The Great Trans American Road Trip

Join us from Las Vegas, Nevada as we talk about trans endurance and community in the middle of what feels like a vast and endless desert. In this episode, we talk to Dr. Archie Grimley, MD, AAHIVS, a non-binary doctor who has built a practice and personal oasis in the southern tip of Nevada. In our interview, we’ll discuss medical courage and the epidemic of pre-compliance, trans broken arm syndro...

Join us from Salt Lake City, Utah as we talk about trans resilience in the face of almost unthinkably harsh conditions. In this episode, we talk to Kam, a non-binary parent in a split-religion household who left the Church of Later Day Saints after attempting to reconcile their lifelong faith with their newly-discovered truth. In our interview, we’ll discuss parenting while trans, transitioning wi...

Join us from Bakersfield, CA while we talk about the idea of “home” as trans people in this supremely weird and terrifying moment. In this episode, we discuss family estrangement, why being in a perpetual state of “crisis mode” can be addicting, and what to do when your home rejects you and you have to redefine it entirely. We’ll also explore why there are so many transmascs in Humboldt, a really...

Join us from a redwood forest somewhere in California as we talk about magic mushrooms. In this episode, we talk about the D.A.R.E. generation, the ins and outs of tripping, this one time where Flint was a net, and hot girls with tummy troubles. We’ll also explore neuroplasticity and psilocybin, the day we figured out the meaning of life, why Xilo is still limping two days after our last trip, and...

Join us (again) from Ashland, Oregon as we talk about the absolutely bonkers news cycle of the last week, but mostly about co-regulation. In this episode, we talk about why traditional 9-5s can be so soul-crushing for trans and neurodivergent people, why we think our parents never taught us how to talk about money, and how to build a “regulation charcuterie.” We’ll also explore the differences bet...

Join us from Ashland, Oregon as we talk all about the ins and outs of grief. Why does it feel so hard to do it right, and what are we supposed to do when there’s no time or space to grieve? In this episode we talk about rituals and cultural touchstones for grief, how our brains work super hard to keep us safe even when it fucks us over, and what it’s like to get paid to infodump onto teenagers. We...

Join us from Bend, Oregon as we discuss passing and identity perception. What do we do when the way we see ourselves and the way others see us doesn’t line up? What control do we have over it, if any, and how does it impact our safety and sense of self as we travel the country? In this episode, we talk clothing-optional gay men's resorts in Palm Springs, on trying (and failing) to “just be lesbian...

*Scroll to the bottom for updates* Join us from Boise, Idaho as we discuss what it takes to feel safe as a trans person in the United States during a profoundly unsafe time. How do we escape scarcity enough to show up for each other, and what do we do when learning one new thing about ourselves topples the identity Jenga tower all together? In this episode, we talk gay doctors, slime allergies, th...