The Grown-Ups Are Talking

This week, we’re talking about something that often gets overlooked in the rush of adult life: hobbies. Not side hustles, not skills for your resume — just things we do because we like them. As we transition out of college and into full-time jobs, our relationship with fun and free time starts to shift. So how do we make space for hobbies again? And why does that even matter? I’m joined by two gue...

In this episode of The Grown-Ups Are Talking , we’re talking all about long-distance relationships—a reality for so many young adults navigating careers, school, and life transitions. Whether you're a few cities or entire time zones apart, maintaining a relationship while also trying to grow as an individual is no small feat. Our guest Maya shares her experience of being in a long-distance rel...

Moving to New York City is often seen as a major step into adulthood—but does it actually make you feel like a grown-up, or just really, really tired? In this episode, we break down what it means to “adult” in one of the most exciting, expensive, and overwhelming cities in the world. From sky-high rent and chaotic commutes to finding community in a city of millions, my guests Julian, Isaac and I t...

For 20+ years, life had a clear structure—school, college, summer breaks. But after graduation? There’s no syllabus, no grades, and no set path forward. The uncertainty of post-grad life can feel overwhelming, and the pressure to have everything figured out only makes it harder. In this episode, I’m joined by Michaela, a writer whose reflections on this transition resonated deeply with me. Togethe...

In part two of The Grown-Ups Are Talking anniversary celebration, we’re continuing our look back at the past year with a compilation of highlights from episodes focused on post-grad life. From career uncertainty and shifting friendships to redefining success, body image, and mental health, this episode revisits some of the most insightful conversations about the realities of adulthood. Join me as...

Dating apps can feel like an endless cycle of swiping, ghosting, and disappointing first dates—but is real love actually possible online? With Valentine’s Day around the corner, we’re diving into the highs and lows of app dating, why so many of us give up, and whether finding “the one” is still possible in a digital world. If you’ve ever debated deleting the apps for good, this episode is for you!...

It’s been one year since The Grown-Ups Are Talking launched! To celebrate, I’m looking back at some of the best moments from the first year of the podcast. In this part 1, I revisit episodes on adult friendships, romantic relationships, career dreams, and mental health. Plus, I reflect on how my perspective has shifted over time. If you’ve been here since the start—or if you’re just joining—this e...

In this episode, we're kicking off part one of a special two-part collaboration with Marissa, host of Hurdling Through Hard Times. We dive deep into the mental health challenges that come with transitioning into adulthood. From leaving behind familiar routines and support systems to taking on new responsibilities and navigating the uncertainty of the future, we're exploring the complexitie...

In this short solo episode, I reflect on 2024—from graduating college and starting my career to navigating life’s challenges and celebrating personal growth. I also share my goals and hopes for 2025, including turning 24, moving to London, and building routines that support my dreams. I hope my reflections resonate with you and inspire you to think about your own journey. Let’s close out the year...

In Episode 11 of The Grown-Ups Are Talking , I sit down with some of my coworkers to reflect on what it’s been like navigating the first six months of working life after graduation. We talk about the challenges, adjustments, and small victories that come with stepping into adulthood and starting our careers. This episode offers an honest look at what it’s like figuring things out in this new phase...

In Episode 3 of Adulting 101 , we’re tackling a major milestone in the journey to adulthood: landing your first job. From building work experience and networking effectively to acing interviews, this episode breaks down each step with practical, actionable tips to help you navigate the job market with confidence. Learn how to build a standout resume, create meaningful connections, and approach you...

In the latest episode of "The Grown-Ups Are Talking" mini-series, Adulting 101 , we dive into the essentials of personal finance. From budgeting basics to investing and managing credit, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you take control of your finances. Whether you're just starting your financial journey or looking to sharpen your money management skills, this episo...

