirable, but healing for the sake of their own child inside may be where the real work be...

In this episode NicoleHeals lists healthy, creative ways to connect with one's emotions, prioritizing anger, starting out by urging listeners to forget what they "know" about emotions. Shedding light on the effects of being socialized into a society that is so uncomfortable with emotions, she explores this influence in how we interact with ourselves when it's feeling time. Though the focus in this...

In part two of this episode NicoleHeals gets into the nitty gritty and lists reasons why fawners *should* be mad, encouraging us all, overall, to connect with our anger in order to heal. Enjoy the remainder of this episode, and as always, happy healing 💖 Connect with me! :) Twitter.com/NicoleHeals Instagram.com/Nicole. Heals TikTok - NicoleHeals Patreon.com/NicoleHeals Medium.com/NicoleHeals

"As fawns, we need to know that our anger is Divine" -a message NicoleHeals extends in this week's episode.  Tune in for part one as NicoleHeals explains how our anger is our power, our protection, and an extremely vital part of our personality. When we take our anger back we gain boundaries, power, and control over our lives to be able to make decisions on our own behalf, and not just wait o...

Here are some updates currently happening right now that I wanted to share: -No episode today, ya girl is going through it -Social media break starts Dec 1st! Join me for the entire month of December, or for any number of days you see fit. -The last episode brought up a lot of emotions for me that still have me in a chokehold, so much so that I wanted to do another episode on Fawning and delving i...

Not many of us know about the Fawn response and how it exists alongside our other, more well-known responses to trauma, Fight & Flight. In this episode NicoleHeals breaks down the "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em" response that is fawning, how it comes about in our past (cough cough childhood), and how it may impact us in our present day lives.  While also breaking down how responses to t...

Often time life tells us a lot of "can'ts". What we can't do, what we can't have, what we can't say, and as a result this translates to us that we don't deserve much. When this feeling lies underneath the surface within our bodies, we opt out of asking for "much", asking for what we want, and most importantly, asking and demanding for what we need. For many of us, this starts in childhood with the...

In this episode NicoleHeals gets personal about her own spiritual journey for the past 6 years, leading up to now, and how, through reflection, she has been able to observe many of the ways in which her personality through childhood has been built on her pain. Follow along as she touches on the ins and outs of healing the many layers of oneself that ultimately connects you, again and again, to you...

In this episode NicoleHeals talks about how we grow to be fearful of other people's perceptions of us, why we grow so fearful of potentially negative perceptions of us, and what we may do to "correct" them, all in conversation around childhood.    Learning about how we internalize negative perceptions of ourselves and why can allow us to heal our self conscious inner child so that true l...

In this episode NicoleHeals takes a deep, detailed dive into the grieving process that we should have on situations we encounter in life, outside of the passing of a loved one. Should we grieve friendships? Relationships? Job Rejections? Every little thing that does not turn out the way we thought it would? It's up to you to decide! Allow this episode to spark your thought in your own grieving pro...

In this episode NicoleHeals gets into the dissatisfaction, disappointment, and depression we are prone to feeling as children, from having our world and, well, reality, flipped-turned upside down by the influence of the outer world. These feelings may translate into adulthood and we may feel like we are letting our current and past selves down by not being an ultra-idealized version of ourselves,...

In this episode NicoleHeals gets into the scrumptious topic of what exactly is an inner child, in a theoretical sense. By understanding the role of the inner child and its functions, we can consciously pinpoint the exact type of person that we are, so that we can then pinpoint the exact type of healing that we need. Happy healing, enjoy!

Its part two of this episode and in this section NicoleHeals finishes up on the important understanding of why you should connect with your inner child, and goes into "the how" to connect with your inner child. Enjoy all of these gems and be sure to share this episode to all of your friends if you resonate :) Happy healing! Twitter.com/NicoleHeals Instagram.com/Nicole. Heals TikTok - NicoleHeals P...

Welcome to The Healing Corner! In this episode, NicoleHeals gives a run down on WHY it is important to connect with your inner child, as she feels understanding is the first step to healing and believing. She brings forth the idea that she believes one's inner child holds the key to our core self and how it is our responsibility and greatest gift to oneself to connect with the inner child so that...

Sometimes we can be our own worst critic. We know this, we know that being harder on oneself than you are with other people is a widespread phenomenon, but have you ever dissected the "why"? Come and take a journey with NicoleHeals as she takes a dive into these deep waters of our mind. Final destination:childhood, as always. Connect with me 💖:  Tiktok/Twitter: @NicoleHeals Instagram: @Nicol...

What's Healing Got To Do With It?! I'll tell you, E V E R Y T H I N G! For right now though, we'll start with the basics, YOU. Healing matters because *you* matter and in this episode NicoleHeals breaks down many ways in which our upbringing contributes to the opposing side through the ways we absorb the energy of other individuals and learn to put others needs first over our own. Grab your whites...