The Grief Code

In this episode, Ian had a conversation with Marie Alessi. Her life-changing experiences as a child had a significant influence on her, and her realisation of her father's death has provided her with several hidden skills. And, following the loss of her husband Rob, Marie realised the power of choosing peace and satisfaction. And you have the ability to choose happiness and healing for yourself an...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian talks about how important people are in your life with positivity and what is truly unique about them. Identifying it in them whenever they demonstrate it, is the quickest way to create a positive shift.  Don’t miss: Ian explains the Law of Reciprocity and how you will receive what you have given. Ian discusses why it would work for you to try to do it for...

In this episode, Ian sets out on enabling the unresolved pain of others to make you feel like crap, permitting others’ projections of what is occurring for them to cause you to lose balance. Ian emphasises that no one else influences your emotions.  Don’t miss: Ian explains how events made the necessary changes and how you present yourself and realise that the rope that those close to you use...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian describes the propensity that each gender have as to what works well and what doesn't, he also stated that it is also crucial to realise that we all show up for that in our own unique way and the sensation of letting go of a lot of past sorrow.  Don’t miss: Ian explains why something will always upset someone, and generally to avoid dealing with something...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian delineates that you can never completely understand what someone else is going through,  that you can become preoccupied with the consequences for yourselves, and that you need to figure out how to modify that behaviour. Don’t miss: Ian discusses how someone can behave in an unbelievable manner and cause you significant distress.  Ian also talks throu...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian chats with Dan Zehner. Dan serves his wife and three children in ways that are unique to him when he is not scuba diving in the dark with Navy SEALs, rucking in the cold with a team carrying logs, or working in his shop. He is eager to demonstrate how to live an amazing, exciting life with God and enjoy the adventure!  Don’t miss: Dan explains why you must...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian talks through why everyone is rooting for you, everyone wants the best version of yourself, how people are evaluating you, and that you possess such remarkable talents that you deserve every accomplishment that comes your way in the future. Don’t miss: How strongly a projection of a portion of them that requires mending Ian talks about different behaviours that...

In this episode, Ian reached a state where you can accept or agree with anything then you immediately regret it and wonder why you did it, but it's often too late to turn back and possibly different situations in your life in which a particular conduct is appropriate. Don’t miss: Ian talks about how rapidly you will learn that not only are they devoting a great deal of time and effort to things th...

In this episode, Ian talks through your own improvement adventure that you should not have to adapt to but there are occasions when conformity is acceptable and that straight area where you extend out of your comfort zone to continue to grow, to be the greatest version of yourself, and to find ever more effective methods to fit in while being true to yourself. Don’t miss: Ian talks about how you'l...

In this episode, Ian chats with Richard Burton, a driven coach that focuses on putting people's abilities to work in occupations they enjoy. Richard concentrates his coaching on three critical areas: career, leadership, and team culture. His efforts have lately expanded into schools and colleges, where he teaches students how to create their professions in a rapidly changing environment. His enthu...

In this episode, Ian explains that action encourages self and confidence. If you want to overcome fear, do not remain at home and dwell on it; instead, engage in productive activities. Since you deserve it, you must make the promise to yourself that you will do whatever it takes to achieve your life's goals. Don’t miss: Ian discusses that pushing ahead reduces the uncertainty and dread that we fee...

In this episode, Ian recognises that certain injuries and diseases that you’ve had throughout time have really appeared at a period of high stress,or mental battle, and the  the message of your body will get more powerful until you learn the lesson of releasing whatever it is that has to be released. Don’t miss: Ian explains that the fact that you are going through such a great deal of emotio...

In this episode, Ian explains why simply a discussion of sadness upon grief upon grief that threw you over the brink, and something that shouldn't have been that distressing tipped you over. And the reason why this irritates your family, friends, and admirers is because there is an aspect of them feeling out of control of the situation. Don’t miss: How frequently do you feel powerless? Ian reflect...

In this episode, Ian reflects on a wide range of topics and is devastating for the individual in question. He also reflects on how someone has been harmed in an accident, and how frequently accidents happen. Don’t miss: Ian discusses the consequences of how much accidents slow you down. Ian explains how a traffic jam causes you to be impatient, distracted, and frustrated.  How utterly out of...

In this episode, Ian discusses that you are energy and that your vibration is what draws different things into your life. The more everything changes. And the farther you go down the rabbit hole, the more you realise who you are and what you're capable of. Don’t miss: Ian explains that in order to heal, we need to connect with ourselves. The more we do this, the more we realise that we are this vi...

In this episode, Ian chats with a 7-figure business entrepreneur and helps coaches grow and scale their businesses, Mark Bowness. Mark is a driven individual that enjoys assisting and inspiring others to make the most of their lives and live them to the fullest Don’t miss: Mark talks about how he struggled on reaching his dreams by constantly sending in information about himself  Mark discuss...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian talk through how the messages become more powerful when you are not paying attention in which your body will give you a little ticker with a feather to get your attention and when you have an illness you can have a really deep understanding of what each of the body parts are telling us. Don’t miss: Ian explains how the body sends us messages that are crystal ap...

In this episode, Ian discusses how unresolved and known grief can be released to aid you in letting go, processing, and regulating your unpleasant emotions, and paints a complete picture of both sensation and concept. Don’t miss: Ian explains how to allow whatever bodily sensations you are experiencing, rather than resisting them, and allow them in. Ian leads you through a guided meditation to ass...

In this episode, Ian shows his commemoration for ANZAC day and how he appreciate all the fallen soldiers who served the country and demonstrated their patriotism toward our nation and learning how to find healthy method to express emotions towards emotional moments. Don’t miss: Ian discussed numerous techniques to express or conceal our feelings.  How Ian may drastically alter your physiology...

In this episode, Ian discussed the different fears that possibly grow and keep recurring and that they purposely increase the number of pain cells in order to appeal to the part of you that is drawn to them.  Don’t miss: How harmful that was to my entire existence, especially mentally and emotionally How to let go of more unresolved and undisclosed issues that are residing within you The nega...

In this episode, Marie Alessi interviewed Ian on how a loss affects us, how we go ahead after a loss, what legacy we want to leave for our departed loved ones, and how he surpasses his healing path  Don’t miss: How expressing your emotions help you hold your space and keep it together How Loss was affecting my connection with my family and keeping it all together How Ian get through the first...

In this episode, Ian discussed how to deal with emotions and anger particularly in the workplace. And how to allow yourself to come in and then release them because a lot of the blockages around emotion come because we're trying to resist those emotions.  Don’t miss: How meditation allows us to explore and regulate our emotions How Ian deals with different emotional reactions and tries to shu...

In this episode, Ian shares with you his thoughts and experience about not allowing yourself to be deterred by other people’s opinions and continuing on your growth journey where you will find better connection and growth.   Don’t miss: How Ian went through his unresolved emotional grief because he allowed himself to be influenced in a negative way by other people’s judgments Going after...

In today’s episode, Ian talks about the number of ways that you can change how you have been operating and find that one percent to take it to a whole new level. He also shares with you his thoughts on one of the gifts of loss that leads to your instinctive side to navigate different things.  Don’t miss: How Ian runs all his decisions through a filter Thinking about your journey and how far y...

In today’s episode, Ian talks about experiencing deep loss and the gift of a deeper connection to the inner world that is beyond you.   Don’t miss: How Ian attracts people into his coaching One of the greatest gifts of experiencing loss Dealing with grief in the best way that you can Learning and understanding that there is more to life than questions you are yet to know the answers Deep...