Welcome to the first episode of our new mini-series, ‘Adulting 101,’ from ‘The Grown-Ups Are Talking.’ In this episode, we tackle one of the essential skills for any young adult: cooking a basic meal. Whether you're short on time or money, knowing how to prepare a simple dish like pasta can be a lifesaver. We'll guide you step-by-step through the process of making pasta, from boiling water to addi...

Struggling with basic adulting tasks like managing finances, cooking on a budget, or getting stains out of laundry? Welcome to Adulting 101, our new mini-series offering quick, actionable tips for everyday challenges. Each episode is under 10 minutes, perfect for busy schedules. Share your suggestions on TikTok @thegrownupsaretalkingpod or email thegrownupsaretalkingpod@gmail.com . Subscribe on Sp...

In part two of our exploration of body image, we delve deeper into the complexities of the adult experience with my guests, Xhuliana and Maya. Building on our previous episode, where Judah shared insights into body perception and control, this episode focuses on the nuances of the female and queer bodies, and their profound impact on sex, relationships, and personal identity. Xhuliana and Maya joi...

In today's episode, we dive deep into the complex landscape of body image. From childhood to adulthood, our perceptions of ourselves are shaped by a myriad of influences—family, friends, cultural norms, and societal expectations—all contributing to how we view our physical selves. Join us as we share personal stories and reflections on our own body image journeys. From struggling with weight a...

In this episode of The Grown-Ups Are Talking , we explore the fascinating topic of ambition. From early school days, we recognize those who are especially driven—teacher's pets, top achievers, and go-getters. Ambition isn't a trait that suddenly appears in adulthood; it's something many carry throughout their lives. As we grow, our attitudes towards ambition and success begin to shape...

We just graduated!!! In this episode, Abby talks with some of her peers from the class of 2024, Yumtso Bhum and Maya Nalawade, about what it means to have just graduated. Graduation means entering a void- a scary, unfamiliar, expansive new phase of our lives, otherwise known as 'adulthood'. They discuss their experiences of graduation, this elusive transitional period, and what their post-...

Money plays a huge role in your experience as a young adult and in the transition into adulthood. Money can define your status as an adult; essentially, once you are no longer reliant on your parents to pay for stuff, you might consider yourself an adult- and justifiably so. But beyond this, money plays a huge role in our perception of ourselves as an adult because of all of the emotional and logi...

In this episode, we're thinking about the impacts on our mental health and how we take care of our mental health during the transition into adulthood. This phase of our lives can take a significant toll on people’s mental health because it is often a period of great uncertainty and instability, and almost inevitably of change. Your routines might have to evolve to accommodate a new job, or the...

Today, Abby speaks with Lily Glaser and Katie Mae, two individuals who veered off the conventional path and chose to navigate adulthood on their own terms. They did not stick to the beaten track; instead, they ventured off onto the path less traveled.

This episode is all about careers, big dreams, the job hunt, and that whole headache. This episode topic felt so important when thinking about adulthood because to me, no matter how old I am, I don’t think I will truly feel like an adult unless I am financially independent, and have a full-time, big-girl career. I think that your job is the meat of what it means to be an adult. Clara Falkowska, Ai...

In the second half of our two-part series on adult relationships, Abby gets together with Brennan Vacek, Nyra Wise, and Adela Zhou to chat about all things romance. They dive into how adult relationships can sometimes feel like a whole new ballgame compared to the ones they've had before. But while adult relationships may be more future-focused and carry a sense of greater responsibility, does...

Friendships just aren't the same when you become adults... your best friend moves an ocean away for work, your busy schedule makes it hard to stay connected, and sometimes your values are just no longer compatible. In this first part of a two-part episode on adult relationships, Abby invites Gabrielle Darisme and Isaiah Colmenero to consider how friendships transform as we become adults, and h...

Welcome to The Grown-Ups are Talking! In each episode, I'll be inviting a diverse host of guests to chat with me about all things adulthood- working life, adult relationships, finding yourself, and a whole lot more. I am SO excited to bring you along on this journey through adulthood with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.