The Grief Code

Episode Summary In this episode, it's fascinating to hear Ian and Irina's take on how they overcame their grief and came out the other side as better parents as a result. Irina revealed that she struggled to go through a significant milestone in her life without the support of someone she had grown to rely on. Learn the art of mastering your own feelings and those of others, especially your childr...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian shares his experience as a parent and how inspiring and difficult it is to deal with children, especially when you recognise yourself in them. Understand that they are behaving and thinking on their own, apart from yours. You may see yourself in them, but there are times when they can decide on their own. Let them know that every option has repercussions. Learn...

Episode Summary In this episode, At a young age, Ian understands the value of having choice over his own destiny by making decisions and accepting the consequences. The future that you hold is within the decisions that you are making right now.  Sometimes, the best way to raise children is to step back and let them figure out their own lives. The best thing you can do for your kids is give th...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian talks about how to specifically negotiate your children's emotions during adolescence. How to connect with your children's emotions by putting yourself in their shoes and considering how you would like to be connected with them when you were their age. Learn to empathise with them and validate their sentiments about their confidence. Understand that they need t...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian discusses how excited he is for the upcoming year and what it's like to come up with a game plan to know which direction you want to take and where you want to be.  How to get into the correct psychological state for your personal and professional life. Discover the meaning of inspiration and how to apply it to your own life. Understand the importance of b...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian and Elkie talks about how to connect your energy of your loved one and how to navigate your emotions. Don’t miss: Learn to control your feelings so that people' opinions of your choices are either confirmed or disregarded. Take the time to educate yourself on how to comfort a loved one who is going through a difficult period. In the end, it doesn't matter if yo...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian explains how the time and effort you're devoting to preparing for the holidays may be redirected into preparing for your future. Don’t miss: Discover the format that you can stick to and that will free your mind to think freely. Understand that the decisions you make today will determine the course of your future. Learn how to maximise the benefits of planning...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian discussed lack of clarity and motivation for the year that you felt stuck.  Don’t miss: Understanding the steps that need to be taken will provide you with the clarity as well as the appropriate desire to proceed. Learn that your emotions will impact every aspect of your decision making. How to determine the most important priorities and the essential elem...

  Episode Summary In this episode, Ian discusses how quickly time passes and how opportunities are just around the bend. Don’t miss: How you slacked off and what has to be done about it.  Understand that you need to take action to get the results that you want Learn that you need to make the best out of every opportunity that comes your way. Heal your unresolved and unknown grief: https:...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian explains how things work with our lives according to everyone else's standards. Don’t miss: Learn that you are looking forward to a conversation with someone that will allow them to have an emotional connection to their own narrative. after which it sends them on a journey based on their own preferences. Understand that you must find your voice and course of ac...

Episode Summary Ian and Lisa discussed the importance of learning to honour one's physical self and pay attention to what it has to say. And how our physical selves respond to invisible stimuli. Don’t miss: How to put queries to your mind and let it work to find answers if you don't know them. Learn not to disrupt the pattern of behaviour or you will find yourself in the same situation over and ov...

Episode Summary  In this episode, Ian explains that security comes from having a long-term plan to continue to develop financial security.  Don’t Miss: Learn that security is not going to come with a magic bullet or a way to get rich quick. But from having a strategy, a strategy that has been proven to work.  Know the fundamental principles of being able to slow down and get clear,...

Episode Summary In this podcast, Ian discusses the importance of learning to control your feelings and how this skill can help you achieve a more stable emotional center. Don’t miss: How your emotions break you out of the patterns that keep you stuck and make you act a certain way. Understanding that your loved ones may be negatively affected by your emotional instability. Find out how you can get...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian talks on how to create a setting where people feel safe enough to come up with their own solutions to challenges and putting in the time to listen before implementing new strategies to strengthen bonds Don’t miss: Learn that you need to make it possible for people to come up with their own solutions to problems. Understand that you need to improve your ability...

Episode Summary  In this episode, Ian explains why failure is inevitable without dedication, and that bad choices lead to failure.  Don’t miss: Learn that your choice won't affect the things that are most important to you in life, and it will be easy to decide. Understand that you are making decisions based on aspects that are not significant.   How to put everything you do through...

Episode Summary Ian and John discuss how yesterday's actions affect you today. You'll reap what you sowed yesterday, whether it's sorrow or pride. Don’t miss: How to overcome guilt while seeking the positive in life Understanding that most men react emotionally with fury. Men’s defensive rage may get you through stressful situations.  Realizing that relying on the approval of others will lead...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian talks about how we have access to more accurate information due to a constant flow of data. Don’t miss: Realise the importance of paying attention to the predefined answers to you Your subconscious will continue to bring up issues that demand your attention until you learn the lesson. Believe in yourself. You won't feel inadequate when facing repeated situation...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian discusses the value of exercise, the love that pushes you to work out, and the need to honour oneself rather than rely on competition. Don’t miss: How to think more clearly with ideas that inspires you the most Learn to concentrate on the purpose behind your exercise Understand that your main goal is to improve and get away from the past pattern behaviours Heal...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian discusses how a parent's true legacy is not the money they leave their children but rather the wisdom and life skills they acquire from them. Don’t miss: Understanding that you're teaching children to make change, and aid is right around the corner if they know where to search or ask. Self-empowerment comes from inside, not others. The potential for positive ch...

  Episode Summary In this episode, Ian talks about the challenge of influencing a youngster to change and offers advice on how to break a child's habitual patterns of behaviour. Don’t miss: How to provide a good example for your child and be a positive influence in their lives by encouraging them to make positive changes on their own and showing them how to do so. What are the potential influ...

Episode Summary Ian chats with a passionate man who is devoted to helping fathers be the best that they can be, Kevin Williams. Kevin and Ian had a splendid time talking about navigating family grief. Don’t miss: Learning to understand the circumstances that surround you better. Recognizing the protection you are getting to create greater connections with yourself, the important persons in your li...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian talks about working on oneself and the things you may discover, as well as some of the ways in which you may develop that are not taught in schools.  Don’t miss: The experience that you have realised is achievable for humanity, provided that you are able to steer them in the proper way and begin with yourself. How to fully comprehend that there are some pe...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian explains why it's never too late to start working toward the stable financial future you've always dreamed of, regardless of how much knowledge or experience you already have. Don’t miss: How can someone find out about the recurring setback for which you have no explanation. Recognizing the source of your feelings of helplessness and the recurring nature of the...

Episode Summary In this episode, Ian wants you to discover the appropriate approach, and a good coach can help you do that. They can help you figure out where you're lacking the resources you need to reach your goals. Whatever barriers you're facing, whether they're in your mind or not, they can be broken down with their assistance. Don’t miss: Finding the perfect and most helpful coach who can he...

Episode Summary Gambling always has two sides; you either win or you lose. In this episode, Ian talks about the parallels between gambling and life, and how both can be enjoyable when you're successful. However, when you lose, defeat can cause you to give up suddenly. Don’t miss: How easy it is to get hooked on anything when you're always coming out on top in life's gamble. Some people can't put i...