The Hardcore Closer Podcast

Let me give you a lesson in evolution that will explain the way your mind is wired.    Not just for you, but for your future generations.    Back in the day, God designed human beings to pass on information via our DNA.    When you plug in a USB into a computer, you can transfer information.    In our DNA, there are 12 Terabytes in our sperm that transforms information.    You are carrying trauma...

If we're keeping it real........   I have a really good marriage.    I'm a disciplined and hard man.    The fact I'm in my marriage and it's still good, it's a huge feat.    I can do psychological battle with anyone because of my past and create a tornadic storm of chaos.    But, through all of this, I have been able to keep a good marriage.    64% percent of marriages are about to end, and if you...

The first time I was locked up, I realized that was one moment I wanted children.     The reason?    No one came to see me.    They didn't care.    But I knew if I had children, someone would've brought them to see their Dad.    When I was a kid, I had a step-dad and he did a lot of things good and some not so good, but I learned from him.    I learned the kind of Dad I would want to be for my chi...

There are many times in my life, I had every opportunity to quit.    I could've quit when I got locked up and became a felon.    But I didn't.    I could've quit when I was divorced 3 times.    But I didn't.   I could've quit when I was taken advantage of and stolen from by my clients and my employees, but  didn't.    A lot of this has to do with the fact I kept running this loop through my head. ...

Get ready for a deep dive today.   I have a very tight circle of friends and only a few have been to my house.    Been around my children.    My wife.    There are only so many people's company I can enjoy, and today's guest is one of them.    Dr. Chalmers and I have been friends for close to 10 years and he's one of my doctors.    His wholistic approach to life and medicine have put him in the to...

I've got so many friends right now in one of the most popular and lucrative spaces.....   They're making sick money.......   One friend does $2M a week in stem cell sales.    Another just sold his company for $50M.    Peptides.    Testosterone and Estrogen replacement therapy.    Why do I tell you this?    In the coming few months, I'm going to make a move in this space.    I've worked hard and bu...

First comes the money.    Then comes the power.    And with that comes the freedom, right?    Wrong.    In this episode, I want to reframe the way you look at things.    There are people on this planet that took a different approach to getting to where they are now.    The really successful ones didn't start with the money.    They started with themselves.    Working out.    Eating healthily.    S...

I want you to ask yourself one question........and then elaborate on that question....   "What if it's me?"    That's not keeping my shit on track?    What if it's me because my business is failing?    What if it's me because my family is not operating on all cylinders?    What if it's me if I'm broke?    Now, take that question and take it to the next level.    What if it's me that steps up and p...

I never told this story publicly on a podcast, but I want to share the time I hired David Goggins to coach me.    And just to be clear, he doesn't coach people now.    I had to chase him down and bribe him in order to get him to help me.   But I knew he would be the one to help me.    Get ready for an adventure of a story.    By the time Goggins was done with me, he had me right where I needed to...

One of the problems in my life is when you are a different type of human.    I'm saying this humbly.....   My brain works differently versus others.    And I'm successful.    I've been adopted.    Addicted.    Abused.    Imprisoned.    The way my mind works, none of that was able to keep me down.    Don't get me wrong.    I got my ass kicked in every facet of life.    It took people telling me I'm...

I've been through many things in my life.    In the last 2 years, I've lost a few million in investments.    Been fucked over in business with an executive team that was fucking each other and spending money like lottery winning whores on a payday weekend.    Had a management guy that was blatantly grifting my network and it cost me six figures to reimburse promises not delivered by this ass clown...

Over the weekend, my neighbor came to my 13-year-old and told him they had about 130 bales of hay that needed to be loaded.  He told my boy he'd pay him $250 and it would take somewhere around 3 hours.    Jax agreed and off he went.     I knew I had to help him because he's never done anything like that on his own, so as it goes, I end up doing about 50% of the work.     No problem.    That's how...

Everybody wants to win.    They want to get ahead and get a leg up.    But they have to do the work.    The year was 2010 and the Dodd Frank Act was passed and my felonious ass could not longer get a job.    I knew how to wash cars.    I knew how to deal drugs.    I knew how to do loans, but I could no longer do it.    I spent the best part of a year working my ass off to learn everything I could....

Most people want to improve their lives.    Ask anyone.    They'll tell you yes.    But when it comes down to it, the truth is the way most people will improve.    If someone is fat, and we're telling them that fat people are sexy, we're lying to them.    The powers that be want us to lie to each other.    That's just one example of how we lie to people.    But the problem is society says, "hey, j...

Ninety percent of people's problems in their lives and business are that they don't manage expectations properly.    I've been married 4 times, divorced 3.    A long time ago, when I met Amy, we sat down and had a conversation.    I've been with her about 11 years and once we decided we were going to be getting serious, we sat down and had a conversation.    Pre-nup.    No matter what you think, e...

One thing I've learned about people is if you don't know who they are, they'll show you.    My friend Derrick J Harper shared a post about someone turning on him that he had helped.     It was destructive.    Heart-breaking.    He helped this family who couldn't do something for themselves.    Fast-forward to the message..........   They started shitting on him instead of being grateful.    That's...

The Big Beautiful Bill was passed on July 4th.    And there's a ton to uncover here.    As it goes with passing bills, you know as well as I do now that some of these bills have fancy names that have nothing to do what they say they're for.    War money gets slipped into a bill that has nothing to do with healthcare.    Special protections are implemented for causes you don't support or pay for. ...

Let me tell you about some shit that happened to me the other day that really pissed me off.    I got hit in the DM the other day from someone on IG.    The guy is like, "Hey how much for your program?"    While I'm not pushing anything, I was doing a drive recently to our Apex network.    I told the guy it was $1,000.    He's like, "Well, I don't have a $1,000 right now."    I looked at this guy'...

For some people, they have something that happens in their life and it's the one thing that has happened in their life.    Maybe they beat addiction.    Alcoholism.    Cheating.    If you go online on social media, there is something for everyone.....from polygamy to poor me.    There's a story.    But what happens is, people tend to live a story.     Do battle.    Conquer it.    And unfortunately...

People see the end results of hard work.    And they want those results for themselves.    It's great when you see someone in your dream car, someone with a ripped body and people desire the end result.    You meet someone successful wearing a fancy watch, wearing fancy clothes and oftentimes, those things are only a mask for the things they did.    They're not showing you the tough times.    The...

Up to this point, I've had everything I've ever wanted in life.     There's really not much I want or need now.    But I had to start with the beginning.    At first, I wanted money.    I wanted money because I thought and society and media told me I wanted money.    But as I got into everything, I learned really quickly, there are costs to money.    When I started making money, I bought a fancy c...

In life, I've asked for patience.    And guess what I got?    A long wait on things I wanted.    When I asked for integrity...........   I was tested at every turn.    When I asked about having more responsibility, I got more people to care for, and more bills to go with it.    When you're setting your intentions and asking for more, be sure you know what it is you are asking for.    The path you...

There are a few ways to become an entrepreneur:   Build a business. Buy an existing business.    Seems simple right?   But what if you don't have the capital to start your own business?    Maybe you've been working at your job and only have a chunk of your life savings tied up in your 401K.....   That's okay, at least you have something.    Most people when they're looking to start or buy a busine...

It's known that an average life exists in the comfort zone.     And it is known that when you live in discomfort, your body will do everything it can to avoid this space.    The truth is, discomfort is where the growth aoccurs for most human beings.    Think about the last tie you lost love.    Lost money.    Lost friends.    Think about your childhood.     Was it good, or was it uncomfortable.   ...

If you have been paying attention in this life, there are many people who are full of shit.   The greatest masters have figured it out, too.   Back in the 60s and 70s, they figured out that if you slow down the sound of a song, you can program people.   It's a real thing........look it up.   We've seen politicians do it......   "I did not have sexual relations with that woman...." (You did the voi...