The Guilt Girl

In this episode, Grace Bithell delves into the complex emotions surrounding suicide and self-harm, addressing the guilt and shame often associated with these experiences. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying purposes of suicidal thoughts and self-harm, exploring the neurobiological factors that contribute to these feelings. Grace advocates for a compassionate approach to m...

In this episode, Grace Bithell welcomes Joy Bouchard to discuss her experience as a therapist featured on the reality show 'Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' and the intricacies of EMDR therapy. They explore the phases of EMDR, its effectiveness in treating trauma, particularly sexual trauma, and the importance of support systems in therapy. Joy shares insights on the misconceptions surrounding EMDR a...

Summary In this episode, Grace explores the theme of making mistakes and struggling with balancing accountability and self compassion when you've messed up in big ways. She discusses the complexities of parenting, the nature of self forgiveness and accountability versus shame, and the importance of recognizing that life can be messy. Grace emphasizes that everyone is supposed to mess up and that i...

summary In this bonus episode, Grace  reacts to Season 2 of 'Nobody Wants This,' exploring themes of relationships, love, and the ethical dilemmas faced by therapists. She discusses the realistic portrayal of relationships in the show, the complexities of love and marriage, and the importance of communication and agreement on fundamental issues. She also calls out Dr. Andy for being the worst, and...

summary In this episode, Grace Bithell discusses the complexities of decision-making, particularly in relation to people pleasing and the guilt that often accompanies choices. She emphasizes the importance of separating choices from their consequences and advocates for values-guided decision-making as a way to alleviate guilt. Grace also highlights the necessity of disappointment in life and relat...

In this conversation, Grace Bithell and Betty Flores delve into the complexities of mom guilt and shame, exploring their definitions, impacts, and the cultural pressures that contribute to these feelings. They discuss the importance of self-compassion, community support, and the need for open conversations about motherhood. The episode emphasizes that while guilt can serve as a motivator for impro...

In today's episode, Grace Bithell and Melissa Spaulding delve into the complexities of self-esteem, exploring its definitions, societal influences, and the distinction between self-esteem and inherent worth. They discuss the emotional roller coaster that self-esteem can create, particularly for women, and how societal expectations can lead to feelings of inadequacy. The conversation emphasizes the...

summary In this episode, Grace Bithell shares her experiences and insights on guilt, choices, and the nature of life. She recounts her participation in a bake-off, discusses her guilty pleasures, and offers ten valuable lessons for those struggling with guilt and shame. The conversation emphasizes the importance of accepting imperfection, understanding judgment, and recognizing that discomfort is...

summary In this episode, Grace Bithell discusses the themes of guilt in shame in calling in sick. She shares her experiences with calling out of work, the pressure to perform, and the societal expectations that contribute to feelings of inadequacy. Grace emphasizes the need to prioritize mental health, recognize burnout, and understand that taking sick days is a valid and necessary part of life. T...

summary In this episode, Grace Bithell celebrates her birthday with a giveaway and discusses the roles shame plays in relationships, particularly the expectation to be low maintenance. She explores the impact of shame on expressing needs and the transactional nature of relationships, emphasizing the importance of advocating for oneself and redefining love beyond caregiving and expectations. takeaw...

In this episode, Grace Bithell discusses the realities of living in a messy house, particularly as a parent. She explores the feelings of shame and societal expectations surrounding cleanliness, emphasizing that a messy home does not define one's identity. Grace highlights the importance of mental health and reframing the perception of messiness, advocating for a balance between a clean and happy...

SummaryIn this episode, Grace Bithell explores the intricate relationship between shame and social anxiety, discussing how these emotions affect our interactions and self-perception. She shares personal anecdotes and insights on the importance of acceptance, vulnerability, and being true to oneself in social situations. Grace emphasizes that while the fear of being disliked is common, it is essent...

In this episode of "The Guild Girl," host Grace Bithell delves into the complex interplay between OCD and shame. Grace, a therapist and recovering guiltaholic, shares her personal journey and professional insights on how guilt and shame manifest in OCD. She challenges common misconceptions, explores the neurobiological roots of OCD, and discusses the profound impact of shame on those living with t...

Join Grace Bithell as she delves into the complex intersection of scrupulosity, religious guilt, and sexuality. In this episode, Grace shares personal insights and societal observations on how religious teachings impact our perceptions of sex, the importance of developing personal value systems, and the challenges of overcoming shame. Key Points:The impact of religious teachings on perceptions of...

keywords guilt, shame, womanhood, societal expectations, self-acceptance, mental health, relationships, individuality, empowerment, feminism summary In this solo episode, Grace Bithell delves into the complex emotions of guilt and shame that women often experience. She reflects on societal expectations and the contradictions that come with womanhood, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance a...

In this insightful solo episode of The Guilt Girl Grace Bithell delves into the pervasive feelings of inadequacy and shame that many of us experience in our professional lives. Drawing from personal anecdotes and clinical insights, Grace explores why we often feel bad at our jobs, the impact of these feelings on our well-being, and why it's crucial to let go of the shame associated with work perfo...

Join Grace Bithell as she sits down with Cody Fackrell, a licensed clinical social worker and financial coach, to explore the intricate relationship between shame and money. Discover how emotional spending, budgeting, and financial therapy can transform your financial mindset. Cody delves into the signs of money shame and how it affects financial decisions, emphasizing that shame often leads to av...

In this comprehensive episode, we explore the intricate web of emotions tied to childhood trauma, focusing on the pervasive feelings of shame and inappropriate guilt that often linger long after the experiences of childhood neglect and abuse. Our conversation sheds light on how these deep-seated emotions can distort self-worth and identity, leaving childhood trauma survivors grappling with shame a...

In this insightful episode of "The Guilt Girl," Grace Bithell sits down with licensed therapist MarjAnn Ober to explore the profound impact of media on self-perception and body image. They delve into how modern beauty standards, perpetuated by media, shape our beliefs about worth and acceptance. Through engaging stories and expert insights, they discuss the origins of body shame, the role of socia...

In this deeply personal episode of "The Guilt Girl," Grace Bithell opens up about her lifelong battle with OCD, specifically scrupulosity OCD, and the pervasive feelings of guilt and shame that have shaped her life. From childhood experiences of overwhelming guilt over minor misdeeds to the realization of her condition through her sister's diagnosis, Grace shares her journey of self-discovery and...

Join Grace Bithell as she delves into the complex emotions of guilt and shame surrounding divorce with Olivia Howell, CEO of Fresh Starts Registry. Together, they explore the societal and cultural pressures that contribute to these feelings and offer insights on how to navigate them. Key Points: Religious and Family Values: Grace discusses the impact of religious beliefs and family values on the p...

Hey guys! I'm Grace the host of The Guilt Girl, this is going to be a podcast devoted to guilt and shame in every aspect of life. So whether it's mom guilt, food guilt, or good old catholic guilt grab onto your childhood trauma and join us every Monday morning! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices