Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

Society EN ↓ 317 episodes

Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants? We know how this feels. Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again. Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.

Author

Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini

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Society

Podcast website

heroichusbands.me

Latest episode

Jul 9, 2026

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Episodes

17: Unmasking the Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy Shadow Side 26.06.2021

One of the most common shadow sides to modern married men is the Mr Nice Guy persona. Continually wanting to please the feminine for fear of feeling rejected by her, he has unwittingly lost contact with his masculine core. As a result he has become untrustworthy to his woman and to other men. So often saying Yes externally when he is suppressing an inner growling No, he ends up harbouring unspoken...

16: The Drunken Taoist Secret to Finding Flow 15.06.2021

One of the universally conditioned roles put upon modern men is that of being the "serious man". A man who honourably navigates the inherently stressful storms and complexities of modern life to daily victory, by gritting his teeth and getting to hell on with the serious work of living. Humour, joy, bliss, playfulness, unbridled laughter and any other socially unacceptable emotional states incongr...

15: Drowning Rats, "I Hope" Hopelessness and Strategic Heroic Hope 07.06.2021

HINAS: Hope Is Not A Strategy, has become a popular term within peak performance and business mindset circles. It points to a truth yet, it remains incomplete. The "I Hope" words spoken by most people does cut them off from their greatest power to create.  However, there is a radically different view that by consciously creating what I call Strategic Heroic Hope you can unleash x240 to 1M+ times y...

14: For All You Kings Daring Greatly in the Arena of Life 18.05.2021

This episode, inspired by Theodore Roosevelt's famous speech that has become affectionately known as "The Man in the Arena" speech. Centred on the idea that it is not the critic that counts but the man in the arena of life daring greatly and committing to his cause. Every man alive has his own great cause in the arena, his own purpose. Often your cause is one only known in the privacy of your own...

13: 15 Simple Habits to Unlock a Red Hot Sex Life - #8 Will Blow her Mind!!! 10.05.2021

In the busyness of modern life, most men never come close to the red hot sex life they deserve and desire to experience with their Queen. After almost losing his beautiful Goddess in a marital breakdown or breakthrough scenario, Mark has found 15 simple habits that have revolutionised his sex life and deep intimate connection with his Queen. Kings, get ready for the red hot sex life revolution com...

12: Why Looking For "The One" Woman Kills Intimacy in Men 30.04.2021

In an age of infinite freedom to choose to stay in or exit relationships without any major perceived drop of social status, it is becoming immensely difficult for men to know if his woman is "The One". "The One" is the mystical, elusive perfect woman who fits intimately like a metaphorical glove accepting the man and never getting in the way of his desire for absolute freedom. Yet, we might have b...

11: Stopping Kingly Lions Becoming Sedated Sheep 16.04.2021

For over one hundred and forty years there has been a systematic shaming of men and our role in society. In an age when the world needs more than ever before, badass powerful Kings to take the lead, the hood must be ripped off our invisible jailkeeper to set ourselves free. It's time to own your truth as the unapologetic, unfuckwithable King you were born to be.  Will you do The Heroic Husbands Ma...

10: Sacred Humiliation - An Intense Initiation into Kingship 09.04.2021

It is commonly said that the truth hurts, yet what it reveals is the emotional charge that fires up your soul as a wild man to own your Fearless Freedom and live and die without regret.  The great difficulty we face as modern men is knowing how to navigate the hurting emotion that truth reveals without closing into protective shame or blame reactivity that usually deepens the shit we find ourselve...

9: The 5 VITAL Clarities - The Ultimate Daily Process for Achieving the Impossible 02.04.2021

Introducing the strategic daily application of the Kingdom Creators 5-Step Code: Clarity x Concentration (Thinking, Talking and Taking Action) x Consistency x Courage x Competence. Learning to self-master the implementation of the five VITAL Clarities in the arena of life will put you on the path to living and dying without regret. Discover how to construct the Have-It-All-Life you deserve and be...

8: Eliminate the 5 Major Reasons You Are Not Getting What You Want 26.03.2021

How to Discriminate and Eliminate the 5 Major Unconscious Behavioural Reasons you are not getting what you want in every area of your life.  Only when you can recognise these unconscious behaviours can you ruthlessly hack them out of your life with Samurai decisiveness, placing you in the driving seat to creating your Have-It-All life with Kingly Confidence. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriag...

7: The Kingdom Creator 5-Step Code for Achieving the Impossible 19.03.2021

The greatest regrets men bring to the grave are not regarding what they did do, but what they did NOT do when alive.  Dare to bring your seemingly impossible dream, project and outer purpose into this episode's exciting journey of infinite possibility and learn the conscious King's strategic approach to going from "it's impossible" , to "it's inevitable" to "it's done!"  Will you do The Heroic Hus...

6: Owning and Expressing Anger the Conscious Kingly Way - Part Two 12.03.2021

An exploration into empowering steps you can take to learn how to own your anger and express it safely, clearly and with confidence as you set boundaries in life. An introduction to powerful rituals designed to train your nervous system to allow your intense Warrior energy effortlessly flow as you ground into sacred Kingly ownership of this beautiful emotion we call anger.  Will you do The Heroic...

5: Owning and Expressing Anger the Conscious Kingly Way - Part One 05.03.2021

Part One of a Special Two-Part series on how to radically own and express anger as a conscious King. Mark strips away the cloud of shame that lies around the sacred and oft misunderstood emotion anger. Revelatory insights into the mechanisms of how we develop destructive anger communication patterns that hurt ourselves and others. In this episode learn why you react the way you do to build awarene...

4: Embodying Love in the Face of your Woman's Feminine Shit Storm 27.02.2021

One of the most frustrating experiences in a man's life is trying to navigate the seemingly impossible and highly irrational feminine shit storm of his woman. The more you try to fix, the more intense the storm becomes. It's like being up Shit Creek without a paddle. Introducing you to: "The Paddle";) Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast...

3: The Core Understanding of Masculine-Feminine that Most Men Miss 17.02.2021

A deep dive into why intimately understanding the primary masculine-feminine relationship within us as men is key to becoming the unapologetic, unfuckwithable King we were born to become.  Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Tr...

2: Transforming Inner Critic Shame into Evolving Kingly Confidence 11.02.2021

Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic...

1: Introduction to the Be The Husband She Brags About podcast 09.02.2021

Welcome to The Be The Husband She Brags About podcast!! Enjoy our 2-min intro episode and take the first step of your Marriage Transformation Hero journey today! Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your rel...

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