The Greatest Covenant

If you are new to marriage, have you ever wondered what your love language is? What is that something that makes you feel loved, or something that you know makes your spouse feel loved? In this episode we delve into the different types of love languages and what each one means in your relationship. We also discuss our specific love languages and how they have impacted our relationship!

Have you ever been at a place in your marriage, when things that used to be one way, change? Like, you're looking at your situation and wondering, when did things take a turn... sometimes for the better and sometimes not so well. In this episode, we talk about how circumstances can cause changes in your marriage and how these changes can affect a relationship. We discusses some of the changes...

As we go through life, different generations have different experiences. Growing up, we certainly had different experiences from what kids and parents experience today. In this episode, we give a little advice from a Gen X perspective. Join us on this fun episode.

Parenting can be difficult and challenging, but being Godly parents adds a totally different dynamic to parenting. As believers, we strive to be like Jesus in every way, and that same thought process applies to parenting. In this episode, we discuss being Godly parents; truly being led by God when we are rearing our children.

Intimacy. When we think of this word, most times we link it directly to sex. But intimacy is so much more than sex. It’s about developing a connection with your spouse that is greater than just sex. In this episode, we tackle this topic of intimacy and how we had to learn the difference between intimacy and sex, and how it brought a deeper connection to our relationship.

In season one, we did an episode on Love and Respect. It was based on Ephesians 5: 22-33. The focus of that episode was mainly the husband and how he is to love his wife. For this episode, we flip it and chat about the wife and how she is to be an example for her husband. This episode is based on1 Peter 3:1-7. 

Do you find yourself having difficult times? At some point, we will all experience difficult situations in our lives. But in those difficult times, are we trusting God? Are we believing that God will help us through these difficult times? In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to trust God when we are experiencing difficult times.

Before we got married, I’m sure we all had our own vision and design for our marriage. We had our own expectations and desires of what we thought our marriage was going to be and look like. We went into it with 20/20 vision. But once we got married, our vision will get more and more blurry to the point of needing visual correction. What is that correction? Well, it’s God. Once we add God to the mi...

How do we deal with outside influences in our marriages? Outside influences can be work, children, money…anything that can potentially have a negative effect on a marriage. In this episode, we talk about these influences and how we have been able to include them in our relationship in a healthy way.

Happy New Year! In this episode, we will be talking about our goals and desires for 2023, individually, as a couple and for our ministry. God wants to do something miraculously in marriages and relationships and we feel like we can be a catalyst for what He wants. Join us as we discuss 2023 and what our plans will be.

In marriage, communication is absolutely important. However, there may be times that we feel like we are angry and our spouse deserves the silent treatment. We feel that by giving the silent treatment, we may be able to get our point across. But the silent treatment can be detrimental to any relationship. In this episode, we discuss this very topic and how it affected our relationship and the step...

**We were so excited to record this episode with our son and his future wife!** BJ and Chloe met 3 years ago, and a love  story formed. They have been engage for about a year and a half and are on the road to marriage. In this episode, we interview them and get their perspective on being engaged and what they’ve learned about each other, where they are in their relationship with each other, h...

We believe that in all marriages there is a need for a battle for control. And not the type of control that God had in mind. In this episode, we discuss the need for control between a husband and wife and how it started with Adam, Eve and the enemy and how with that one bite, everything just got all out of whack. We talk about how this need for control affected our relationship and how with God’s...

Is there such a thing? I mean, you married your best friend, for better or for worse, in sickness in inhealth. But sometimes, just because you have married the love of your life and have a loving and fruitful marriage, doesn’t mean that there isn’t loneliness. Join us as we discuss our times of loneliness in our marriage and how we overcame it and continue to persevere through it.

Has the trust in your marriage been broken? It was in our marriage for years. It was a long, hard-fought road to restore the trust and we stand stronger than ever. How did we do it? Take a listen and you will find out what worked for us and how God was the only one that could restore the trust. In this episode, we talk about Trust in Marriage and why it is so important.

Do you know how to effectively resolve conflict? At one point in our marriage, we didn’t. But we eventually did understand and know that issues didn’t get resolved with anger, silence or negative attitude. In this episode, we talk about ways of resolving conflict in marriage.

Do you or your spouse find yourselves angry all of the time? Is it affecting your marriage? How do you deal with anger in marriage? In this episode, we will be chatting about Anger in Marriage and how it affects your relationship, steps to deal with your anger and as always, talking about how we dealt with anger we had in our marriage.

Leaving and Cleaving~it’s such an important topic when it comes to marriage. At times it can be a struggle for couples and if not done correctly, can be detrimental to a relationship. In this episode, we chat about this topic and how it shaped our relationship, what God says about it and advice for those that may be struggling with it. PSA: This episode was previously recorded right after the new...

Is there a right way or a wrong way to discipline your child? In today’s episode, we delve into the world of parenting and discipline and how we handled it, and how we feel God wants us, as believers, to handle it. Tune in and enjoy!

In this episode, we close out the discussion of addiction and codependency. Cassandra gets personal and vulnerable as she lays out what she thought was the answer to her husband’s addiction. We wrap up with transformation and healing, only God can give.

In this episode, we talk about something that we’ve been putting off for a while. Brendon will get really vulnerable and discuss life with an addiction. How it has affected him and Cassandra and how it affected our marriage. Listen as we discuss a very personal aspect of our marriage.

In this episode, we find out the thoughts of Cassandra. She focuses on one issue, that is a hot topic in today’s society and that is Mental Health. Ladies, going through emotional and hormonal changes, can wreak havoc on our mental health. I know that it did for me. Take a listen and hear my story of my mental health struggles and how I have been able to handle them.

We wanted to do something a little bit different this episode. Wives, have you ever wanted to know what your husband was thinking? I asked Brendon to give thoughts, wisdom, advice to husbands based on things that he has been thinking about. Listen, as he talks about what’s on his mind!

The last two years have been very challenging, sometimes frustrating, isolating…just a way of life that many of us were not used to. And some may still be living this way. But married life and COVID-19, for some couples it has been a challenge. It’s no different for us. Our life has definitely changed, in some ways for the better and some ways for the worse. Join us as we chat about what our life...

Praying for each other is so important in marriage. In this episode, we chat about this very subject and how prayer has affected our lives, individually and together. Prayer has brought us closer in so many ways. So, our prayer is that this episode will encourage you to start praying, continuing praying for each other.